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is there ANY WAY ON MYSPACE 2 SEE WHO VIEWED YOUR PROFILE?????????? (link)
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Most profile trackers that work stop after a couple of days
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OKay so there is this guy that REALLY like and i am pretty sure that he feels the same.....The only problem is that for soome reason we are shy around eachother(we both arent usually shy people) and everyone is teling me to go for it.. even my teachers!!! and i want to but idk whats stopping me...... can anyone help me?? I know its a hard question to answer but i would really appreciate it...
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Because asking people out is scary and everyone telling you to just go for it probably isn't helping. It probably isn't helping that you REALLY like him instead of kind of liking him.
Also as a girl, you probably have it in your subconcious that HE should be the one to make the first move.
Both me and my boyfriend are the loudest people you will ever meet. Although we liked each other upon 1st meeting, it took forever for him to ask me out and way longer for him to kiss me. If I had made the first move, we would have gotten together a lot sooner and spared ourselves a lot of conversations with awkward silences.
My good advice is just go for it.
My bad advice is hide behind a telephone or computer and tell him.
Good luck. All you need to do is blurt out the words. It'll take a couple seconds and then the pain of not knowing will be over with.
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Hello, I've never been in a pagenat before and I am in one TOMORROW!!!! Please give me some advice on what to do and what not to do. I've done my research, I got my clothing ready for (talent, causal, and evening). I'm just waiting for tomorrow! I want to win so bad!! Please give me some advice! (link)
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Lucky for you I have seen every television show about beauty pagents ever.
SMILE! You may want to put some Vaseline on your teeth beforehand. I recommend trying this before tomorrow since it sounds gross. Also read the label because I am not sure if it is good for you to accidently ingest.
It sounds like you are really serious about this. That is good. But a lot of these girls have been doing this since they could walk. Don't get too upset if you lose and take notes from the winners. You may not win this time, but you will if you keep at it.
Other than that, practice in front of a mirror or in front of anyone who will watch you. You already have a good attitude and that is half the battle.
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im 15/f/ny to make a long long story short, theres this guy who i liked and then i didnt like him and when i didnt he asked me out and i said no but then when i realized when i couldnt have him i wanted him and then i fell in love. we were getting to be close friends and then he had no choice and had to move to florida which is 1300 miles away from ny =[ i havent seen him in 7 months but i talk to him online and myspace ect. hes coming back to visit in the summer. i really wanna be with him but im afriad it wont work out =[ what shoujld i do!? any suggestions or help i can get! please help me
signed helpless (link)
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You are trying to keep your heart a spotless vessel. You are forgetting that it was made to hold something.
Love is fucking scary. It sucks being so vulnerable. But you will never experience the good aspects unless you are open to them. If your relationship is so strong, it should be able to grow into something more or even survive a break up.
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I have many ingrown hairs on my legs, due to years of shaving/waxing. I'm planning on getting lazer hair removal..but in the meantime, I was wondering if using an coarse exfoliating cloth can help out? How effective is it at treating ingrown hairs? (link)
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I don't know about coarse exfoliating cloths but here is a list of other remedies compliments of wikipedia:
Manually removing ingrown hairs with special tweezers
Shaving in a different direction
Allowing the hair to grow in order to cause the hair to come out straighter
Using special razors that leave the hair longer
Exfoliating with facial scrubs, sponges, towels, or creams containing acids
Treatment with Ibuprofen or other NSAIDs promotes resolution of stubborn cases
Prophylaxis with twice daily topical application of diluted Glycolic acid
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i found my pokemon crystal game again, and i wanted to play it. [i know, lame, but bear with me.] so i play for AN HOUR. i save the game. the batteries die&it shuts off. i put new batteries, and it won`t save ! the game just WILL NOT save. i don`t know why. can i fix it ? help ! i really like this game. haha. and i really wanna play it. (: (link)
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Try calling Nintendo Tech Support. There should be a number in the instructions. They are usually very helpful.
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what's ingrown hair exaactly and how can you tell you have it?
are there in grown pimples? (link)
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Ingrown hair is a condition where the hair curls back or grows sideways into the skin. It may or may not be accompanied by an infection of the hair follicle (folliculitis) or "razor bumps" (Pseudofolliculitis barbae). While ingrown hair most commonly appears in areas where the skin is shaved (beard, legs), it can appear anywhere.
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So i've had sex and i didn't bleed when i had sex..but when my boyfriend fingered me i would bleed. Not always, but sometimes. Then i had sex with my boyfriend [a different guy] a while later and i bled..and he freaked out because i don't know why. is that normal? (link)
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Your hymen doesn't always break the first time. They should probably mention this more often since it is really scary when you start bleeding all of the sudden.
Take care,
AAG
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I haven't gotten my period for about 2-3 months. Just so you know, I'm NOT pregnant that I know for sure. I'm still a teenager so what could be the cause of this? Could I just be erregular or something, I mean it would be a little strage if I were but can someone tell me ALL the possibilites for why I haven't gotten my period for almost 3 months. Is it possible for me to have entered menopause already? What are the symptons of it? Could someone get it this early?
All reasons possible? (link)
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It is probably just irregular. My friend used to get her periods every 3 months.
You should probably go to a doctor just to make sure everything is okay, but I severely doubt you are going through menopause.
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On saturday I'm going to town with two of my mates and we're going to hang around with this totally new group of people. Well, new to me. One of my mates hangs out with them most saturdays, and the other one has been to town with them a few times in the past.
Ok, but the problems are:
1. They all dress emo/rocky/skater and although I have some clothes like that I don't wear them all the time and don't want to look try-hard. You may think 'well, you shouldn't have to dress like them' but they're very passionate about what they like, the clothes they wear, music they listen to and I figured it would just be easier if I did.
2. The boy I fancy will probably be there, which means I'll prob be feeling more self-conscious than usual and worrying what he thinks about me.
3. When it comes to meeting new people, I'm quite shy and not really sure what to say.
So, basically, what should I wear, how should I stop myself from feeling sel-conscious around the guy I fancy, and how can I stop being so shy around new people? (link)
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1. No you should not. You seem jittery enough as it is. What if they find out you are not an emo rocky skater? Your friends seem to think you will like these people and that they will like you.
2. Happens to the best of us..... Just remember how fabulous you are and you'll be fine.
3. Ask questions. Involve yourself in their conversations. Find common interests.
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Ok Well i like the boy (the same one) and he still has a girlfriend! but yesterdday we were talking on the phone b/c we are still very good friends and he was like so wanna come out side tomorrow?? b/c i think you should! then i asked him why and he said b/c i want my KISS!!! i was like whay you have a g/f and he said yeah i no!!!! so i dont no if i should kiss him or not???!!!?!?!?!?!?!???!!!!!! please HELP!!!!!!! (link)
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No, you shouldn't. It will end in nothing but heartache for you, his girlfriend, or both of you.
Besides, this guy sounds like a skeeze. You can do better.
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im 15 and me and my bf had sex sort of..
he used a condom, and he didnt go all the way in.
my cherry didnt pop and he didnt cum.
i know theres a chance of me getting pregnate..but im so scared right now. i swear i wont do it again until im ready but i really need pplz opinions. the thing im worried abou is the stuff that comes out of the guy before the guy cums. i know it can carry sperm. i just dont know wht to think..help! (link)
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While there is a chance, you probably are not. I know this is one of the scariest things ever but try not to stress. Stress if your period is late but not a second before then.
IT WILL BE OKAY!
Take care,
AAG
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ok im so confused about what is free at planned parenthood. i went to their site and i couldnt find anything on pricing. ok but first of all, my mom cant know about any of this, but i do have a way to get there..my boyfriends mom =] so anyways im 15 and i want some kind of checkup because ive bleed 2 times now after we've had sex and i just want to know whats wrong. but, that cant be free right? or is it? also, i want birth control because at the rate im at right now, im going to end up pregnant lol. but the thing is, its not free is it? how much would i have to pay for it and what do i have to do to get it? and also do you think im way to young to be on birth control? i feel like if i go and get some theyll think its rediculous. so, whats free and whats not? (link)
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I believe birth control there is 15 per month of pills (in my area). Prices tend to vary. But condoms are free!
You should probably do some more research on the pill before you go on it. It is only 99 percent effective in labs. People tend to mess it up so the effectiveness is significantly lower.
The people of Planned Parenthood are VERY non-judgemental. They won't think it is ridiculous. It is a lot less ridiculous than having an unwanted pregnancy.
I don't know how much a check up would be, but has your hymen fully broken yet? If not, I wouldn't stress about the bleeding. You can always call planned parenthood for an estimate. Their number is 1-888-743-7526. You might want to try some other clinics since their prices might be lower.
Good luck and take care!
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what happened on the last gilmore girls episodee? on the wb or whateverr. thanks (link)
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I missed it, but it was a re-run
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I have a boyfriend and we have been together for almost 6 months now. I moved away from him a few months ago. We promised that we would still be together even tho I live in Central America while he still lives in Canada. I have been away from him for 4 months now! I will be moving back to Canada in 2 months. We both knew that I would only be gone for 6 months. Thats why we chose to stay together! I know he isnt cheating on me or doing anything that would hurt me because he isnt that kind of person. I really love him and I dont want to lose him, but i feel that I am. We have been pretty steady for the last 6 months of us being together but lately things havent been going to well. We havent talked him weeks and if we do it isnt much of a conversation because we are not around each other and we do not see what each of us is doing. We have talked about everything for the last 4 months. Thats all we have done is talk. So now we have nothing to talk about. We both try to start conversations but they die so quickly. It makes me really sad. What should I do? I really like him and I dont want things to end between us, I know he doesnt either. Please help! (link)
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Relationships hit lulls even if you see each other everyday. When you get back you will be able to hang out, then you will have shared experiences to talk about. Long distance relationships are rough. You guys will reconnect.
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I like my boyfriend a lot but he seems very apathetic about the relationship to the point where I'm craving affectionate touch, etc. What should I do? (link)
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Make the first move. He might not be used to being so affectionate. He will never know that you want him to be unless you speak up or do something about it.
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how do i get glue off my hands? (link)
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nailpolish remover
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are all advcicenators in here under the age of 19 ? (link)
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I'm 19.
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I'm 13, and my mom and dad are total assholes. My mom is a drug addict who is always in jail, and my dad does pot. My mom is currently out of jail, but I still don't want to associate with her. I don't even talk to my dad. My dad visits every so often and I go to my room, because my brother still wants to see him (he's younger and still has that 'my-dad's-the-best-and-he's-superman' view) My aunt and uncle think its rude and hateful that I don't think my mom is going to to quit drugs and that I refuse to talk to her. But she has been doing drugs for 6 years (7 on the 23rd) and I used to think she was going to quit, but I don't anymore. I'm tired of opening up and letting her in, when all she does is break me again. I don't know if this is wrong or not, do you think it is? (link)
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You know what is best for you. In an ideal world, you would have a wonderful relationship with your mom and she would be sober. But if it is really too painful, don't.
All the best,
AAG
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i love getting high.Because i have alot of stress and depression but i dont tell people about it.So i get high to help me out.If i dont have pot i'll freak out an i'll act like im bipolor.What should i do?Should i just get help?Or should i get high anyways because pot doesnt really hurt me but just controll myself????? (link)
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Try weaning yourself off of it slowly. Pack smaller bowls. Then fewer.
If that doesn't work, do what everyone else is saying and go to rehab. But, I am guessing you will want to avoid that.
Good luck,
AAG
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