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XOXO - Jackie
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E-mail: x_ReesesPieces_x@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Florida AKA The Sunshine State! :)
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Age: 14
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Member Since: August 21, 2004
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Last Update: August 22, 2004
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well im only 14 and my mom was the best but latley shes changed. last july her best friend/cousion died. and its been really hard on her as we can all imagine. its just that eevr since then shes changed completly i used to yell at her to get things going again but she wasnt listing . untill one night she said she had a dream about dee( her best friend) came down from a shining light and told her stop crying and be happy shes happy well after that shes changed but were still not back to normal our house is messy more its never cleaned and another thing she kinda took up drinking to solve her problems ... she always drank in the past but only on weekends or special occasions but and rarley ever got drunk . but now after she comes home from work she has to have a drink wheather its one or six. all the time on weekends shes always out and when i metion it she think im jealouse because she doesnt spend as much time with me as usally but thats not it . i cry very often from this and it hurts to kno i dont have the best mom in the world any more and i cant handle it my life is always going down hill from getting in fights with my family to school to love its all piling up at once and i cant hadle it
i dont know what to do
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It sounds like you and your mom used to have a really good relationship. First of all I'm really sorry what your going through.
What you should do is to talk to your mom about this. You need to let her know that you love her and want her to stop drinking and to settle it. It will also probably take some time for your mom to recover. I remember when my Grandpa died and how my dad felt for a couple of months. It's been almost a year since he died. So it'll just take about a couple of months for your mom to calm down and move on. Most importantly, you need to spend more time with her, talk with her, and tell her that drinking won't solve any of her problems.
Psalm 46:1
God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.
Psalm 46:5
God is within her, she will not fall; God will help her at break of day.
Good Luck! ~Jackie
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OK im 18 years old, and ive never had a girl friend before. Is there something wrong with me that girls wouldn't approach me or is it something that i have to do. My pics are at www.faceparty.com/dozzer check it out and tell me what you think please. It really sucks being alone. (link)
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Some girls can be stubborn on who her man looks like. I really don't have any opinions about you that I will saw though. Some girls look for whats inside. But what really sucks, is that girls these days want her man to be Prince Charming. If you like a girl, you should tell her, but remember to pick the best girl for YOU. Don't change anything about yourself just to get a girl. Maybe you'll find someone when your somewhat older than you are now. You just have to be paitent, and wait a while untill you find the right girl. Hope that helps! ~Jackie
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I met this guy, this AWESOME guy... I used to be one of those, daring girls, i would have turned really slutty and a rebel..huge if i didn't find this guy, this guy is a strong christian, he turned me around and got me help through God, he took me to church and everything and showed me how strong God is and how much I need him. He didn't like me after awhile. And that was my first love. im 14, who can feel love at this age, i know sounds stupid as ever. But this guy, had the greatest impact on my life, we're best friends, and he does this to every girl, just leaves everyone for a new one. Hes really good looking, and a really good kid. It's just, he was everything that I wanted. I've told him I loved him, he doesn't understand. I'd die for that kid.. Well, I almost did once, actually. He means everything to me. But recently we got into a fight that lasted for a month, that was the worst time in my life, it was the loneliest, coldest month of summer in my life. He forgave me, and we're okay now, but we're not as close. I want to be close, I told him I miss him.. But.. I'm still heartbroken and I still love him and I want to be here for him, even if it is just his best friend. But we aren't that close anymore, and I want to be that "best girl" in his life, the one who was there to wipe his tears and to hold him close when all was wrong. PLease help me..Just tell me what's going on... Please...
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If you love him that much, tell him. It's the only way. You shouldn't be afraid to express yourself. Spend more time with him. Talk to him on the phone. But most importantly, make sure he knows that you love him. If you would die for him, tell him. If you think he's the best kid ever, tell him. If you love him, tell him.
Good Luck! ~Jackie
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is it bad to want you parents to get a divorce? because you dont really like your dad or something? cause i feel bad, but i kinda want them to split up :( i feel really bad... (link)
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It's normal for very child to feel that way. Sometimes because of fights in the family or other sittuations. If you have a reason that you don't like your dad, you can e-mail me @ x_ReesesPieces_x@yahoo.com to tell me more about the situation. Then maybe I could help you some more about this topic.
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Hey ok the new school year starts this monday and im scared bout making new friends cuz last year i told people i was christian (im not afraid 2 share my faith) so they all thought i was weird and stuff...and i dont cuss so instead of saying a bad word id say like crap or freak or whatever and they'd make fun of me..i still want ppl to know im christian this year but im scared i wont have friends! i know what i did wrong last year id tell people that Jesus loves them jokingly and they got scared so yea not gonna do that but even if i tell them that im a christian they might reject me..so what do i do? (link)
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Well, maybe there might be more people coming into your school, so try making new friends. If your religious, try finding Christian friends so that you can trust them by being your friend. Good Luck! ~Jackie
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my boyfriend after 4 years of dating...that the whole thing was a bet to see how long he could play me!!! wtf is up with that?!?!?! (link)
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Hmm, that's kind of stupid, but maybe, if you haven't already, talk to him some more to see if your thoughts are certain. I know talking to him will probably be very hard, though, just try it to see if you can find more information, if you haven't already. Good Luck! ~Jackie
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Alright. I just moved to Tucson from New York. Well, I got a really scary call from one of my friends in New York today. These really ghetto gangster chicks that we used to hang out with have turned against us and they know I'm coming back this winter and they're planning on beating the fuck out of all of us. They always show up at Ericas and Brittanys houses and threaten them and shit and tell them they can't wait until I can back so they can see all of us dead. I'm really scared because I know what they can do. (link)
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I'm not sure if your religious, but maybe this will help:
"Avoiding a fight is a mark of honor,
only fools insist on quarreling."
Its from the bible.
If i were you, i wouldn't even go near them. just stay home. Tell your mom and dad about these things. If they know, they will probably help. Good luck! ~Jackie
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