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i should be happy thatmy bdayis in 2 days butim NOT:/
hi im 12/f,
in two days its going to be my bday usually im extremely excited but not this time:”(
well im really sad because my brother is treating me like crap and all i hear is 'your not gettin anything' from my families mouth like idk wat to do now _ im always like “wtf ma mom should've aborted me”;{
im at the point where idk wat 2 do with my life;{
any advice????:}
THANKS!!!!!!!
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ur obviusly just letting what your brother said just get to you.if it make you feel any better i got a bottle of mascara for my birthday from my mom and i asked her why and she said i was ingrateful for the one thing i got for my irthday.im not ecited about my 13th either and mines in 3 weeks and i geuss thats just hoe some people are.
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look life could be bad and specially brothers can make a pain in the butt so i suggest to hold it until ur bday then you can speak and i am pretty sure they will listen coz you are the bday girl so hope it helps
and happy bday
NW:)
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This is called sibling rivalry. It is your brothers lot in life, be he older or younger, to make your life miserable. It sounds like you are letting him succeed. Why and why now?
Actually two can play that game if you want but why lower yourself to that level. Just ignore him. By ignoring him and not allowing him to make your life miserable you are making his life miserable. You also need to tell your parents what he is saying for there is always an underlying reason for this rivalry. He must feel that you are favored for some reason and that is his catalyst for trying to make you feel as he may be feeling.
So just stay away from him and when he does say something come up with a smart reply that he won't understand. That will get him madder and he will probably taunt you some more. Which is okay if you make it a game that he can't win.
Once he realizes he can no longer hurt you this way he will go off and do something else.
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Trust me there are people who are twice your age that don't have life figured out. The secret is nobody does and we all have lessons to learn and do our best with what we have. You have the whole world and life yet to unfold so stay in there and wait to see what opportunities come.
If you want to die now than that's wrong and perhaps something you better see a doctor about as it's not normal behavior to think this at all much less at 12. You could be clinically depressed even. Could your family be pulling your leg trying to throw you off of a gift or your brother being a snot? That's likely it.
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