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Should i let him or not?
Ok well if anyone has read my other question you would kno that i hav been daing someone for 3 weeks now and he wants to have sex with me. but i didnt know if he was using me or not.
Well he sed that he will wait but he wants to finger me and stuff. Should i let him or should i just want because im scared that he might get the idea that i want to have sex with him soon but i dont. Im going to the movies with him on saturday and he wants to feel my up my skirt and stuff should i let him do that or not? I want him too but idk if thats the right choice. Please help!! thanks
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if he's telling you what he's going to do to you before hand, he's using you. believe me, i know from experience. dump this guy.
three weeks is crazy too soon. wait til you're married. it's a lot more satisfying.
don't do something you think you might regret even the tiniest bit later on.
good luck, hope you come up with a solution!
-amy.
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Three weeks is too soon. He can wait. Trust me, I lost my virginity at 15 and I regret it like crazy. I still regret even fooling around with anyone. So I wouldn't let him. Seriously.
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I don't think you should do that.. 3 weeks is not a long time at all. If you want to do something, feeling up is enough. sex is wayyy too far. do what will make you happy and something you wouldnt mind people finding out about... something you can be proud of. <3
edit: thanks for the rating.
and about your comment... trust me... it will get out sometime... especially if he's planning on doing stuff at the movies.
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The only person you should be asking this question is yourself, as only you know how you feel and whether you are ready or not.
However, three weeks is a very short time and I'm surprised you are happy to make out with him let alone go past that! I think that by letting him finger you/have sex with you after three weeks will just earn you a reputation (and not the sort that you want) and besides, do you really feel close enough to him to do these things? Is he really that special?
If you want to wait, wait. And tell him that you're not ready, or you just don't want to do this stuff yet. If he's a decent bloke he'll respect your opinions and wait for you, if he refuses to listen to you then he is definitely not worth the hassle, so chuck him right away.
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it's only been what.. 3 weeks? Definitely not a good idea to let him. For one thing, i'm pretty sure you guys haven't developed enough trust to even do it. If he loves you that much, he should be willing to wait till YOU are ready. Three weeks isn't even long enough for him to start feeling you up. Tell him to keep his wandering hands to himself or end it. It seems like he just wants to get physical with you rather than have an actual relationship with the other things (ie hanging out, talking etc). It's not the right choice so I would advise you definitely don't let him. You have a high chance of ending up in the position that you really regret it.
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In my opinion...you should NOT.
This is why:
If he REALLY loves you, he would wait for your- your body is a sacred thing and if you let this boy touch you, you won`t be as cool [:P] anymore, know what i mean?
Also, he may be just trying to score...to tell his friends, etc etc.
So just wwait until you DON`T have to ask a bunch of people online to do it or not, you`ll just know for sure when you want someone to do it.
Stick to making out and stuff xD
Hope I helped.
<3L.
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