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hey wuz up. my name is Tre'Sure. im a wild and very educated 17 year old. i have a lot of incite on diff categories. i live in columbus but am from that good good Cali! right now im taken. yeah im wifed up!
my interests vary. OMG do they vary!!!!!
wat ever seems like a good idea and fun at the time thats what you will see me doin.
i hope that i can help out others/
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This guy I know and I have had a really weird relationship...
When he met me, he told me I was fit and was flirting with me for a few weeks. Then he got a girlfriend and forgot that I existed.
The day that he split up with his girlfriend,he came and was talking to me...but I just got a boyfriend so I didn't exist again.
Then, a while after I became single again, his friend asked me out. I said yes, but during the VERY short "relationship", this guy paid more attention to me than my boyfriend did. Got dumped by said boyfriend...
Then this guy started flirting like hell with me again. I got off with him once (drunk), and now I don't exist again.
What is WITH this guy?

OK SUGAR this guy is nothing. do not waste your time on him. all he wnted was to "hook up" with you. and now that he got that you dont exist.thats why he flirted with you until he got a girl because he could get some from her then when you got your guy he waited. but when you was goin out with his friend he didnt care because they were friends(thatws how boys are) so now that he got what he wanted your nothing...well atleast not until he wants some again. i hope i helped
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i had this boyfriend and after about 2 months I broke up with him because i thought i didnt like him anymore!but then i started realizing i do but before i had a chance to tell him, he got a new girlfriend!now i am really jealous and i just can't get over it!!!!!how can i?help!!!!

YOU KNOW WAT HONEY i had that some problem before. what helped me out was to get everything off my chest. just tell him how you feel. that way you can get all of the "wat ifs?" that you have.if he doesnt accept then thats the way its gonna be. but you never know if he still likes you. i mean you guys broke up because you wanted to not because he wanted to. you know? so just talk to him and see what happens.
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i have a kind of long face and brown hair and i was wondering what kind of hair styless i should do

hey babe well with a long face its good to have up-dos. or to have shorter hair with layers. this will help to round out your face better. hope i helped.
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Hi im 14 and a female, see there are these really mean group of girls at my school and they ised to be all my really good friends until 8th grade they started acting ;ike they were rea;;y cool and stopped talking to me. i asked them what was wrong and the act like everything is just fine. Then they went behind my back a nd told everybody some rumor about that wasnt true. My mom says there just jealous of me. Is there something wrong with me? What should I do?

SWEETIE well forget about them their bitches. exscuse my french. but serioulsy even if their jealous or not they dont deserve anything from you. if you want you can fight them but that might not be your style. there is nothing wrong with you. people change sadly it can be for the worse. dont change who you are to fit in with them. your perfect keep your conscious okay they can make up rumors but they can't change you dont give them what they want.they are just threaten by you okay SWEETIE?! i hope i helped
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Well I'm currently seeing someone and things are good and all but I miss one of my ex's. I loved her and I think about her every waking moment of my life and sometimes it tears me apart. I dated her about 5 times first for 1 month then 2 weeks then a week then a few days then another few days then sadly only a day. Yes its quite pathetic. My cousin and best friend told me to forget about her because a relationship w/ her is (in his opinion) "unhealthy". This is due to the fact that Ive cut myself over her and thought of suicide. Should I move on? Should I talk to her? What the hell should I do? I am utterly confused - Mike

BABE i think you should listen to your cousin and your best friend. that is not healthy. i think you should go get help. she is not worth your life. if you love her that much and can not live with out her then you should get your problems worked out. when your in love you dont want to put that person through pain so if you do wrong to your body because of her that can also mess her up. dont stay with the girl your with because your feelings arent true to her and thats not fair. so my advice is to get help then see where things go. hope i helped
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I haven't seen my dad since i was like 6. I got his address and his phone number. I wanna call him but i dont know what i would say to him. My mom thinks that its a good idea i should talk with him. But like i said i dont know what i would say to him. My dad's girlfriend wont let my dad ever talk to me. or if i send him a letter she wont let him read it. She doesn't even have a picture of me because she doesn't want me in his life. What should i do and what should i say? please help

SWEETIE this might hurt but dont do anything. your dad is a grown man. he can make his own choices. his girlfriend shouldnt be able to control him like that and if she does have that much control over him then there is nothing you can do to change it. your his child you should come first in his life, he should want to talk to you and should be trying to cantact you not the other way around.you can call to see wats goin on i know you love him and miss him. but after that one phone call its up to him. if all he can see is his g/f and not be able to see how special you are then his lost not yours. i hope i helped
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OK so the kid i like (who has a g/f) asked me the other day online if i still liked him..and i tried changin the subject but hes like "No don't shange the convo.." so i told him: idk because you have a gf... then he said ooo ok..now hes talking to me a lot more..should i have told him that i still liked him? should i tell him the next time i talk to him? help me! i rate 5s!

OK BABE. in my opinion your did the right thinkg. but dont bring it up anymore. you told him you liked him now its up to him to figure out what he wants to do with his g/f and you. if you talk about it he might feel annoyed. so just wait and see how things play out. i hope i helped in a way
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hey this i a very weird question to ask you guys out in public but my bf and i want to start having sex. But idk if he wants my "pussy" shaved or not and im not going to ask him because it would be awkward. What do you think i should do?

WELL HONEY guys have diff prefferences. some like it shaved some like it not and others dont really care. if you dont want to ask him then do what ever makes you feel comfortable. then wait and see what he says. but the best thing is to ask him. i hope i helped in some way
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ok im 15/f and i really like this guy but he's so shy!! he barely talks online to anyone even his friends! i want him to open up cause the only time he talked a lot was at school in class but schools out now so we never see eachother! he's never even had a gf before so that might be why he's so shy but i really want him to open up so how can i do that!

OMG YOU STOLE MY LIFE!!! ive been in that situation before. all i have to tell you is you need to have a whole lot of patience and understanding.guys like that love to take the safe route. opening up makes them feel vulnerable. they could get hurt easily from other people who have been in the game for a while.if you really want to be with him your gonna have to wait for him. and if you dont have that kind of time then just stick to being friends and move on to the next. i hope i helped.
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omg i was so surprised when my bf said it was okay that i wanna take it slow and we can go at my pace..but i dont have a pace..so wut exactly is to slow to go with a guy without them getting annoyed or thinking ur not ready for the relationship or ur too immature?

HONESTLY BABE who cares what he thinks dont feel pressured to do anything you dont want. and if he gets annoyed or irritated then its his lost and hes not mature enough to have patience. anyone can rush into things and make mistakes but only a smart and responsible person can have patience and make sure what thier doing is right. thats the worst feeling. doin something then haveing regrets. if possible make sure your teeanage years are filled with fun and never regrets.
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So I am at school right now and I just found out people have been talking about me and my friend going out, but she is a girl. I am not bisexual nor am I a lesbian. People are starting rumors and they dont even know me. I am new at this school and I dont know how to cope with it. Lately everyone has been acting like they dont want me here. I've just came for advice on what I should do because right now no one will listen to me. I've tried about everything to just get friend, but I will never change who I am. I know my sexuality and I know I am straight. I wouldn't say I'm not something if I really was. I mean ever since someone started that rumor people will come up to me and ask me if I am a lesbian! It is irritating. Holyoke has been the worst ever since i moved here.Everyone who knows me is back in chicopee, and I just miss everything and the way things used to be.

AW SWEETIE! I REALLY WANT TO GIVE YOU A HUG!!! i know how it is to change your whole surrondings. i was at a public school and my mom transfered me a private christian skool. there all the kids started calling me a hoe. those people that are at your school are not gonna be there after graduation. hell most of them wont be there next year. you know who you are thats the most important thing. dont change who you are just to fit it. its not worth it. life is crazy things dont always go our way. be patient! in time things will get better. get your grades! so when you have your big time job you can tell them to kiss your lesbian ass!(you know what i mean) i hope i helped.
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okay, well me and this guy are planning to hang out. my friends tell me i should just go to his house and hang out because we might end up making out. dont get me wrong, i feel fine around him but i havent seen him in a long time. I still want to go to his house.. but either that or the mall because at the mall we can hold hands but idunno. What should I do? and if you say go to his house, can you tell me how to ask him to go to his house?

IN my opinion babe i think you should go somewhere public. try the movies. that will balance out. you can hangout talk before and after the movies and catch up. and on the other hand if you guys feel like making out you always have the oppurtunity! i hope i helped
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Theres this guy well theres two guys and there both friends and they both like me. they didnt come out and tell me but i know there friends and sisters have told me and they give off more then enough hints. but my promblem is: they like me but i dont like them well at least i dont think i do see there bosinas and i dont date bosinas i only date americans i know i knoww sounds dumb but thats just me. and i kinda think i like one and i cant like him i wont let my self. but i kinda think i only like him or think i do is because im still trying to find the right guy. im 16 and i still havent found the right one. so what do u guys think my promblem is? thanks for the help..

*K

WELL SWEETHEART you only 16 80% of the time people do not marry there high sckool sweethearts.you have to keep yourself open to new things. what if this guy is the one and your not interested because of his race? that will suck! if he's the one you kinfa like then go for it. atleast you dont have to worry about rejection! have fun with your life. and be open minded. i hope i helped in some way
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well, school is over for the summer, and im not that great at keeping in touch with everyone. most of my friends get upset at this, but then again, only 2 of them have tried to keep in contact with me too... i just dont understand why they get so upset when they arent trying either. i understand it is hard to go with out talking to your friends that have been there for you, but i just moved, and im around a different crowd, and i have to go to summer school, and some of my friends think im going to forget about them, and make new friends. i will make new friends, but i wont forget my old. i tried explaining this to them, but they just seem to get mad. what am i supposta do??

WELL BABE if you already tried to explain to them what is goin on then there is reallt nothing left to do. you can always meet them half way. you can call them during your free time.or visit them. but if you just dont have time then you just dont have time. life is full of unexpected things. you make friends and loose friends. its sad but that is the way it is.but yeah try to stay in touch but dont stress yourself over it. i hoped i helped.
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Ok this morning, I woke up and there was this tiny blemish/zit thing down there..idk what it is!! Please help me..im freaking out..It's like a dot smaller than a zit but bigger than a blemish and there's a whitehead or something in it...I've never had sex..and no one has been "down there"..please help!

OK SWEETIE CALM DOWN. to me it sounds like a zit. gross huh. it can be from sweating. you should try to...pop it. or if you shave down there it can be from irritation. make sure that after you take a shower to put plenty of powder down there. if it dosent go away or your still worried about it you can go to the doctors. but to me it sounds like a regular zit. i hoped i was some sort of help.
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my girlfriend latly has been ignoring me, and she has a real short fuse with me. Whenever i try to do somthing that shows i love her, she takes everything the wrong way and is like "why are you doing that" or somthing. we thought it was PMS a while back but she's been like this a while now. then i cant ever really show any affection for her, because (well i think anyway) that she feels crowded with this girl, who might i add is completly obsessed with her...the girls name is Ally, and all is CONSTANTLY hugging on, or holding onto my girlfriend and i think thats part of the reason she is acting the way she is. i cant pull her away for a long enough time to give her our first kiss and we've been together for 4 months. she doesnt ever really want to cuddle durring any movies at my house, because if ally happens to be there then ally is on her, and she doesnt want to leave/be rude to ally...sometimes she will blow me off for no apperent reason at all or with some excuse. is there anything i can do to make my girlfriend pay a LIL more attention to me, or is it pretty much hopeless?

OK the way i see it is give her a taste of her own medicine. leave her alone for awhile. obviously she dosent care about you right now. she might feel like she knows that your always gonna be there so she can be an ass to you now then be a perfect g/f later. let her know YOur not gonna put up with that.when she realizes your gone she will come to YOu and try to make it work. if she dosent then shes not worth YOur love. i hope i helped
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There this girl she likes this guy and this guy likes her but see I like her but I just can't show it how can I show it to her so I can prove that I love her?

you have to have confidence in urself. thats a MUST!! if you really love this girl let her know. she has the right to know.dont worry about this other guy. OK think like this. shes mine.POINT BLANK PERIOD. learn wat makes her laugh wat makes her smile. allow her to see the real you. create a friendship with her and build trust. thats all. everything else should fall into place.
i hope i helped
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