I have never had sex, and I have a boyfriend. I want to know exactly what happens before, during and after sex. Or approximately what happens. It is a very curious matter to me, and I sort of want to find out from experienced others instead of trying to find out for myself. lol. Thanks for your time.
connieconfused answered Thursday March 22 2007, 11:15 pm: ok. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 20 because I wanted to do it with the right guy so you are right to do what you are doing. Kudos to you. Everybodies experience is different. You gotta make sure you have: KY Jelly you can get it at the drug store. FRESH CONDOMS! Trogans or Life Styles are awesome! Make sure you go with the guy cause guys have different size penises. The condom gotta fit. Buy like 2 small packs of 2 sizes just in case it is too big or too small. DO NOT USE VASALINE! It will break the condom. USE KY JELLY! Make sure if you are gonna have oral sex you get condoms for that. Go the the sex store if you are old enough. ok then hahaha you are gonna kiss and everything, make sure he do a lot of 4 play so you can get wet. That will be a bit of a shock if you don't masturbate a lot but it is good they like it. Then he might finger you to get you a little wetter. You gotta be wet so it will go in. Then he is gonna get on top of you if that's what you two want. Then have him stick it in slowly, a little bit at a time. It may hurt or it may not depending on your body. You may bleed or you may not but if he is gentil enough you shouldn't bleed. If it hurts stop. A good dude will take as much time as you like. Then he is gonna push it in and out and kiss you and you are gonna hold him and make sure if you like it you make noise cause they like that. The most important thing is: TO BE HONEST AND COMMUNICATE! The more you are honest and communicate the better your sex life will be. And hey! Porno's are good advisors. They got nice ones for couples. Have fun. Be safe. [ connieconfused's advice column | Ask connieconfused A Question ]
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