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stuck on her
Well I'm currently seeing someone and things are good and all but I miss one of my ex's. I loved her and I think about her every waking moment of my life and sometimes it tears me apart. I dated her about 5 times first for 1 month then 2 weeks then a week then a few days then another few days then sadly only a day. Yes its quite pathetic. My cousin and best friend told me to forget about her because a relationship w/ her is (in his opinion) "unhealthy". This is due to the fact that Ive cut myself over her and thought of suicide. Should I move on? Should I talk to her? What the hell should I do? I am utterly confused - Mike
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What keeps breaking you up? If that isn't fixed then I don't think I'd bother any more.
Your cousin is right about it being unhealthy to see her if its going to make you cut. Nobody is worth that believe it or not. No one should EVER have that kind of power over another.
If your current relationship is good, why not try concentrating on someone who is with you already and cares about you? If you could do that you may find someone better yet! :)
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Okay i use to cut myself sumtimes i still do but like you have to get over her and just become friends with her because soon you will go to far and you just cant stop...I mean i understand your pain but u gotta move on with you life...hope i helped and u can im me any time...LiLDeViL882211
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first of all dont hurt yourself.and yes you should talk to her tell her what your feeling.
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sorry mike... but im going to have to agree with your cousin & best friend :/ but there absolutly right a relationship with that kinda girl is really unhealthy for you... you need to move on. & of course suicide is NOT the answer.
- KAYLA
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well i dont think it is that healthy to be ebsessed with any1 but i no how you feel. why dont you tell her that. try seeing her a couple of more times. if the same thing happenes i would go to a shrink they r not that bad
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Well your really taking things serious. No one is ever worth even THINKING about killing yourself, honestly. And 5 times the FIRST month? thats alot so i dont think she could be "in love" with you, or ever was. Sorry but you gotta move on as hard as it may be. good luck Mike. Hope it all works out for you. Stick with the girl you got by the way. <3
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well one, you should never kill yourself or even think of killing yourself. its one of the most selfish things someone can do. what if you did, and she was going to talk to you soon to get back together. plus it would be really hard on your friends. and two, most people dont get over loves. see how things go with the person you're with now, and if you still constantly think about her then you shouldnt stay with the person you're with because it wouldnt be fair to them, you know? you should deffinitly talk to her though. if your truly love her, talk to her. if you ever need to talk, just look up my info in my column. hope i helped. good luck.
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BABE i think you should listen to your cousin and your best friend. that is not healthy. i think you should go get help. she is not worth your life. if you love her that much and can not live with out her then you should get your problems worked out. when your in love you dont want to put that person through pain so if you do wrong to your body because of her that can also mess her up. dont stay with the girl your with because your feelings arent true to her and thats not fair. so my advice is to get help then see where things go. hope i helped
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