I'm Ray, & i'm different . Not that type of different that everyone claim to be, so i appreciate this everyday . It isn't so bad actually so i have fun with it . I love giving advice and i do not tell anyone any wrong or misleading advice . I'll be real with you and try to help you help yourself . But i just ask that you be patient with me and explain the whole situation fully . I do not judge so i will never make you feel uncomfortable coming to me & i will never make you feel wrong for how you feel .
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I am 20 and I am a female. I am an unaccompanied youth. I have not lived with my parents since I was 18. I have lived in 4 different homes since I left my parents house. I live in the state of Georgia. I am having trouble finding homeless shelters for single young females in my state. Going back to my parents home is not an option and I am having trouble getting in to college a independent because I haven't lived in a shelter. Many of the financial aid counselors are ignorant when it comes to the rules of the law of who qualify as accompanied youth and the fact that they the counselors can qualify one as an accompanied youth through a financial aid assistant interview. I have not been able to go to college because my parents would not help me at all. They would not even cosign a loan. Financial aid expects that parents help their child with money. That's not always true. Anyway, I think if I go to a shelter, it would ease getting the independency status as a student. That is NOT the only reason I need to go to a homeless shelter. I am not living in a good environment and I wake up in this horrible place everyday. I live on the living room couch. Where I live is a house full of trashy people that have really ugly hearts. No one needs to answer this question saying well it's not that bad or have their say of my attitude they pick up from reading this. Nor say how these people I live with are nothing like the monsters I say they are because really no one knows unless they have seen what my eyes have seen. No one knows the emotional abuse I go through everyday just to have some shelter. The world beyond my home is a big maze to me, I have no idea how to get out. I easily get lost my first days in a new school. Having trouble finding a room number. That's how the world is to me. I need a homeless shelter. (link)
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Listen to me, stay calm sweetheart . You have to make a decision what is right for you . Stay with friends or other family if possible . Trust me do Not give up on your search, you will get into a shelter or you can go through foster care until the age of 21 and apply for college . People are going to be rude and they are going to try to prevent you from going somewhere but its up to you whether you succeed or fail . Just remember them financial aid counselors always have someone over top of them and it is possible to get to them and report the person . I understand this whole situation and I've been through that i have but yet I've made decisions on what was best for me and i can tell you after analyzing the situation yourself and dealing with it the situation gets easier . Some parents will be ignorant and try to put you down and the fact that your parents are them parents makes it worse but hold on and NEVER let them get to you. There is nothing to be scared of in the real world just know that god is by your side always if it happens it is his plan .
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Alright well I'm 14 and my best friend is 13 and were both guys, I'm just wondering if we have a good friendship and if I should hold onto it. We have had some trouble in the past because I'm bi and I used to like him and I told him about 4 months ago but then I decided to lie and say I didn't like him so we could stay friends.. Anyways we are really good friends in my opinion we can hang out with each other for 5 days and not get sick of each other we hang out all the time, we don't really talk about EVERYTHING tho.. We talk about everything except my being bi or "used" to like him or anything sexual, but I mean we have lots of inside jokes and when we hang out we always laugh and stuff. The other day I asked him in person how good of I friend I was and I said be 100% honest and he told he I was at the top :) It's hard being friends with someone you like but I feel like I need a good friend like this. And also is it a problem that I always text first? And usually I am the one to ask to hang out but when I do he ALWAYS says "sure" and we always have fun? Good friendship!?!???? (link)
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Its nothing wrong with your sexuality be proud of it ! Okay he may not float that way and you mustn't force it on him . But i say keep the friendship and cherish it because you may not find too many real friends out there . He may just not understand and he probably don't know what your intentions are. Talk to him, yes tell him you like him but that's not the point you'd rather be friends and the fact that you like him doesn't change a thing ! & tell him that it seems as if he doesn't want to hangout because you always have to ask first. Don't get me wrong you love the time you guys have but you would like to be shown that . If he understands than trust me sweetheart things will get better . He just need a little time to learn how to deal with this but its not wrong to be attracted to a friend . Its not . Goodluck !
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so here I am so touchy cry on silly things
if any one argue me then I cry at the same moment and I feel awkward every time that happen I wonder if there are some =ways I can do to be tuff .Don't care about over much than they do
any tips plz (link)
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Its okay to be very sensitive, someone will love that side of you, appreciate all of you. Don't try to change yourself Hun because that's how you were born. You don't have to be tough you just have to understand when not to give someone the satisfaction .
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I probably have everything that a average guy shouldnt have.Im very shy,have low self respect and have always thought that life was not worth living.Even made a suicide 7 months ago.Have been feeling depressed for quite a long time,all because of my rather bad ug college life. Now im out of college for good and have got admission to do my masters. Im really looking forward to do my pg.Now the problem is that ,the feeling of worthlessness is coming back. Im still in a dilemma no matter how hard i try to get away from negative thoughts. I seriously want to change the way i have been all these years. Would also like to get advice on how to get out of being shy and talk in front of class and with women as i feel rather nervous when trying to talk with them.kindly advise (link)
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I'll call you shy guy, but hey i was shy too. I was always nervous i even bite my nails . But listen you can overcome this i hung with people who were loud and outgoing they opened me right up . But what i'm saying is this you shall overcome you shouldn't care what anyone thinks go do something fun and be head of the crowd . Seriously though i still am shy not so much as before but i still get shy when trying to talk to women . But think of it like this she can only say no its a million other women and any woman would like you for who you are . So just because you're shy doesn't mean you aren't areal man because a man who isn't real wouldn't have admit this. I think you should respect yourself more and that should be your main focus at this moment because if you don't respect yourself who will respect you ? & suicide ? i don't like things like that ! god gave you this life, well if you don't believe in god than you were given this life for a reason not just to take something so precious away. Look suicide is not the answer really, there are people who life is taken away so learn to appreciate yours !!!!!!!!!!!!
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Hi, My name is Haley Williams Im 13 and I want to see if this guy likes me well... Ive talked to him a few times at like homecoming and stuff like that at school but its been about a year since I last talked to him and well im friends with him on facebook but im scared to message him and ya its kinda hard to explain but anyways he is a friend of my cousins and I told her about me liking him and she said well does he like you and I paused and finally replied I dont know and well what should I do I like him alot and I have butterflies everytime I talk to him can u help me.? (link)
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Haley Breathe first lol but it seems as if you're going the right route . I'm sure things will work out fine just don't move fast because you really like him. I think you should message him but be cool start off by asking him questions about himself so you can see if he doesn't have a girlfriend and things on that path. If you're in the clear tell him how you feel but don't overdo it remember you guys are 13 & boys that age tend to me a little shy in the girl area. well some so be cautious but i know you will succeed in this task. Haley Goodluck Sweetheart .
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