This question is a little bit long, but I used good grammer so it's readable!
I'm really in a bad situation. I just got broken up with by a guy who I was with for over a year and it's been 3 weeks ever since and all I've felt like doing is drinking alcohol or anything that I can find. I've never drank before, so these are weird feelings for me. I've heard that when you drink, for a while you are numb, and for the longest time I've always thought that if I could have at least one moment with all of my problems forgotten, I'd do whatever it takes and it's so true for me. I can't stop wanting to do something extreme like cutting, or drinking or not eating. What I'm really looking for is something to numb the pain in the moment. Like a drug or something that I can run to when I get depressed. Lately, I've been 'sleeping in' to forget about everything and I'm in love with sleep and I feel addicted to it. I know these feelings aren't good and I'm really scared for the next time I get depressed that I will take extreme actions.
I'm a 15 year old female by the way
Thank you, anything can help me at this point and I'll be sure to get back to you with rating!
okay.. you do not want to start cutting or drinking or doing drugs to get rid of your problem.i use to cut when ever i was down and that just left horrible marks on my wrist that will never go away and it doesnt really help that much cause no matter how much you cut it doesnt go away.. I have tried drinking sooo much that everything goes away but wen you wake up its still gunna be there and i have drank myself into rehab and its not good.. drugs work but they arnt good and mess you up.. What i think you have to do is find someone you trust with everything! and tell them whats going on and how you are feeling and then see what they have to say about it adn maybe they will help you out..Cutting and Drinking and Drugs are not the anwsers they will mess you up and make everything else worse..
Well I hope i Helped you..
Good Luck,!!
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ok so sorry this is sorta long. well i came downstairs today and my mom is sitting at the computer looking at flights and she goes, "ok so there is this mothers weekend thing at ur sisters college, but its the weekend of your birthday." (she was asking me what i thought, but ovbiously she was already looking at flights so she wanted to go there.) so i told her it was fine whatever, to go. then i just walked away. then i hear her quickly call my sister and say, "shes fine, im coming." i am so mad. not only is it my bday its my sweet 16. its like she likes my sister better and cares nothing about my birthday. would anyone else be offended/upset if this happened? i just dont know what to do. i feel like crap.
ide be pissed you have every right to be thats not right its ur birthday nd its the big 16..im soo sorry that happend to you..hope everything is okay..
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i am really concerned about my friend and i think she is cutting, what are some signs of someone who is cutting?
please help, i dont want to talk to her about it unless i know for sure.
some signs of people cutting are wearing long sleeve shirts, sweatshirts when its warm out and like not letting anyone touch her wrist and everything adn if she is emotionaly depressed then she might be cutting but the thing you should do is to talk to her about it..talk to her about and see if there is any way you can help her with her problem and tell her that you are always there for her..
hoped i helped you..good luck..
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Well I'm currently seeing someone and things are good and all but I miss one of my ex's. I loved her and I think about her every waking moment of my life and sometimes it tears me apart. I dated her about 5 times first for 1 month then 2 weeks then a week then a few days then another few days then sadly only a day. Yes its quite pathetic. My cousin and best friend told me to forget about her because a relationship w/ her is (in his opinion) "unhealthy". This is due to the fact that Ive cut myself over her and thought of suicide. Should I move on? Should I talk to her? What the hell should I do? I am utterly confused - Mike
Okay i use to cut myself sumtimes i still do but like you have to get over her and just become friends with her because soon you will go to far and you just cant stop...I mean i understand your pain but u gotta move on with you life...hope i helped and u can im me any time...LiLDeViL882211
xo bria xo
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me: i never look good lol
him: yeah you do
me: you havent seen me in like.. 10 months how would you know
him: b/c i just do
is he into me?
okay well im kinda in the same situation as you....yes he is into you...you can so tell by the way he complements you...you can flirt with him if you like and not feel bad...
xo bria xo
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ok is it true if you take a hot shower it will delay your period? do certain foods make your period come sooner? like chocolate or whatever?
no
xo me xo
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okay, well me and this guy are planning to hang out. my friends tell me i should just go to his house and hang out because we might end up making out. dont get me wrong, i feel fine around him but i havent seen him in a long time. I still want to go to his house.. but either that or the mall because at the mall we can hold hands but idunno. What should I do? and if you say go to his house, can you tell me how to ask him to go to his house?
well i think that you should go to his house...dont go to the mall because it is a crowded area and if you do end up making out then everyone will see and i dont kno if u want everyone to see that but then if you do go to the mall and make out and hang around there...hoped i helped..
xox brianna xo,.
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