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Well I know that his sister came all the way from like an hour away to meet him at work and tell him that what he was doing was tearing the family apart and that his dad might disown him. He was crying in my car and really disheartened about it and everything. At that point I told him if he wanted to end it he could but I and one of his sisters and his cousin and some of his friends said he should follow his heart, But his other sister and her husband said they refused to bring the children around and be exposed to "it" which is crazy to me. The thing about it is that the day that he was supposed to talk to his dad about it was the day that he callled me. And I had just left his house that morning at about 5 in the morning. I really want to talk to him but I don't really know how to get the truth out of him. I really want to know like, what could I ask him, how could I aproach it? I actually fasted for a dream and I dreamt that it was his dad that was the problem and he really had strong feelings for me. I'm wondering if he had to take my stuff off of his myspace because of his racist sister and her husband. They sent me dirty hate letters in a message, do you think I should tell him that?
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I don't think you should tell him about what his family has done to you. They could deny it and it would make you look bad to him. It's amazing how manipulative people can be.
It sounds like his family has major problems. You could always try prying the answers out of him but if he's not talking to you, it could be because he's trying to get over you. You just never know what's going on in his head.
If you really want to play it safe and he still isn't talking to you, you could always just not talk to him and see what good it does. Give him space maybe?
I mean, if the family is THAT freaked about it, you might just be better off staying out of the picture anyway. I'm sure you're better than the kind of person who puts themselves in the middle of bullshit like that. Know what I mean?
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