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what can i do, or cant i do anything?
my girlfriend latly has been ignoring me, and she has a real short fuse with me. Whenever i try to do somthing that shows i love her, she takes everything the wrong way and is like "why are you doing that" or somthing. we thought it was PMS a while back but she's been like this a while now. then i cant ever really show any affection for her, because (well i think anyway) that she feels crowded with this girl, who might i add is completly obsessed with her...the girls name is Ally, and all is CONSTANTLY hugging on, or holding onto my girlfriend and i think thats part of the reason she is acting the way she is. i cant pull her away for a long enough time to give her our first kiss and we've been together for 4 months. she doesnt ever really want to cuddle durring any movies at my house, because if ally happens to be there then ally is on her, and she doesnt want to leave/be rude to ally...sometimes she will blow me off for no apperent reason at all or with some excuse. is there anything i can do to make my girlfriend pay a LIL more attention to me, or is it pretty much hopeless?
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I'm sorry to say this, but it sounds like your girlfriend isn't worth the trouble. I mean, I don't know her like you do, but from what you're saying it sounds like she's not being fair to you. You are showing affection and trying to be a good boyfriend, but she is pushing you away. You deserve someone who will show the same affection that you show them. You deserve someone who will appreciate what you do for them. I say get over this girl and find a girl that deserves you and who you deserve.
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If she doesn't wanna do anything, find another girl.
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well her friend Ally is not the reason. my friends and i hug and cling together all the time it is just because were like best friends its not a big deal. and if she takes everything the wrong way write her a note or tell her that and mabye she will change. give it time and if she dosnt then dump her. if she wants to get back together that means she still loves you and will change. HOPE i helped ~JORDAN E~
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She sounds like she's being very dramatic. I suggest talking this out with her for the final time, and if things do not change, break up with her. You don't have to deal with this. If she's your girlfriend, she should want to be with you and get affection from you. Just tell her what you said in here, and then she'll either understand or wont. Tell her exactly how you feel, and do not hold back ANY of your feelings. A relationship is supposed to be based on honesty and affection. Good luck!
-Alexa
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OK the way i see it is give her a taste of her own medicine. leave her alone for awhile. obviously she dosent care about you right now. she might feel like she knows that your always gonna be there so she can be an ass to you now then be a perfect g/f later. let her know YOur not gonna put up with that.when she realizes your gone she will come to YOu and try to make it work. if she dosent then shes not worth YOur love. i hope i helped
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ok im gonna answer this anywayyy, someone has a bit of an attitude problem. most would call this a "tease". the relationship needs to have 2 sides ptting forth effort for it to work out... hard lesson learned. i can see how ally is a big problem...restraining order! lmao, no just dont invite her over. sure, it might get people mad at you but since when since when has that stopped you? something to make her pay attention to you...well, by the looks of it, you could put an amusement park with fireworks in her front yard with a band to serenade you guys for a lovely night out and she would blow you off because shes tired or ask to invite ally so they can enjoy themselves while you watch. movie night...enough said. thats rude. do whatever you want tho, i cant tell you what to do nor do i plan to. <3
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Sounds hopeless. Dump her.
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nothin is ever hopeless. im confused about this "other girl"... shes a friend of your girlfriends? well im not sure why she is always around you two, may i ask how old you both are? being a girl, i know the difference betwn showing somebody affection, and trying to get something. it also sounds like you are trying a little to hard to get your "first kiss" with her. just take the time to get to know her, maybe shes not the kinda girl who likes to be all over someone. and her and her friend need some space, so that way you two can have some time "alone". why dont u suggest going out on a date- JUST THE TWO OF YOU, and talk about everything. maybe she doesnt realize she is "pushing" you away. or did you ever stop to think that it could be something else that is bothering her? dont just think it could be PMS. keep me updated
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