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NEED HELP! LOVE AT RISK
im 15/f/ny to make a long long story short, theres this guy who i liked and then i didnt like him and when i didnt he asked me out and i said no but then when i realized when i couldnt have him i wanted him and then i fell in love. we were getting to be close friends and then he had no choice and had to move to florida which is 1300 miles away from ny =[ i havent seen him in 7 months but i talk to him online and myspace ect. hes coming back to visit in the summer. i really wanna be with him but im afriad it wont work out =[ what shoujld i do!? any suggestions or help i can get! please help me
signed helpless
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You are trying to keep your heart a spotless vessel. You are forgetting that it was made to hold something.
Love is fucking scary. It sucks being so vulnerable. But you will never experience the good aspects unless you are open to them. If your relationship is so strong, it should be able to grow into something more or even survive a break up.
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Ok so when you talk to him online...Tell him stuff like, "I can't wait for you to come back again" or, Better still, why dont you ask him out this time...? Make up for your mistake and let him know that you are making up for it...When he comes back to NY make stuff for him which will melt his heart like a Banana Sundae...(heehee) Like, make a nice scrapbook for him filled with memories of the time he was in NY with his friends and YOU... Let him know he means a lot to you...
But always remember that when he goes back you'll have to put in a lot of effort to make this work because it's a long-distance relationship...
Best Of Luck sweetie, xxxxx DaRkSiDe89 xxxxx
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i wouldnt get to close because when he goes back to florida your just going to be heartbroken and your' gonna feel the pain all over again
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As you have said, he is 1300 miles away and that in itself may pose a problem unless you are able to live with a long distance relationship and you can trust him (and vice-versa). It's true that sometimes you have to act or you may lose your chance and you may have already lost that chance when you turned him down the first time round. The thing you may want to ask yourself is if you both did hook up would it be something that would last longer than just a summer fling (after he goes back to Florida) and if it is just a summer thing, would you be able to handle that? I can't tell you what you should do because that is something you will have to decide for yourself when the time comes but these are just the few things you may want to consider when deciding.
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