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Yesterday was my birthday, and i went over my boyfriend's house. He gave me a card and a braclet that i loved. Everything was going great until we started to get into a little fight about something stupid. I didn't know he would get so upset over it. He acted like everything was fine for the rest of the night. He told me that since i wasn't leaving for a while, he was going to pretend that everything was fine. We've been going out for almost 5 months now, and we broke up a few times during that. We get into the stupidest fights, say mean things to eachother, then come running back to eachother eventually. I hate breaking up, and i always get to upset over it. But i love when we get back together. I really love him more than basically anything. We both go threw stages of breaking up. I know all of his stages, he gets mad then breaks up with me, and then later on he calls acting like a moron saying all of these hateful words and things he doesn't mean. Pretending that he doesn't like me anymore. But then either a few hours, or days later, he calls me and says that he loves me and that hes sorry and stuff like that. Then we tell eachother nice things, and he wants to go back out with me. Right now, i am really upset over this and i was crying alot before. I talk to my mom about everything, she helps me through it all. But sometimes i just like to talk to people and get their advice. I hope everything works out. But i get so attatched to certain people. And it's so hard for me to get over them. So whoever is reading this, please help me with what i should do. Thank you so much.
Brooke
AGE - 15 (link)
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well brooke, he obvious loves you but doesn't belive that he reallly does. you guys might need a break. you guys probably don't brooke but remember i am her for you i love youu !! and he loves you so much. and he is coming back because he can't get enough of you !!
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When i shave down there, i get little bumps. How can I spot that? Or Make it less visable? (link)
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stop that* sorry about that !!
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i have an 11 year old sister who asked me to write here. she has alaways been really atletic, but has never found a sport just for her. can you guys please write abouts sports you like, what type of people they are for, and some info on it. please exclude soccer and basketball (link)
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field hockey
gymnastics
cheerleading
tennis
swimming
lacrosse
track
volleyball
softball
golf
dance
skateboarding
surfing
skim boarding
paintball
biking
mountain climbing
ice hockey
figure skating
taekwondo
wake-boarding
racketball
i cant think of anymoree =/
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Okay. I have hu before but for some werid reason I am scared to hu with my bf, james since i really love him and i think it might be because I'm scare he will think im bad but i shouldn't be worrying about it sicne the guys i hued with befroe said im good and everything like that. but i don't know its like i dont care if all the guys think im bad as long as he thinks im good. what can help make me not be scared? im suppose to today, and i want to. but ahh!!
and also he is in 8th and im in 9th what will keep up able to stay together during school? and be able to work it out? (link)
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oh sorry we use it where i live. hook up, make out.
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ok i have this thing about going back wards i get so scared to. and i a trying out for cheering and i go to gymnastics 2 times a week and my gymnastics trainer tells me that i am good and that i can do my back handpring by my self but i am to scared to. and like it weird like i taught myself how to do one before and i did it wiked good and then i fell on my head and now i am so scare to do anything backwords. and my trainer tells me that it is harder to do an arial then it is to do a bachandspring and i think that it isn't because i am notafrade to do anything front wards can any one help me or tell me a good way to get over my fear? (link)
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I had the same problem. If you really want it you should put your fear in front of you and face it. first try it by yourself on atrampoline, then tumble trak, then a mat, then a spring floor. your coach knows when you have something trust me. i was scared and i have it and i never fell once. when you get it you will be so happy trust me its worth it
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okay i've cheered 2 seasons already, but i was wondering how to get my jumps higher & better for this season(starts in 2 weeks)..and if any cheerleaders on here have any tips for doing better on anything else?..mainly i need to know how to better my jumps and higher them (link)
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i have horrible jumps myself. i don't knwo what yours look like but. here is some stuff
Drills for perfecting your toe touches.
Toe Touch Drills:
·Start off by stretching out. Make sure you are warmed up before you actually throw any jumps to avoid pulling or straining muscles.
·Next do 3 sets of leg lifts: sit in a straddle on the floor, hands are behind you for support (hands should be on the floor, under or near your tail), slightly lean back and lift both legs (about a foot off the floor), keep your legs STRAIGHT, WITHOUT your legs touching the floor lift them 10 times, release, count to 10 for a breather and repeat. Do a total of 3 sets. Leg lifts are hard but it will strengthen your legs and improve the height of your jumps!!!
·After leg lifts we do side high kicks: arms in a T motion, with right leg kick 5 times, breather for for 5 seconds, switch to left leg 5 times.
·Cheerleading Crunches: lay on your back on the floor, legs straight out in front of you, arms in a touchdown (up beside your head). Sit up, bringing your legs up and rolling back into a toetouch position (straddle), and bring your arms between to a T. Just think like you're doing a toetouch sitting on the floor. 10-15 is good to start. They hurt, and they look and feel awkward, but they'll help your jumps so much.
·Squat Jumps: crouch down, touching your fingertips to the floor. Jump up, bringing your arms above your head, shrugging up your shoulders like you would doing a jump. As soon as your feet touch the floor, return to the starting position. 20 is a good number to start with, increase gradually.
·Consecutive tucks: do a tuck with the approach. As soon as you hit the floor, go back up into a tuck with no prep. 5-10 to start.
·Also, try doing 100 jumps every night, 10 of each jump you know: tuck, abstract(double hook), right hurdler, left hurdler. spread eagle, left front hurdler, right front hurdler, right herkie, left herkie, and finally, your toetouch.
·Do these in addition to the leg lifts and kicks every day, at least once. You're toetouches, and other jumps will improve tremendously. Make sure you stretch a lot, and use your stomach and shoulders to get the height in your jump, as well as your legs. Do lots of crunches to strengthen your stomach.
Work with your spilts everyday.
I knwo its alot but they do help i am doing them
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Okay well my boyfriend is going through a really tough time right now... with things that are going on with work, baseball, and some of his friends. I am here for him all the time and we tell each other everything. But i want to make him really happy and see the smile back on his face... So you can you guys give me any ideas to make him smiling and happy again. I know he would really appreciate it. And please don't say anything sexual because we have done somethings but not sex, were not ready for that. I just want him to be happy and spend the day together him and me so he can be happy and smile... any ideas on things to do or to give him that would make him smile... I rate high thanks bunches :0) (link)
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well since he likes baseball maybe go to a game, or watch the game on tv tell him that you are so glad you are with him and that if he needs anything you are here for him. ask his friends what he has been wanting then try to get it for him. you really need to be there for him and that is going to mean a lot to him
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Hey people! Okey, I've gotten myself into a real mess..again. I'm such an idiot. See, this is the thing..I havn't seen my EXBF for about a year, and im gonna see him in like a week. A while ago i found out that he had a new GF and that she was coming with him to camp (where im gonna see him again) So i've been working really hard this week on making myself look great to impress him. And then i met this guy, who's also going to camp. So i thought (dumb as i am) why not get together with this guy to make him jealous or whatever, maybe just to show that im over him..
Now, this guy is a punk rocker..so to get him to like me i started acting like a punk rocker. And when he asked me if he could do my hair, i said : sure, why not?. Little did I know that by saying that i liked his haircut he was gonna do my hair just like his. So now i have no hair on the sides and spikes in the middle and i am totally and completely FREAKING OUT! I live with my older brother and im not gonna see my mom for about 3 more months so im not worried about her at the moment ( even though i should be ) ..
What im really worried about is seeing james in a week.. I've done everything to make myself look great, and now i look awful! Is there anything i can do? ive already tried looking for a hairpiece, but it loooks soo fake! HELP PLEASE! (link)
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is it woodware? is your name rebecca?
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okay i am trying to make a rock cd with only emo and punk rock on it... (im a rock kinda girl) and i was wondering what are some good emo or punk rock bands these are ones i have so far
-halifax
-senses fail
-taking back sunday
-finch
-fallout boy
any others? thanks i'll rate 5's for some good bands :-D (link)
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chemical romance (okay)
the USED !!
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i like this boy, and me and him have a really fliry relationship. i slept with him in november while he was going out with my friend. we hang out sometimes and flirt a lot and i really think im in love. but he blows me off sometimes and hes such a jerk. he'll ditch me for a party, and he doesnt pick up his phone somtimes. lately hes been doing this more and more and i dont know what i should do because i like him so much! can somebody help me? (link)
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well is he is a jerk if he is going out with your friend and slept with you and that is making you a bad friend, sorry to tell you. Well he doesn't like you it seems like he is using you, I know I am being harsh but you wanted the truth. You shouldn't be running after him, you can flirt with him yeah, but don't go out and run after him or hit on him a lot.
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theirs this boy and he wants to go out with me for the 3rd time.i really like him but i jus know he is gonns dump me again for a dmumb reason. i dont know what to do.
help me ^O^ (link)
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well, if you truley like him as much as you say you do. Then you need to talk about why you guys broke up before. and
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ok i woke up this moring and i felt wet so i wipe myself off with a towle and it was yellow now im thinkin 2 my self what is this! could it be from me havin sex becuz me and my b/f had sex about 2 days b4 this happened? or could it be from me grttin off my period!! i dont have ne answers i only had 1 sexual partner and i keep myself very clean! so ne way i put on o pad just in case there would be more and i didnt want it 2 get in my panties and i keep chackin my pad and its nothin there at all and i dont feel wet! is this normal ? help me please. (link)
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yes it's normal in discharger
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how can i make my crush like me enough to finally ask me out. cuz he does like me is just dat i dont feel any connection at all. but he tells all my friends he likes me so wat's up with dat ? (link)
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Guys can be shy you can flirt with him and things. But don't go out and ask him why don't you ask him out he may think you are obnious if you do that. If you really truely ask him out I did that and it was the best realtionship of my life.
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How do you know when your boyfriend/girlfriend is ready to have sex? I'm ready, but I don't know how to find out if he is. (link)
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Well it also matters how old you are. And you shouldn't just rush into sex. You may think you are ready and then you find out your not. You should really try everything else before sex. You shoukld try talking about it but don't rush them if they aren't ready you have to respect that.
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okay so here's what's been going on.. i've been with my boyfriend for a while and i don't think i've ever been so happy with anyone else. he's the reason i live life each day and the reason i'm so happy. well lately we have been having problems and wouldn't stop arguing, and we would argue over things that we shouldn't argue over. we argued over somethings that i didn't mean to do, like things that i do on accident. i didn't think it was fair but there was really nothing i could do. i've been hurt so bad, and i've also never been so sad in my entire life! i am so in love with him and i want to stay with him but sometimes i don't know what to do because i've been hurt so much! but when we are together and having a great time, then i totally forget the pain i went through. he makes me forget the pain and makes me happy again, he like heals my heart! we haven't argued for a couple of days and we have been really happy and i think it's really good.. but this morning he was acting kind of strange and i was just a little confused because i think it has to do with me but i have no idea what i did. can you help me out and give me advice because he is the greatest thing in my life and means so much to me and i seriously don't want to lose him, but i want to make things better. (link)
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Fighting is something every couple has to do one point in time. You should really sit him down and ask what is bothering him. And maybe make a pact if something is bothering you about each other to tell each other but you guys can't get mad
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I like two guys who are really awesome. I haven't been too close to either one of them yet, but I still don't want to like two guys in case on of them asks me out. I'll call the two guys Ben and Caleb. Ben has always been really nice to me and teases me playfully. Caleb sometimes has been mean to me but never teases me at all. Ben has actually talked to me and he's really cute, while Caleb has ignored me when his friends were around but has smiled at me when no one was looking. I want to give Caleb a chance because he might be nicer if he knows I like him, and Ben already knows I like him and has always been sweet. Any suggestions? (link)
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Well Ben seems like a much better choice if he talks to you and is sweet. Caleb isn't the greatest guy if he won't talk to you in fronmt of friends. If you go out with Caleb most likely you won't like him as much as you thought..
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my mom just recently said she thinks its time for me to see a gyno. so she made me an appointement. she tells me yesterday that she had a dream i was pregenant. do u think she is making me go to the gyno and had that dream b/c she thinks i have sex? (link)
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if u did have sex u should bring it to her attetion if u guy are very close only if u are around a good age of adult time 17-21
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my best friend's mom hates me! last night she listened into our convo on the phone then ally (bff) called back and told me that we weren't allowed to be friends anymore then her mom told me that she listened and didn't appreciate what i said about her(i don't like her) and she hung up. i started crying really hard for like five minutes, then ally called back again and said that her mom said that she crossed theline by listening in and that we could be friends as long as i don't go over to ally's house. it makes me feel better, but i still can't get it out of my head. i still want to be friends with her, but i don't want to deal with her mom. what should i do??!?!?!?!?!?!?
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1 thing is her mom is a biotch! :-D u should ask her why she hates u so much and try to change why she does without changing yourself; u shouldnt talk about her cuz that isnt nice at all
hangout with ally but try to be nice to her mother when ever u have too see her
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