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Long story short. I was put in a situation last night and was "in the moment."
We were making out he was fingering me and pulled my pants down to eat me out.. he laid on top of me and i do THINK he had boxers/ pants on but if he didnt would it be a huge pregnancy risk? I know you can get pregnant from precum but it would have been on top of my vagina and not in it, also not ablot because i didnt feel anything wet down there.... i dont want to be told how dumb it is because i now know, when i realized he was on top of me i pushed him off and walked out..
ALSO i texted him and asked if he ever took his pants/boxers off and he said a pretty flat out no, would guys lie about that?
This is all for future refrence and to know a little more..
Please help!
Signed,
Young&Stupid.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Pregnancy?
You may be young but you are not stupid. Maybe a little careless but that goes along with being young. The only stupid question is the one not asked.
Okay question one:"pregnant from precum but it would have been on top of my vagina and not in it"
Answer:The fact that you didn't feel anything wet down there says the chances are remote. For future reference you can, if all circumstances are right. Which would include the boy cumming very close to your vaginal opening, to be come pregnant even though there was not penetration. The chances as I said are remote but it has happened.
Question two:"would guys lie about that?"
Answer: They will kick me out of the guys club for this answer; then again I'm to old for membership anyway. Young boys lie about everything when it comes to sex. You know the boy and you know what you felt. The fact that you didn't feel anything wet says maybe he told you the truth. Fact is you know what you felt. If you felt skin to skin contact, then he lied to you.
Do I think your pregnant? The risk is low. You can learn something from this. I won't lecture you on waiting but I will offer advice on safe sex.
If you are going to let a boy take his pants off then make him put a condom on even if you are not planning on having intercourse. There are two reasons for this. First you are protecting yourself from events like the one that just happened. Second you are training him for when you are ready to have intercourse that he must wear a condom. There is also a third reason. Hopefully you won't let this happen but in the situation as you described sometimes passion caused loss of better judgement and things go to far. By making him wear a condom if his pants are off in your making out then at least you have some protection from unwanted pregnancy.
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"would guys lie about that?" - How would we know? Every guy is different. You can only take his word for it.
Can you get pregnant if he had boxers on? No.
Can you get pregnant if you didn't have boxers on, but was on top of you? Possibly. You only need one sperm cell to make it's way in, and then technically it's possible.
It's highly improbable though. If he was just on top of you, and not inside you, the chances of any sperm making there way inside is VERY unlikely. There would have to be enough fluid for them to travel, and the harshness of the atmosphere probably would have killed them.
If you are worried, take a few pregnancy tests two weeks or so after the incident. But it doesn't seem to be anything serious.
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