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miserable.
I like my boyfriend a lot but he seems very apathetic about the relationship to the point where I'm craving affectionate touch, etc. What should I do?
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Make the first move. He might not be used to being so affectionate. He will never know that you want him to be unless you speak up or do something about it.
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Why don't you make the first move? Hug him for no reason. Compliment him (guys LOVE that). If he's even within a foot of your face, kiss him. Keep a hand on him all the time; if you're walking, hold his hand; if you're watching a movie, snuggle with him and keep your hand on his leg; if you're eating, continually brush your foot with his. The more you baby him, the more he'll catch on and want to baby you.
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well you should touch him first. start down the leg then work your way up slowly see what he does.
ik it is i was telling you if you do that then maybe something will happen not my fualt your bf doesnt like touching you!
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Tell him about it. The only way this will change is if you mention it to him. He probably doesn't know you're feeling this way.
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If you're wondering how to tell him. Just say you need to talk. BUT! Be sure to mention you aren't breaking up or anything. Tell him you aren't feeling like you're getting enough attention, and that you might like a little more of it. If he is a good boyfriend, he'll understand and start to show you more attention. If not, don't blame him, because sometimes it takes awhile for people to get used to relationships and start to feel extremely comfortable.
Hope I helped!
--Jack
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