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Hi i am Naela i would be more than glad to answer you a question i promise i would be 100% honest with you. and please don't forget to comment,rate or send a feedback


thank you,
NW:)

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so ive been writing poems and i was wondering if you could read them and tell me what you think:)
they're kind of depressing..

Her skin tells her story
Her arms recite her past
Her face is full of sorrow
Her smile will never last
What once started out so simple
Soon spiraled out of control
She thought she’d never let it go too far
But she was lost after her first scar
She mistakenly turned to a sick obsession
She found release in her own pain
She used her blade as her own weapon
And could breathe from the scarlet stain
If you looked at her you’d never know
She never lets her pain show
She hides behind laughter and smiles
All her problems look so mild
So when she tells you her story
When she admits to her past
Maybe you’ll understand her sorrow
And why her smile never lasts

her arms are scarred and bloody
her face is black and blue
her feet are wet and muddy
and theres nothing she can do
shes blinded by her tears
shes chained up to the wall
but in the darkness she can hear
footsteps in the hall
silently she waits
for the opening of the door
the withered face of sorrow
greets her with hands that are torn
she counts her highest heart beats
and swallows every breath
opening her eyes slowly
she stares into the face of death
no one can ever guess
the secrets within a knife
he presses the blade to her chest
and slowly ends her life


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its amazing i love it


Anyone know where I can watch online and for free??? (link)
you should try MOVIE2K.COM or LETMEWATCHTHIS.COM
hope it helps
NW:)


hi, i'm 12 and i'm a girl . in my class there is this guy i like, in class i sit next to him sometimes when we have to sit in alferbetical order. when his friend or anyone asks are we going out or do we like each other we both go ewww!!! he annoying a bit though. but that's how i know he doesn't like me because he goes ewww anytime someone asks. i really need to know what to do and if you could help me thank you!!!!! :) (link)
well you said your self that you go eww even when you like him so you are not so sure that he doesn't like you so it might take time but its worth it to know the answer
hope it helps
NW:)


Hi there,

I don't know that your English skills are good enough to have an account here. A good example is:

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=606771

He wanted to know about an awful thing he wanted to do to get back at his ex-wife, who is evil.

You told him to send her things she would like. He doesn't want her to like it.

Please re-think your answers here. Some of the others also make it obvious you didn't understand what the person was asking.

Please go back and re-read questions you have answered. See if you can better understand, and edit your answers.

If not, then we will have to close your account.

Thank you. (link)
thank you for being honest
and i am sorry for the miss understanding
it shall not happen again
have a nice day
NW:)


My girlfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half and she's been the best thing that ever happened to me. She came to me when I was heart broken and confused from my last relationship, and she nursed me back to health. Though, me being the idiot that I am, I didn't appreciate what she did for me at that time, and I went and cheated on her. I've already went through the guilt stages where I've beaten myself up behind the guilt and completely wore myself out mentally. I know I already don't deserve her and should come clean. The thing is, I love her so much now, and really just want whats best for her, even if the best isn't me. I just want to know a good way to come clean and how to bring it up to her. (link)
okay, that might sound weird but show her this page i mean what you wrote and tell her that you tried to find the best way to do that and tell her that you are afraid and dont forget to tell her how you feel coz in the end honesty is the policy in any relationship right?
hope it helps!
NW:)


We were playing Bowl of Questions and it got really deep and secrect and she trusted me with all these secrects..and later on I spilled one secrect to my brother..he told a few people..and now everyone knows..I tried apologizing she just said "that doesn't change anything" what should i do? (link)
she is right how ever the game you were playing you shouldn't have gone that far if i was her i wouldn't forgive i mean.. put yourself in her place you would have felt disappointed coz you lost a big secret and your friend's trust so i think that you should let her pick your punishment that is all i could say
hope it helps!
NW:)


Hi, I'm an 18 year-old female, fresh out of high school, and I've never dated anyone. Ever. Never had a boyfriend, never been kissed, never been on a date even. I've been asked to a couple dances, but that's about the extent of it. And that's sort of on purpose. See, I never wanted to date anyone, firstly because most of the guys at the schools I have gone to have been complete jerks, but mostly because I'm very serious about relationships. Most middle school relationships last about a month max. Plus at the time I wanted to focus on having fun with school and friends, and sports. High school relationships have a bit more potential than middle school ones of course, but they're so drama-filled, time consuming, and just plain stressful. Plus, there's a slim chance they'll actually succeed after high school. So, I made the decision not to date anyone until college, and that was probably one of the smartest decisions I've ever made. I could just focus on growing up, focus on MY issues, and I was free to do what I wanted, when I wanted with my friends (with my parents' permission, of course, haha).

Now that I'll be in college, I'm allowing myself to date. But... I'm EXTREMELY inexperienced. So I know basically nothing about relationships. The main problem is, I'm a Christian, so I really want to save myself, my virginity, until marriage. It's just... something that I've had a long time to ponder and pray about, and it just feels like something God wants me to do. And it's something I want too, for me and my future husband. But nowadays, ESPECIALLY nowadays, that's not an easy task. We're bombarded with sex on TV, in movies and media, it's just everywhere! Even a lot of my own friends are no longer virgins. And the majority of sex is featured with non-married couples. I know it's okay to go without sex in high school, (although it's becoming increasingly uncommon), but is it the same with adult relationships? I mean, premarital sex has just become a common thing.

Basically, I just want to know if I'll be able to go out into the relationship world and not be a laughing stock who'll end up dying alone (after all, that is a huge fear of mine). >>; I mean, sex seems to be this regular activity for couples, and I don't want to be laughed at by a boyfriend when he goes to take off my pants and I tell him no. I'm prepared for that, but I want to know if it's possible nowadays to even have a successful relationship without sex. Is it possible? Do couples HAVE to have sex? Thank you for your time. :] (link)
No,couples shouldn't have sex coz if you found a guy that wants to have sex too fast that means he wants your body not you, yes sex have been every where movies,TV shows (etc..) but that doesn't make it possible for every one and when a guy grows up and want to get married he would always want a pure girl not a used one it might take a while but that's the thing about love it takes a while but that what makes it special it could happen any where any time it just pops in the right time so just coz your friends made a lot of things that shouldn't mean you should too, you should be proud that you focused on education coz this is what will help you in life and not boy friends and all of your friends kissed dated and made everything except for focusing on what will really help them in life and dont feel odd you should feel special picture it as a mountain of pearls all used except for one glowing one in the middle YOU! now this will attract a guy's attention when it comes to real life commitment

hope it helps
NW:)


I was thinking that my ex-wife was such a b**** that at 3 am I would stand on her front lawn screaming the Christmas song must be santa in the middle of July what do you think (link)
i think you shouldn't sing i am sorry to say this but you would look a little bit foolish
sorry
NW:)


What do you do . when someone is mad at you.... you apologized? they don't respond back. I swore to God that i would leave them alone. but still i want to talk to them like i want them to talk to me. and i'm talking about this one guy he is like a big brother to me seriously. but i don't know. he is angry i told one person something i didn't tell him. i was mad at that time though. so i didn't feel like repeating myself. when i'm mad or sad i only need one listening ear you know? i hate repeating myself . please someone ....i think i know i should just wait. until he talks to me but i don't know . any ideas? on what i should do to keep myself from thinking about it? (link)
look,if he is a BIG BROTHER like u said he wouldn't be mad and make a big deal about it he would understand you, you know what i mean...so just text him or directly ask him "IF YOU WERE A GOOD FRIEND YOU WOULD HAVE UNDERSTOOD AND NOT MAKING A WHOLE BIG DEAL ABOUT IT ,SO SERIOUSLY STOP ACTING LIKE A CHILD AND LISTEN" so i am pretty sure he would talk back to you
hope it helps
NW:)


hi im 12/f,
in two days its going to be my bday usually im extremely excited but not this time:”(
well im really sad because my brother is treating me like crap and all i hear is 'your not gettin anything' from my families mouth like idk wat to do now _ im always like “wtf ma mom should've aborted me”;{
im at the point where idk wat 2 do with my life;{
any advice????:}
THANKS!!!!!!! (link)
look life could be bad and specially brothers can make a pain in the butt so i suggest to hold it until ur bday then you can speak and i am pretty sure they will listen coz you are the bday girl so hope it helps
and happy bday
NW:)


All day i have been feeling like something is really wrong. I have been taking deep breaths to calm down, but i feel very uneasy. Im nervous for no reason, & i cant shake this feeling. Am i going crazy or is this normal? Im thinking of everything & everyone i know. I really dont know why i feel like this. Help? Cuz im really a minute away from calling & texting everyone &their mother... (link)
don't worry its nothing this happens to every girl from ages 11-16 its called growing coz when you do your body changes (hormones) its normal everyone passed through this time you will be ok it will coz when you dont know whats wrong you worry more but when you know it helps 80% so wait and relax and it will go away by time
hope it helps
NW:)


Alright well I'm 14 and my best friend is 13 and were both guys, I'm just wondering if we have a good friendship and if I should hold onto it. We have had some trouble in the past because I'm bi and I used to like him and I told him about 4 months ago but then I decided to lie and say I didn't like him so we could stay friends.. Anyways we are really good friends in my opinion we can hang out with each other for 5 days and not get sick of each other we hang out all the time, we don't really talk about EVERYTHING tho.. We talk about everything except my being bi or "used" to like him or anything sexual, but I mean we have lots of inside jokes and when we hang out we always laugh and stuff. The other day I asked him in person how good of I friend I was and I said be 100% honest and he told he I was at the top :) It's hard being friends with someone you like but I feel like I need a good friend like this. And also is it a problem that I always text first? And usually I am the one to ask to hang out but when I do he ALWAYS says "sure" and we always have fun? Good friendship!?!???? (link)
i would say its not a very good friendship so i think you should tell him the truth and see his answer
hope it helps
NW:)


how to make him love me more and get attracted to me ? (link)
you cant make him love but you should show him how much you are worth not $$$ but you know.. beauty, mystery .. coz any guy love mystery it makes him want more so every you speak get close and drop a mystery word!
hope it helps
NW:)


Hi, My name is Haley Williams Im 13 and I want to see if this guy likes me well... Ive talked to him a few times at like homecoming and stuff like that at school but its been about a year since I last talked to him and well im friends with him on facebook but im scared to message him and ya its kinda hard to explain but anyways he is a friend of my cousins and I told her about me liking him and she said well does he like you and I paused and finally replied I dont know and well what should I do I like him alot and I have butterflies everytime I talk to him can u help me.? (link)
this sounds really cute and nice boys can be hard,but... nice they take our minds away and let let our hearts lead us so i suggest that you give him tests not real ones but look in his eyes when he talks to you and you should feel if you have a connection when he is around do something ... i don't like... fall!! it sounds embarrassing but see if he will help you then start a conversation about clumsiness and stuff... it might help
just cross your finger and follow your heart


my best friend's mom hates me! last night she listened into our convo on the phone then ally (bff) called back and told me that we weren't allowed to be friends anymore then her mom told me that she listened and didn't appreciate what i said about her(i don't like her) and she hung up. i started crying really hard for like five minutes, then ally called back again and said that her mom said that she crossed theline by listening in and that we could be friends as long as i don't go over to ally's house. it makes me feel better, but i still can't get it out of my head. i still want to be friends with her, but i don't want to deal with her mom. what should i do??!?!?!?!?!?!?
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look, best friend's mom can be hard... i don't blame you,but even if she crossed the line so did you, i am not taking sides but what would you feel if ally said the same thing about your mom?
you would feel bad ....so my point is don't ignore just face it and apologies if she didn't forgive you then just be nice to her ... i mean if i was her i would be mad!
here is an advice if you think that by gossiping with your best friend just know that even if no one is around that doesn't give you the right to gossip,but in the end god is always watching so we are never alone!
hope it helps you :)




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