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my dad
I haven't seen my dad since i was like 6. I got his address and his phone number. I wanna call him but i dont know what i would say to him. My mom thinks that its a good idea i should talk with him. But like i said i dont know what i would say to him. My dad's girlfriend wont let my dad ever talk to me. or if i send him a letter she wont let him read it. She doesn't even have a picture of me because she doesn't want me in his life. What should i do and what should i say? please help
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You can start off with just how have you been. Tell him about school etc. Once you build up a bit of a relationship with him you might mention that you have written etc. Let him know you have and let him deal with what might have become of all the things he didn't receive.
What kind of job does he have? If he works somewhere that you might call him at work, maybe you could do that. Then his girlfriend won't be intercepting your calls. If she does it at home...keep calling until she lets you talk to him.
Just call him. He will help out in the talking, it will go okay. It will get easier each time you talk to him. :)
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thats sad ={ well you should call him saying its you and tell him uve been sending letters and hear hiis gf dosnt want you in his life, tell him you miss him and ask him wen you will see him again, tell him everything about you, dads need to kno, im sure he still loves you
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wow shes a jerk but she prolly upset that you arent both of theirs ya know? ... shes mad that you arent her kid and that you came from a diff. woman and it prolly makes her think about her husband w/ another woman.
call your dad and just ask him how life is and how things are going. about his job, even. chances are he wants to know a lot about you.
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ok i think your mum is correct!phone him he is your dad after all.Phone him and if his gf picks up you could say could i speek to mr(your dads name)then she might think you are someone from his work or try if you really hate her could i speek to my dad please.explain 2 your dad how you feel say 2 him you forgot what he looks like and to really get to him say (i don't think i have a dad anymore) tell him you want to meet up somewhere if your dad is mean to you get your mum to phone him.After all his girlfriend has no right to stop you from seeing your dad.She has 2 understand that you should mean more 2 ur father than her.good luck lv sweetcornxxx inbox me if u need more help
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SWEETIE this might hurt but dont do anything. your dad is a grown man. he can make his own choices. his girlfriend shouldnt be able to control him like that and if she does have that much control over him then there is nothing you can do to change it. your his child you should come first in his life, he should want to talk to you and should be trying to cantact you not the other way around.you can call to see wats goin on i know you love him and miss him. but after that one phone call its up to him. if all he can see is his g/f and not be able to see how special you are then his lost not yours. i hope i helped
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wow. why doesn't she want you in his life? that's crazy. you should definitely call him! just say whatever your mind tells you to say...
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