i like this boy, and me and him have a really fliry relationship. i slept with him in november while he was going out with my friend. we hang out sometimes and flirt a lot and i really think im in love. but he blows me off sometimes and hes such a jerk. he'll ditch me for a party, and he doesnt pick up his phone somtimes. lately hes been doing this more and more and i dont know what i should do because i like him so much! can somebody help me?
Gorda1224 answered Thursday June 16 2005, 9:51 pm: Hey,
Well, you need to play hard to get. Dont be on his d**k. Just dont call him, wait till he calls you. (i know it will be hard because you love him.....but just try :) ). When he calls you back and ask him what you have been doin just tell him that you have been busy, if he ask you doin wat....juss tell him that you have been worin or somethin (make somethin up). Dont call him as often. He might start gettin the picture that he might be losing you and start calling you and looking for you. Tell him you want to go out somewhere......when he goes to kiss you dont let him......play around wit him and make him work for you. Kisshim juss a lil bit and then when you see that he cant resist then give hi a long, nice,passionate kiss. When you feel that hes into the kiss..../.deeply just pull back and keephim wantin more. What ever you do DO NOT SLEEP WITH HIM........AT ALL! Wait a clouple days that hes after you and then you can. Dont play to hard to get because you might push him away. Hope i have helped......xoxo.....GOOD LUCK!!
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TakeItFromMeBaby answered Thursday June 16 2005, 4:33 pm: well hunn...the boy got what he wanted... u need to forget about him...he's not worth your time! if he asks you to hang out or do somethin...BLOW HIM OFF...he deserves it. just try to meet new ppl and forget about that jerk!
karenR answered Thursday June 16 2005, 1:12 am: You need to forget about him. He got what he wanted in November. Now hes done with you. He didn't want a relationship he wanted sex. Now hes been there and done that.
Next time, make sure the guy likes you for yourself and waits until you know him well enough before you give yourself away. There are a lot of jerks in this world so you need to know a guy real well first. Don't rush things. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
Michele answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 7:20 pm: He got what he wanted. You slept with him already. He is not interested in you. He was just interested in getting in your pants. Neither one of you deserve to be in a relationship, since he cheated on his girlfriend, and you helped him. And it was your friend. What are you thinking?!?!? ONLY BOYS can sleep around and not get reputations. Girls do. You had better back off before he embarasses you in front of everyone. Find another guy, but don't go to bed with him so soon, and maybe he'll like you longer than 2 weeks.
hollisterhun221 answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 6:56 pm: well is he is a jerk if he is going out with your friend and slept with you and that is making you a bad friend, sorry to tell you. Well he doesn't like you it seems like he is using you, I know I am being harsh but you wanted the truth. You shouldn't be running after him, you can flirt with him yeah, but don't go out and run after him or hit on him a lot. [ hollisterhun221's advice column | Ask hollisterhun221 A Question ]
LoveNJstyle answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 6:50 pm: well are you guys technically "together"? if your just friends or friends with benefits, he doesnt have to call you back or stay by you 24/7. if hes your bf then he should at least call you back and thats about as much as you can ask for. theres nothing you can do. time will tell if this is meant to be. <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
LuckyHugs812 answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 6:46 pm: maybe he thinks you're getting too clingy? try backing off a little bit, and take a break from each other. but if he keeps doing this more and more, he's not worth you're time, b/c he obviously doesn't want to hang out with you. good luck!
Razhie answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 6:35 pm: It doesn't sound like your guy has much respect for you (or any girl he dates) and that is a big problem!
If you really want to be with this guy I would suggest you talk to him about how you feel. If he blows you off because you care and want to be near him, it is probably time to get over him. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
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