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I am retarded!
OKay so there is this guy that REALLY like and i am pretty sure that he feels the same.....The only problem is that for soome reason we are shy around eachother(we both arent usually shy people) and everyone is teling me to go for it.. even my teachers!!! and i want to but idk whats stopping me...... can anyone help me?? I know its a hard question to answer but i would really appreciate it...
Thanx<3
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Because asking people out is scary and everyone telling you to just go for it probably isn't helping. It probably isn't helping that you REALLY like him instead of kind of liking him.
Also as a girl, you probably have it in your subconcious that HE should be the one to make the first move.
Both me and my boyfriend are the loudest people you will ever meet. Although we liked each other upon 1st meeting, it took forever for him to ask me out and way longer for him to kiss me. If I had made the first move, we would have gotten together a lot sooner and spared ourselves a lot of conversations with awkward silences.
My good advice is just go for it.
My bad advice is hide behind a telephone or computer and tell him.
Good luck. All you need to do is blurt out the words. It'll take a couple seconds and then the pain of not knowing will be over with.
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It is probably all the pressure from everyone telling you to do it. All eyes seem to be on you. Diffuse the attention by letting the subject rest for a little while and just find a quiet moment without the prying eyes and ears of the world, to talk with your crush...alone.
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write him a note/email. invite him to go do something with you (movies,pizza, school sporting event, whatever).If you're too freaked out to do this alone, make it a group event with some of your and his friends along. If he says yes then take it slow and see if something developes.
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