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Question Posted Thursday June 16 2005, 11:15 am

okay, well me and this guy are planning to hang out. my friends tell me i should just go to his house and hang out because we might end up making out. dont get me wrong, i feel fine around him but i havent seen him in a long time. I still want to go to his house.. but either that or the mall because at the mall we can hold hands but idunno. What should I do? and if you say go to his house, can you tell me how to ask him to go to his house?

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karenR answered Friday June 17 2005, 6:40 pm:
Just hang out wherever he wants to hang out. I will vote for the mall (or someplace similar) for the reason you stated, if he gives you a choice. Get to know him better since its been awhile. :)

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LiLBaByGrL11 answered Friday June 17 2005, 5:06 pm:
well i think that you should go to his house...dont go to the mall because it is a crowded area and if you do end up making out then everyone will see and i dont kno if u want everyone to see that but then if you do go to the mall and make out and hang around there...hoped i helped..

xox brianna xo,.

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AnonymousAdviceGiver answered Friday June 17 2005, 1:44 pm:
Go to his house since that is what you want to do. Tell him that you want to meet him at his house and you guys can figure out what you are going to do from there. It gives you an easy out if you want to change your mind since you can still go to the mall.

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Mackenzie answered Friday June 17 2005, 12:16 pm:
If it weRe ME I'd just say, "Wanna do something this weekend" then he Responds.. and blah blah blah. Then say, "Hmm.. how 'bout the movies? Out to lunch? YouR place?"; and I'd state them as a question, but I wouldn't give him enough time to answeR, so all of the ideas aRe thRown out theRe.. and you wouldn't appeaR Rude by asking to go to his house. It's Really not that big of a deal; I'm shoRe things will woRk out. :)

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wet_as_water answered Thursday June 16 2005, 3:29 pm:
IN my opinion babe i think you should go somewhere public. try the movies. that will balance out. you can hangout talk before and after the movies and catch up. and on the other hand if you guys feel like making out you always have the oppurtunity! i hope i helped
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whatnext answered Thursday June 16 2005, 12:08 pm:
well, from your question you seem pretty confused. why are your friends telling you where to go? thats your choice, if you feel comfortable going to his house, then just say, since i havent seen you in awhile, can we just talk for awhile, and maybe watch a movie at your house? and if you want to go to the mall after or something, then thats okay. you seem like you dont know what to do with the time you two have. i would sit and talk for awhile, get comfortable, and later on go to the mall... its your decision on what to do. just make sure you are comfortable.
~ Kris

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mystical_breeze answered Thursday June 16 2005, 11:50 am:
I think when you next talk to him on the phone or at school you should just say, "Well how about we meet at your house or something?" and then he should probably say, "Okay," Of course, if you just want to go to the mall, you should go there. Your friends shouldn't tell you where you and your date should go on your first date. Wherever you're comfortable is where you should go to with him. I also suggest planning it out so you have more things to do instead of just making out. The mall is a good place because it could keep you busy with him and you can have fun.

-Alexa

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lilaquidas18 answered Thursday June 16 2005, 11:41 am:
Well you can either ask him if he wants to watch a movie at his house which is a plus cause you egt to snuggle with him :) or you can say do you wanna go to the mall and go shopping either way you will be dying to get your kiss.. Hope things work out but the best one i would pick is asking him to watch a movie at his house.. ♥

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