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Do we have a good friendship?
Alright well I'm 14 and my best friend is 13 and were both guys, I'm just wondering if we have a good friendship and if I should hold onto it. We have had some trouble in the past because I'm bi and I used to like him and I told him about 4 months ago but then I decided to lie and say I didn't like him so we could stay friends.. Anyways we are really good friends in my opinion we can hang out with each other for 5 days and not get sick of each other we hang out all the time, we don't really talk about EVERYTHING tho.. We talk about everything except my being bi or "used" to like him or anything sexual, but I mean we have lots of inside jokes and when we hang out we always laugh and stuff. The other day I asked him in person how good of I friend I was and I said be 100% honest and he told he I was at the top :) It's hard being friends with someone you like but I feel like I need a good friend like this. And also is it a problem that I always text first? And usually I am the one to ask to hang out but when I do he ALWAYS says "sure" and we always have fun? Good friendship!?!????
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i would say its not a very good friendship so i think you should tell him the truth and see his answer
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NW:)
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Its nothing wrong with your sexuality be proud of it ! Okay he may not float that way and you mustn't force it on him . But i say keep the friendship and cherish it because you may not find too many real friends out there . He may just not understand and he probably don't know what your intentions are. Talk to him, yes tell him you like him but that's not the point you'd rather be friends and the fact that you like him doesn't change a thing ! & tell him that it seems as if he doesn't want to hangout because you always have to ask first. Don't get me wrong you love the time you guys have but you would like to be shown that . If he understands than trust me sweetheart things will get better . He just need a little time to learn how to deal with this but its not wrong to be attracted to a friend . Its not . Goodluck !
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Hey. I read your question. First off let me say that there is nothing wrong for being who you are; If you are bi, gay, a lesbian, transgender, etc. It doesn't matter. You should have people that love you and support you!
Now, here is my answer. I honestly think that this is not a good friendship. I think the hanging out, laughing, making jokes, etc. all is great for a guy friendship or any friendship, but what I am trying to say is that maybe if you told him that you like(d) him, it wouldn't have been a good friendship. The thing is, you should always be able to talk to your friends even if it is something stupid. Talk to him, let him know how you feel. He is not a good friend if he says "ew" or tell other people about it. He should be the type of friend to tell you "If you are bi, then I support you! I am sorry I don't have the same feelings about you. Let's keep our friendship instead!"
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I don't see the problem. You two have a great friendship together. Not many guys have genuine friendships like this. But you liking your best friend is a different story. I would tell you to be honest and tell him that you like him, but you said that it could ruin your friendship. If he accepts you for who you are, then that's great. I'd say there are other people you could look for instead of your best firend, but it depends on how deep your feelings are. Overall, I hope you guys keep this friendship.
~Andrew~
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