Question Posted Friday September 21 2007, 11:15 pm
17/f okay so i hang out with a close knit group who has been like this for three years. I have an amazing best friend who i adore and love. anyways.... so my sister is a freshmen and she is with my group now too. which is cool. so on to my problem..... okay there is this girl that came to my school like a week ago and i have found that i dont like her all that much and neither do alot of the people that i hang out with. My bff was the one that invited her over and i dont really know why other than she was trying to be nice. But lately she has been acting really weird. and i havent been at school cause i am sick so i dont know whats going on but people are calling me and teling me that my bf is like following her around and that this new girl is trying to take over the group. and i dont know why no one is putting this girl in her place but now i feel like it is my job to do it. and i dont know why i dont like her i just get a bad vibe and dont get why my bff is throwing herself out there trying to make her feel like part of the group. im not jealous.....i just dont get why she would be putting this girl before all her friends..... can someone please help me???? What should i do with this girl?Show her her place or let her take over??? and what if my best friend doesnt see she is acting like a little puppy dog??she isnt like that!!she is a leader not a follower!!!!please and thank you to anyone that can help me sort this out....sorry its kinda long <3333333 btw this hoe is trying to steal my sisters boyfriend
for your friend thats acepting her into the group, shes probrably just exited that shes made a new friend, she wont forget about you, and before you know it shell be paying as much attention to you, as her..dont worry everything will turn out ok
sunnyville answered Sunday September 23 2007, 4:03 pm: Yes,put her in her place you can't let her take over because then the people of the group will be obeying her in everything,open your best friends eyes to let her see this girls true colors this isn't right,I understand why you got this bad vibe it's for a reason. [ sunnyville's advice column | Ask sunnyville A Question ]
sanderuhh answered Sunday September 23 2007, 4:00 pm: Sounds like your best friend isn't that great of a friend if she's disregarding your feelings for someone else's.
I'd let your friend go. She sounds like a crappy friend.
This girl shouldn't be worth your time or your sisters. And your sister's boyfriend is dumb if he's trailing behind someone else's tail when he has a girl. If he's smart enough to stay with your sister then you two should't worry about it. [ sanderuhh's advice column | Ask sanderuhh A Question ]
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