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17/f okay so i hang out with a close knit group who has been like this for three years. I have an amazing best friend who i adore and love. anyways.... so my sister is a freshmen and she is with my group now too. which is cool. so on to my problem..... okay there is this girl that came to my school like a week ago and i have found that i dont like her all that much and neither do alot of the people that i hang out with. My bff was the one that invited her over and i dont really know why other than she was trying to be nice. But lately she has been acting really weird. and i havent been at school cause i am sick so i dont know whats going on but people are calling me and teling me that my bf is like following her around and that this new girl is trying to take over the group. and i dont know why no one is putting this girl in her place but now i feel like it is my job to do it. and i dont know why i dont like her i just get a bad vibe and dont get why my bff is throwing herself out there trying to make her feel like part of the group. im not jealous.....i just dont get why she would be putting this girl before all her friends..... can someone please help me???? What should i do with this girl?Show her her place or let her take over??? and what if my best friend doesnt see she is acting like a little puppy dog??she isnt like that!!she is a leader not a follower!!!!please and thank you to anyone that can help me sort this out....sorry its kinda long (link)
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Sounds like your best friend isn't that great of a friend if she's disregarding your feelings for someone else's.
I'd let your friend go. She sounds like a crappy friend.
This girl shouldn't be worth your time or your sisters. And your sister's boyfriend is dumb if he's trailing behind someone else's tail when he has a girl. If he's smart enough to stay with your sister then you two should't worry about it.
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Tommorrow is my last day of camp. I really kinda like this one guy who's in our camp. I don't want to tell him I like him because we only met a week ago and I don't want to overwhelm him but are there any ways I can flirt with him? I don't care if he figures it out that I think he's cute, but nothing like I'm THROWING myself at him. We are buddies and he's really kinda shy. Any suggestions? (link)
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Get his myspace, AIM screen name, cell number, etc... Find some way to keep in contact and just keep talking to him. He'll realize how cool you are.
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14/f hey i want to lose like 10 pounds bc my legs look big
i go to the gym and i seem to be getting more hungrier and i eat more and i have tried starving myself but i cant do it! i am 5'7 and my legs are huge can anyone give me workout tips?
please help!
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Watch the calories you take in. The average girl eats about 2,000 calories a day. So if you're wanting to lose weight, try aiming for eating only 1,500 calories a day. Pay close attention to servings. Make sure you're counting them all up and measuring right.
Don't worry so much about working out because the muscle will build up and make your thighs bigger. You don't want that.
Diet is 90% what you eat and 10% excersize.
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Okay im 13/f i live in michigan. and i cant seem too firgure out if this guy likes me!!! He flirts with me all the time. and i just dont know.. He has a gf.. but idk. we seem too talk all the time when we hang out. I just dont know. Pleaaaseee help me! I dont know what too do! Thanks..
-Please help me
♥x♥ (link)
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He either wants you to stand on the sidelines or he's trying to see if you're better than the girl he has now.
Don't flirt back with him if he's got a girl, that's not cool. How would you like your boyfriend flirting with some girl? And think about how you would feel if the girl flirted back, knowing that you were his girlfriend.
Wait for him to be single, don't let him string you along.
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well i was dating this guy and then he broke up with me then we got back togther 3 times.
The third time he told me that he likes someone else.i kinda of freaked out but didnt care after awhile.He went to dallas for a baseball tournament and while hes there he meets this girl and they go out and they have known eachother for about 2 days.she gives him a handjob and they makeout all the time.im not a total slut so i wouldnt do that with him.he wont talk to me but when he does he acts like im not important that im just some dumb girl. i want to get over him so bad but its really really hard to. no matter what he does to me i still want to be with him.how do i make him feel what hes done to me? (link)
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Maybe you should work more on yourself and less on the revenge. The answer is pretty simple, pretend like you're not interested in him, like you don't care, quit calling him, don't answer his calls for a while. It usually works. People normally want what they can't have. If he can't have you, he's going to work on hooking you back on. It'll drive him nuts if you resist. Don't be fooled by his sudden kindness when he starts to see that you don't care.
He's probably looking for someone who will put out. If you're not that kind of girl then you should really watch out for his type.
Most boys, like 98%, will put you on a pedestal to look up your skirt.
Don't put up with bullshit, and doubt everything he says until he proves himself worthy. Make it harder for him to reach you, otherwise he'll more than likely treat you like garbage.
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I'm 15/f, going into 10th grade in high school, and a full Pre-IB student [I'm going to be a full IB student]
My friends that are rising Juniors have taken their PSAT in their sophomore year, but in the Princeton Review book for PSAT said that you are suppose to take it in your Junior year? & to win the National Merit, you have to take it in junior year. Do you take the PSAT in your sophomore year automatically or do you choose whether you want to take it in 10th or 11th grade? Can you take the PSAT twice [Once in 10th grade and once in 11th] Or do you take it just in Junior year & not take it in sophomore year? AHH! How does the PSAT/National Merit thing work?
Oh, and when do you take your SAT? (link)
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I don't know what the requirements are for the state you live in but in Texas you don't take SAT in school until your senior year and you take PSAT in your junior year.
If you may choose to do your PSAT in your sophmore year, you may do so and I beleive you're allowed to take it more than once.
You may also take your PSAT more than once. I'm not sure if there's a limit or not, though.
If you plan on graduating early, it is reccomended that you take your SAT if you want to get into college... Uhm.. yeah. Have fun with that..
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hi i was wondering..how to give/recieve oral sex.like how to bring it up to your g/f. or what to say if you want it. and about giving it to them..do you just liek start kissing them and start touching them and stuff?
i hope whoever answers this understands lol..thanks : ) (link)
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It really depends on how close you are to your girlfriend.. or whoever your asking.
It's all about what you're comfortable talking about. If you can talk to this person about anything, just bring it up but be kind.
Maybe you should offer something in return, it might make things more fun.
When you find the right person, and I'm not talking about "THE ONE", just someone on your level, you'll find that it's much more fun to pleasure the other person because of their response, which, is normally a good one. hahh..
Uhm but springing it on someone in the middle of a makeout session is rude and innappropriate, so although it might work in movies or whatever, it probably isn't a good idea. You have common sense, you know this, right?
And as far as giving, uhm go watch a couple of porno movies, you'll learn quick enough. Just make sure you're open with the other person and that the other person will be open with you and they'll do just fine at directing you.
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I have been on diets before but nothin really worked. I was 169 pounds when I started the last one I was on and I lost 5 pounds. Thne my mom didn't but or help me with anything else after that so I ate what she ate/or made me. I am now 195 pounds and im only 14!!! I amm very much overweight and I wanna loose but when I try now it seems that i only gain. I want to try the Special K cereal but my mom wont buy it. she says its a waist of money. I do have a boyfriend and he doesnt think im fat but I am and every girl knows that if they ask their boyfriends they are gonna tell you what you wanna hear not what you need to hear. I need some tips on how to loose weight and things I can do to boost my metabolism. I wanna loose weight as fast as I can!!! even if it means puking after meals I will do it!! If you have ever been overweight and/or fat then you know how it feels to want to be skinny. (link)
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Dude, I'm 150 lbs and I'm looking for the same thing you are. It's simple, ALWAYS read the calories and serving size on the nutrition facts label. At fourteen, you should only be consuming about 2000 calories a day and that's for people who are a healthy weight. Try going for 1500 calories a day and if you start seeing results, then you can start moving up toward 2000.
Stay away from sugars, even in fruit. A sugary peice of fruit will leave you more hungry than you were before you ate it. And watch carbs (noodles, bread, rice, etc.).
Hope it all works for you! :]
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my vagina lips are very big and im still a virgin. how could i get ride of biggness? (link)
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I have the same problem. It's genetic. It kind of sucks but ignore it, you'll find a guy that likes it. I know it seems impossible, but you will. Some people are so kinky. Don't sweat it, not like many people will see it anyway, right? :]
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Everytime I look really "nice/good/pretty/stylish/glamorous" my friends always spot something on me. Like a little bit of smudged eye liner, or peanut-butter breath, messy hair, lipgloss not on the lips, or make-up prob. Its just so annoying. I hate it. I wish they would just compliment me. but they always find something. So I try to look good but then they always are so mean. I always feel bad after they told me that and embarassed. Its like they never have something to say nice to me. what should i do about this? (link)
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They're jealous. It's a pretty typical answer but it's true. If you have people constantly trying to find little flaws, they're totally jealous. Watch out for them, they don't sound like quality friends.
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Hi.
I'm not a big fan of dresses, but I would like to try the style out.
What are some websites that sell dresses that are comfortable and you can wear out shopping, or with friends? Nothing to fancy. I really like the punkish style too.
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Target has some really cute and cheap dresses out right now. I just bought one. You should go look :]
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this is a little weird, but what percentage of people do you think shave "down there"? would you suggest it (link)
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It's not weird at all, I shave:]. My mom has even gotten Electolysis done down there, my step mom shaves, and most of my friends do too. Go for it! Just be careful
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f/15/5' 6"/ 124 lbs
i eat a lot of junk foods haha.
if i were to eat:
breakfast: cereal and low fat milk
lunch: an apple, water, and fat free yogurt
snack: water and a grapefruit
dinner: lean meat, broccoli, water
and run for 30 minutes a day
would i see a difference in my body within a couple of months as in losing a small amount of weight and toning my legs?
i want to do it as healthfully as possible
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It's really hard to answer this question without specifics.
Are you trying to lose weight?
And what exactly do you mean by "toning" your legs?
Seriously, you don't really have to eat "the healthy way", just eat what you burn(always look at calories and servings on the nutrition facts). My dad is hardcore into the whole diet thing and he's also a weightlifter so he's taught me all of this stuff.
Carbs are good if you really plan on burning energy. If you don't, I wouldn't eat too many.
And if I can say anything about fruit, if it's sugar-y, stay away from it. It'll make you twice as hungry as you were before you ate it.
But still this question is too general. It's hard to really take or give advice on dieting over the internet. There's so much more to it than just eating "right" and "running". You have to consider wether you are proportionate or not, there's just so many things.
At 5'6'' & 124, I'd say your doing just fine (but people say that about me too and I think they're all wrong). I'm only two inches taller than you and I weigh almost 150. If you're worried about your thighs and your stomache, pick up an issue of Seventeen or Fitness magazine. They usually have workouts and diets in them that can go with your type of body.
Hope I helped out.
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me and my boyfriend have sex a lot. we have been together almost 2 years. well the other day we had sex three time within a 7 hour period.
i had multiple orgasams and cummed like 3 times in a minute. but after that it got to a point where my entire body tingled and then went numb..i couldnt move at all and i felt like i was going to pass out. he even had to stop for like 15 minutes just so i wouldnt pass out.
i felt high and drunk at the same time and i couldnt even speak without like slurring my words..
is this normal? (link)
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Heh, you're a very lucky girl. :]
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There's like dots but their not like pimples that are all soft and oily, their... hard and scabby and their not oily or itchy. I have heaps on my right shoulder, some on my left and a lot on the top part of my back and some on my neck. I'm not sure what they are they are like pimples but their like not... oily. Please tell me what they are!!! THANKS!!!!
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I have them too. I don't exactly know what they are, I always assumed it was acne or from shaving my arms. :]
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okay. so, i've been wanting to get snakebites for a while. its where you have one lip ring on one side of your mouth and another on the other side of your mouth. the only thing is my mom won't let me get them, because she thinks they'll hurt too much and that they'll get infected? has anyone ever had snakebites, and do they hurt alot, and waht are the chances of them getting infected and around how much do they cost?.
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They do hurt a little but it's not really too bad. I have a friend who does his own peircings all the time.
The cost can be pretty expensive unless you're lucky and know someone who will do it for cheap. There's a place around my house that does it for $10 on tuesdays.
And as long as you're gargling with salt water after you eat/smoke/drink/etc. you should be fine. :]
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We talk some at work. But I stoped talking to him completely when he took me off of his friends list on myspace and then when he deleted my comments. That really hurt. And he wasn't answering my phone calls or messages. But he would talk to me at work. Small talk. "Hey" join in when i'm talking to other people, say goodbye when I was leaving, things like that, But outside of work you know it's like....*SILENCE* you know. HAHAHA. I'm glad you feel that way about the whole making that chick jealous and everything cause I know that dude love his family and he know's their racist cause we talked about that before we even went out, and he put a lot I mean A LOT of stress on that mariage to the point where he told me he didn't even know if his parents should be together and he thinks his dad hates his life and his mom is tired of hearing the "N" word and all of that you know. But when he wrote that song about his parents being hypocrites I knew he was feeling me you know. I just don't want to say fuck it if this guy might be my soul mate or something cause we fit you know. we fit. (link)
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I hate that sarcastic little headline at the top of the comment box every time I go to reply to you. "You brilliant answer:" Pft, my ass. AHAHA. I'm so mean.
Anyway...
I can't believe he deleted you and your comments. That doesn't make any sense. Hmmm... I'm sorry I have to leave soon >.<
Does his sister or any of the racist family emebers have a myspace? Because he could have done that so they wouldn't see you guys talking.
Look, if you want you can contact me on myspace if you have one.
www.myspace.com/39244092
my email for myspace if you want to search for me is sandra21091@yahoo.com
I promise we'll talk more. :] This whole thing is interesting but I can only get online at work.
Talk to you soon!
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Well I know that his sister came all the way from like an hour away to meet him at work and tell him that what he was doing was tearing the family apart and that his dad might disown him. He was crying in my car and really disheartened about it and everything. At that point I told him if he wanted to end it he could but I and one of his sisters and his cousin and some of his friends said he should follow his heart, But his other sister and her husband said they refused to bring the children around and be exposed to "it" which is crazy to me. The thing about it is that the day that he was supposed to talk to his dad about it was the day that he callled me. And I had just left his house that morning at about 5 in the morning. I really want to talk to him but I don't really know how to get the truth out of him. I really want to know like, what could I ask him, how could I aproach it? I actually fasted for a dream and I dreamt that it was his dad that was the problem and he really had strong feelings for me. I'm wondering if he had to take my stuff off of his myspace because of his racist sister and her husband. They sent me dirty hate letters in a message, do you think I should tell him that? (link)
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I don't think you should tell him about what his family has done to you. They could deny it and it would make you look bad to him. It's amazing how manipulative people can be.
It sounds like his family has major problems. You could always try prying the answers out of him but if he's not talking to you, it could be because he's trying to get over you. You just never know what's going on in his head.
If you really want to play it safe and he still isn't talking to you, you could always just not talk to him and see what good it does. Give him space maybe?
I mean, if the family is THAT freaked about it, you might just be better off staying out of the picture anyway. I'm sure you're better than the kind of person who puts themselves in the middle of bullshit like that. Know what I mean?
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Ok. so i get like a lot of discharge.. to the point where i feel like i have to where a tampon almost everyday to make sure it doesnt like "overflow" and this week i tried using pantiliners and they didnt work to well... what's wrong with me.. what do i do??? (link)
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I couldn't figure out how to reply to your feedback to I came back to here.
My gyno is one of my best friends! It's a guy (most men gynos are more gentle than women) and he's been friends with my family for a little over ten years now. Not only do I visit him but so does my mom and most of her friends. He's helped me with everything I need to know. So I'd definately reccomend taking a visit to your local gyno. :]
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So i know this is probably one of the weirdest questions but i dont know where to find sex toys so is there any like household type things that i could use? I know the shower thing so any other ideaas that would be great! (link)
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You can also go to Bizarre Bizairre or Zone Di Erotica. I don't know if those places exist where you're from but hopefully. The only thing is, that you have to be 18 to buy them.
I'm really open with my dad so I asked him to buy me one. But before I got my dad to buy me one, I'd use anything I could get my hands on. Well not ANYTHING but hopefully you know what I mean.
Try using foods too? Anything that has a falick shape. :]
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