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Q: so i have this friend that i used to be really close too. but niw it seema that we are drifting apart. is there anything i can do about that? i dont want to lose her. she means the world to me. . . . .and ideas will help. thanks
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talk to her about it, tell her that you miss hanging around with her, and maybe have a sleep over or go to the mall with her.
After this im sure you will be friends again
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Q: Okay i feel a little bad writing this because its not really a problem to have to choose between two guys, i am just confused and in need of some advice. okay so there is Boy 1 and him and i have liked eachother for about two years. We have hooked up before and hang out all the time. People pretty much consider us still together now. But the thing is, even though i am really happy the way my relationship is going with boy 1 (and we are not "going out" we just like.. know we like eachother and stuff) highschool started like amonth ago. I am a freshman and i met this sophomore guy that my friend said thought i was like attractive. He started talking to me and i find that im sort of attracted to him (boy 2) at the same time as being attracted to boy 1. Ive talked to both of them a lot recently, but seem to be thinking about boy 2 more lately. I know that this is probably because i have liked boy 1 for so long, that its exciting to have something new, but i dont want to have to keep going back and forth between themm
please give advice! what do i do!
15/f by the way
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i think that you should get to know "boy 2" better before you make a dissision.
If you think that you have a stronger connection with boy 2 then i think you should go for it, though i think that boy 1 would be very upset, it does seem though that you like boy 2 very much, and your eager to get to know him =]
hope i helped
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Q: have you ever seen on like myspace or screen names when people have there name an then a word after that sarts with the same letter or sounds the same (like "mel madness" or someting like that)
what would be good to go with jessica
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Jittery Jessica
Jolly Jessica
Jessica Jealousy
Just Jessica
lol sorry thats all i could think of;;
hope i helped
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Q: is it considered geeky for a girl to play the sims on the computer. i play it a lot but i don't talk about it with friends or anyone really because nobody else plays it and i don't want to be considered a geek. i hate geeky guys who rather play video games than go out and party. i'm not geeky am i?
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psh. no way, just because you play the sims deffinitly dosnt mean your geeky =]
hope i helped
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Q: If a guy wears a lot of rubberbands around his wrist, what does that mean?
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alright, i know what all the other people who answer are going to say, and there going to say they probb. cutt and dont want the cuts to be visable and thats soo untrue, he prob. just likes how they look or what they mean
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ohh sorry i was thinking or wrist bands
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Q:
me and my best guy friend are both 14
i really like him, more than i've ever
liked a guy before,i've liked him since
like last december over the summer though
he came out to me and told me he was gay
i still like him though, and i really need
to get over him, what do i do?
& @ age 14 do you really think he could
be gay??
oh and i cant ask my friends, cos im the
only one that knows hes gay
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Well whatever you do, dont let him know that you liked him, that will be very uncomfortible for you and him, as time goes on you will get over him, and love him as a friend.
Yes, it is very possible that he can be gay at 14, make sure you let him know that your comfortible with his choice and that youll support him not matter what =]
hope i helped
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Q: i know this might be a dumb question, but how can you be more flirty??i mean, i have never had a bf and i just wish i could. I just want to be more outgoing and more flirty and stuff but i just don't know how. so can you please juust give me some advice on anything that has to do with being flirty with a guy or how to get a guy or somthing. thanks
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first of, before you flirt with a guy you like, get to know him a little. talk to him ( about things hes interested in, hell like that) say hi when ever you see him.
Once you get to know him, let him know you like him by maybe giving him a hug everytime u say hi to him, and teasing and joking around with him, and touching him (like while joking around touch his hand or shoulder). Look at him in the eyes when you talk to him..
hope i helped =]
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Q: My best friend and her boyfriend have been going out for 11 months. I know he means everything to her and she genuinely loves him.
Well, I heard today from a friend that he has cheated on her twice, once relatively soon after they'd been going out and once about a month ago. The thing is, this friend heard it from another friend, who in turn heard it from a friend of the boyfriend. I don't know what the likeliness of it being true is, to be honest - although I've never really liked him and it does seem to fit his character.
This would ruin my friend if it was true. I was wondering whether I should tell her or not - if I told her and it wasn't true, she'd probably hate me forever as it would mess up her relationship and really upset her in the mean time. But if I don't tell her, and it is true - isn't that worse?! I really have no idea what to do, I don't want to lose my friend but I don't want her to get hurt either.
xxxx
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i dont think you should tell her, your not positive about what happened, and it would ruin your friends relationship, if you told her and it wasnt even true, i think you should wait untill you get a little bit more info on what happend
hope i helped =]
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Q: I'm considering to audition for my school talent show but i'm still debating about it.
All my family tell me I can sing, and try and encourage me but i'm still really unsure.
Btw, I'm not on here fishing for compliments, I want people to be comepletley honest with me;
So If you could listen to this and tell me what you think it would be much appreciated..
http://www.fileden.com/files/2007/3/25/924288/Emergency.wav
(It's a rough recording of me singing emergency by paramore.)
thankyou.
xxoxoxox
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i think that your really good, but you had a little trouble singing the high notes in the song, i think you should def. sing for the talent show but choose a song with not as many high notes
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Q: Well, I recently changed schools, so I haven't seen this guy for months. I was recently talking to him, but he seemed kind of down, so I tried to find out what was wrong. He told me ''I don't want to make the people I love feel sorry for me'' So I'm wondering whether he likes me as a serious thing, or he is just being nice?
He's always been nice to me..and flirty. But the thing is that he is having a really hard time with things that are going on, and I want him to feel better. I do care about him.
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let him know that you care, and let him know that your going to be there for him if he ever needs you to be.
though, im not quite sure by what you described if he likes you or not, but if you like him you should def. let him know and make it obvious that you do
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Q: i really like this guy, but hes not as into me as he was because he thinks i might be a 'player' type girl cus i flirt with alota guys and acidently lead on his friends....i dont do it purposly and ive tried stopping, what can i do to stop so hell start likeing me again???
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let him know that you are truely sorry for making his friends feel that way,
and that you really do care for him and no body else (telling him this in person would be more effective, if your too nervious, then you should at least tell him the first part in person, about leading his friends on)
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Q: 17/f okay so i hang out with a close knit group who has been like this for three years. I have an amazing best friend who i adore and love. anyways.... so my sister is a freshmen and she is with my group now too. which is cool. so on to my problem..... okay there is this girl that came to my school like a week ago and i have found that i dont like her all that much and neither do alot of the people that i hang out with. My bff was the one that invited her over and i dont really know why other than she was trying to be nice. But lately she has been acting really weird. and i havent been at school cause i am sick so i dont know whats going on but people are calling me and teling me that my bf is like following her around and that this new girl is trying to take over the group. and i dont know why no one is putting this girl in her place but now i feel like it is my job to do it. and i dont know why i dont like her i just get a bad vibe and dont get why my bff is throwing herself out there trying to make her feel like part of the group. im not jealous.....i just dont get why she would be putting this girl before all her friends..... can someone please help me???? What should i do with this girl?Show her her place or let her take over??? and what if my best friend doesnt see she is acting like a little puppy dog??she isnt like that!!she is a leader not a follower!!!!please and thank you to anyone that can help me sort this out....sorry its kinda long
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get to know her a little bit , before you make your judgement. who knows, maybe shes really nice. i wouldnt try to kick her out of your group, shes probrably just trying to make some new friends.
for your friend thats acepting her into the group, shes probrably just exited that shes made a new friend, she wont forget about you, and before you know it shell be paying as much attention to you, as her..dont worry everything will turn out ok
i hope i helped, andd i hope everything turns out okay
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Q: Ok well I don't ever show how i feel, like my inner personality. And I'm trying to show that I'm a very bubbly person and I love hugs so I like to hug people.
There's thsi girl that hugs a lot of people a day but when i hug ssome people...they're just being akward about it and it's just..yeah
Why?
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i must agree with the person who answered below me..
at first only give hugs to people you are close to,,
if you are trying to get to know some one, show them your "bubbly" personality first ,and make it obvious that you enjoy their company, and like them, then maybe the next time you see them, say hey and give them a hug,
i hope everything turns out alright =]
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Q: okay well if you are a guy. im warning you anyways. lol ok.. here I go.
So then sometimes my chest doesn't hurt. there pretty much small.. I'm 13/f and i dont wear a "Cup" bra yet. but thats not my problem ( even though i am a bit self concious bout that), it sometimes just itchh really bad. and i think sometimes i see like a scab or something on it? is that normal? Thanks.
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wait a week, if it dosnt get better, tell a parent, maybe your mom, aunt, grandma.. a female member of your family that you feel comfortible with,
im guessing that this wont be anything serious, but if your parent or other family member dissagrees, deffinitly get it checked just to be on the safe side
i hope everything turns out alright =D
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bio
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Hey there im Caileyy.
ive had many other advicenator accounts;; so ive been using this site for quite a while =]
i like childish things;;
i still watch my old muppets videos
and i love hello kitty =]
music is basically my life
i bring my ipod with me everywhere i go
i have my own style, and i dont base any of my ideas, on any one else;;
im one of a kind =]
i hate labels;;
i dont care what any one thinks about me
just keep it to yourself, before i make u embaress your self
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for being such an immature person at times, apparently i am very good at giving advice
lots of my advice comes from my own personal experiences or experiences i have witnessed my friends and family go through.
i am a very friendly person so feel free to ask me anything.
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Info
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Member Since: September 23, 2007 Answers: 14 Last Update: September 27, 2007 Visitors: 2186
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