So i've had sex and i didn't bleed when i had sex..but when my boyfriend fingered me i would bleed. Not always, but sometimes. Then i had sex with my boyfriend [a different guy] a while later and i bled..and he freaked out because i don't know why. is that normal?
katie_babey answered Friday March 23 2007, 12:38 pm: Hi,
I dont think thats normal.You dont always bleed your first time but after you do i dont think you do again. Im pretty sure i only bled once not like all the time as wat you sed. Maybe he was being a little too rough with you and you torn something else that could be why. But for you too be bleeding every so often like that isnt really normal. Were you on you period that could be why when he was fingering you? And maybe your bf freaked out because you said that you werent a virgin im guessing then to see you bleed i think anyone would freak out about that because you shouldnt of bled. So i would go and get that checked out and see watsup with that because girlie you shouldnt be bleeding like ever time someone fingers you or has sex with you. I know you dont bleed all the time but no blood should be coming out. Ok well i hope i helped out?!? if you need anything else feel free to ask me!
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AnonymousAdviceGiver answered Thursday March 22 2007, 9:23 pm: Your hymen doesn't always break the first time. They should probably mention this more often since it is really scary when you start bleeding all of the sudden.
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