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Hanging out with a new group
On saturday I'm going to town with two of my mates and we're going to hang around with this totally new group of people. Well, new to me. One of my mates hangs out with them most saturdays, and the other one has been to town with them a few times in the past.
Ok, but the problems are:
1. They all dress emo/rocky/skater and although I have some clothes like that I don't wear them all the time and don't want to look try-hard. You may think 'well, you shouldn't have to dress like them' but they're very passionate about what they like, the clothes they wear, music they listen to and I figured it would just be easier if I did.
2. The boy I fancy will probably be there, which means I'll prob be feeling more self-conscious than usual and worrying what he thinks about me.
3. When it comes to meeting new people, I'm quite shy and not really sure what to say.
So, basically, what should I wear, how should I stop myself from feeling sel-conscious around the guy I fancy, and how can I stop being so shy around new people?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
1. No you should not. You seem jittery enough as it is. What if they find out you are not an emo rocky skater? Your friends seem to think you will like these people and that they will like you.
2. Happens to the best of us..... Just remember how fabulous you are and you'll be fine.
3. Ask questions. Involve yourself in their conversations. Find common interests.
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