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Q: dear advicenator,
what is an orgasm & how can you get one?
the feeling a woman usually gets at the climax of sex...

and masturbating....

im not really one to ask here. im sorry.

Q: My hair is dry && damaged. How do I get it to have that soft sorta oily coating on it to make it smooth. I've tried Treseme, Garnier, Herbal Essance, and Pantene and I still have hair that feels like straw!!
garnier fructis deep fortifying conditioner

Q: hello advicenators i am having my party on firday july 1st and its at water country and i just watched the weather and the high was 87 and te low was 70 which is good but the rain chance was 60% and i was wondering is that alot?? and it is most likely to rain??
LOL HAHAHAHHA yes
its more than half


hahahhahahahahaha how old are you? , gosh

Q: heyy everyone yesterday i got a major sunburn and my upper back and shoulders which is bad because i have a pool party to attend on friday and im wearing this bikini and i dont want to be a peeling mess and it didnt start peeling yet but my mother said it will real soon and i was just wondering is there any lotion or creme i can get to decrease the peeling or stop the peeling?? and if there is then where can i get it???

thanks i rate HIGH
DO NOT DO NOT DO NOTTTT use aloe vera. it makes a sticky mess and takes a lonnggggg time to heal.


use vitamin E gel. itll clear up in three days with little or no peeling at all

:)

feel free to IM me ! bemyvangogh

Q: i just got a hair cut. it is like the first one on the page only a little shorter,do you think this looks good? --[[first one]] --

http://www.salonweb.com/hstyles/long.htm
yes !!

its how im getting mine cut on wednesday so i hope it looks good ! !

Q: well i shaved my 'lower area' for the first time the other day and i got this big rash there. i asked my friend what to do and she said to put unscented lotion on it and make sure i wash it. so i did both and nothing is helping. i still have a rash there and the skin is kind of dry. please help..
a lil baby oil...
or baby creme. like desitin

Q: If my hair is cut to my sholders,[[little longer]] and i got layers ABOVE my ear,how fast do you think it will grow?[[per month..or week even better]] [[avraged]] Its very thin since the lady cut the layers shorter than my ears.
But how maybe inches will it grow per month/week?
that sounds adorable !!!
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okay well ... all the sites ive looked at said one-half of an inch per month...
theres that new-ish fructis shampoo, it doesnt make your hair grow any faster, but it makes your hair stronger so that it can grow without getting damaged..
personally, my hair grows realllyyyy fast ... i got a haircut in february above the shoulders... and now, four months later, its four inches below my shoulders on my back.

just try to think about the last time you got a haircut and how much it grew before you cut it ... do you have any pics? im seriously not purposely trying to make you feel any better but it really does sound adorable.

http://alt.coxnewsweb.com/dailysentinel/buzz/0205/p3.jpg does it look anything like that?? [[the girl in the middle, w/ the dark hair, stacy dupree]] cus she has really high layers and its so cute. !!

Q: so i got this new deoderant at cvs called arid extra dry and it worked! all of the other 100's of deoderents i have and tryed never worked. i use to get all sweaty and my shitrs would get all wet and ew. anyway why does this one work and not the other one?
everyones different.

you prolly had a mild hyperhydrosis case, just google it.

Q: many people on this site give contradicting advice as far as whether or not sperm dies when it hits the air or not. so let me ask you this, if that were true, would it not be pointless to donate sperm? (masturbating in a cup, and then freezing the sperm, which have been in the air for at least a minute or more) so my question is, can i assume all this advice on sperm dying in the air (and that it is impossible to get pregnant from any means other than sex) incorrect? thanks!
sperm = lifespan of 8 minutes

Q: Tonight, I will be attending a rock concert (my first!!) with my friend & I was wondering what kind of hair styles you would reccomend. I have longish straightened honey brown hair. Thanks in advanced =] Will rate!
either just plain down ...
ur loose wavy curls
something that wont get in the way

ppl dont really care what other ppl look like at concerts tho so either way it wont really matter.

Q: i've recently become a vegitarian. my mother is worried that i wont get enough protein, what are some foods that i can eat that contain protein (besides meat, obviously)?
you can buy protein pills

Q: theirs a really cool 11 banded spike bracelet that i want. my dad says not to go overboard with bieng punk/gothic. do u think thats going overboard????? i dont think so.
yes i do.

its a little much. black is one thing... but spikes are too much

its not like you should be doing anything with the spikes anyways .

Q: O.K. I'm not trying to be nasty or anything but my boob is like really sore and it has been sore for like 2 days now. What should I do?
you might have breast cancer.
give yourself a home breast examination [[find out how on the internet]]
and go see a doctor...


this might be because of a medication youre on

it might be way embarrassing but go to a specialist.

Q: Hey. My boyfriend is telling me online that he wants to run away because he thinks his parents hate him, but I know they don't. Anyway, there's not much I can do, because we live an hour apart. I'm trying to help, but nothing's working. What can I say to him? Please help, I don't want him to hurt himself.

x3 Erin
tell him that if he does run away he better run to ur house.

just tell him to talk to his parents ... and try to find ways to prove that they love him. i mean, they feed him, dont they ??

Q: sry for the length...

yesterday i had my boyfriend over and my mom was watching us like a hawk she wouldnt leave us alone she was being a bitch..like we were just sitting there and she goes THAT WILL BE ENOGUH OF THAT! its terrible im not talking to her right now because she cant trust be she thinks im suck a whore and im not im just tired of her being like this..

What do u think i should i do?
thanks ill rate high
sit down and talk with her about trust and tell her that youre not doing anything that you shouldnt be doing at ur age ... idk but just talk to her and make sure that she knows youre being honest

Q: My mind wonders during school. Mostly about my current bf and how I want to like talk to him or w/e. I used to be an A student now I'm a C student. It's not like I can avoid guys completley. What should I do about?
limit your time with him,
set aside time everyday that you will devote to school work
tell him about your grades
and if hes a good bf, he'll understand that you need to work on school and not spend as much time w/ him.

Q: I haven't seen my dad since i was like 6. I got his address and his phone number. I wanna call him but i dont know what i would say to him. My mom thinks that its a good idea i should talk with him. But like i said i dont know what i would say to him. My dad's girlfriend wont let my dad ever talk to me. or if i send him a letter she wont let him read it. She doesn't even have a picture of me because she doesn't want me in his life. What should i do and what should i say? please help
wow shes a jerk but she prolly upset that you arent both of theirs ya know? ... shes mad that you arent her kid and that you came from a diff. woman and it prolly makes her think about her husband w/ another woman.

call your dad and just ask him how life is and how things are going. about his job, even. chances are he wants to know a lot about you.

Q: how do i get these gurls that hate me and want to beat me up to be my friend again!! and im scared to even go up to them because they are tougher than me please help me!!!! i rate high if your answers are good!
aww you poor thing....
well they must hate you for a reason. apologize for what you did. whatever it was.

Q: What kind of makeup should I get and wear like tell me brand names and what kinds of colors and where I can get them. Okay I have brown eyes, really dark brown hair it almost looks as if it is black, I have pale skin, and freckles. Honestly I wouldn't like to have freckles but yeahh...Soo please tell me what kind of makeup I should get!
no no freckles are cute... at least thats what ppl tell me ... im the exact same as you as far as the looks you described ... but my eyes are greenish brown.
try physician's formula.. you can get it at target.

since your skin is pale, when using blush, dont use tans or beiges, itll make it look like youre trying to look tan.
use a soft pink shimmer instead.

use a dark brown or grey eyeliner. and if you use black, dont put too much on cus your hair and eyes are already dark :-D a nice pink eyeliner will be pretty too,
hope i helped

Q: i like this boy, and me and him have a really fliry relationship. i slept with him in november while he was going out with my friend. we hang out sometimes and flirt a lot and i really think im in love. but he blows me off sometimes and hes such a jerk. he'll ditch me for a party, and he doesnt pick up his phone somtimes. lately hes been doing this more and more and i dont know what i should do because i like him so much! can somebody help me?
maybe you two are just flirty ... and thats all itll ever be.?
i think that maybe he is in love with your friend and he realized that cheating on her was a mistake ...and that he never shoulda done it ...
possibly hes ashamed which is why he blows you off?

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