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divorce?


Question Posted Saturday August 21 2004, 6:22 pm

is it bad to want you parents to get a divorce? because you dont really like your dad or something? cause i feel bad, but i kinda want them to split up :( i feel really bad...

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xoMarisox answered Sunday August 22 2004, 12:08 pm:
i think its ok. talk to both ur mom and dad. or just talk to ur mom on how u dont like ur dad very much. explain everything though! hope i helped! good luck! rate me please!

xoxo, maris

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Mackenzie answered Sunday August 22 2004, 6:58 am:
No at all!! You should just want youR paRents to be HAPPIE!! And unfoRtunately, sometimes they will be moRe happie without one anotheR. Yeah, it huRts, but if they aRe betteR people split.. then so be it.. it's woRth it! Best wishes!! =D

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xlostangelx answered Sunday August 22 2004, 3:10 am:
first ask yurself this..is your mom happy with yur dad? ..bc if she is then maybe yu shuld let her be happy i kno yud want yur mommy to be happy!!! and if he is harming her or treating her bad or anything, then yes, you can tell yur mom how yur feeling and get outside help if necessary..

otherwise, let her be happy and try and find ways to communicate with yur dad and find ways around the hate and maybe you'll learn to like him !!

~aSh~
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ademaluvr1112 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 10:47 pm:
no its not horrible....sometimes most of the time its better when they split

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raushelle answered Saturday August 21 2004, 9:37 pm:
Sadly, I want that to. But I think It's fine if like you're not doing anything to like completly sabatoge there marriage. lol. I wouldn't recomend telling your dad or w/e how you feel cause that would just be like very awkward whenever you saw him again. So yeah. Lol.

HOPE I HELPED
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x0JacKie0x answered Saturday August 21 2004, 9:30 pm:
It's normal for very child to feel that way. Sometimes because of fights in the family or other sittuations. If you have a reason that you don't like your dad, you can e-mail me @ x_ReesesPieces_x@yahoo.com to tell me more about the situation. Then maybe I could help you some more about this topic.

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Hotdancinchic72 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 9:24 pm:
No its not a bad thing at all to want your parents to get a divorce!
I mean there is no telling what goes on!
But what you really need to do is talk to sum1!
like a close friend or grandparent!
They can help you!
And eventually you should probablly talk to your parents and tell them how you feel becuase that could make them change their act a little bit
But dont forget they might really love eachother and you have to want whats best for them too!
Becuase they did marry eachother!
Hope i helped :-)

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manda44 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 9:15 pm:
i dont think its bad.. but u also gotta think of ur mom... is she happy with him? or are they arguing all the time and stuff.. bc if they arent and she really loves ur dad i think u should just want ur mom to be happy. i mean u can still hate him with ALLLL ur might lol but try to see that she loves him...

if u need anything else or just want to talk u can leave one in the inbox or hit me on MSN or AIM..
Manda

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llgngstachic answered Saturday August 21 2004, 9:04 pm:
dude.. its a dream boat.. you're parents will buy anything to buy your love, and if they dont, always say kinda quietly, but so they can ehar it, well, you know, mom/dad would buy it for me. ((depending on who you're with)) ride the gravy train.

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SilentHelper answered Saturday August 21 2004, 8:27 pm:
Hello. When my father does something to get me angry, I often want my parents to get divorced because he's being unfair to my mom or my siblings. However, it's perfectly normal to want your parents to get a divore sometimes, because it's usually just out of anger. Thank you for your time, and your normal, don't worry!
-SilentHelper
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lovelyrita answered Saturday August 21 2004, 8:24 pm:
That depends on why you don't like your dad. If you want them to get a divorce because he makes your mom's life miserable, that's a legitimate concern. If your parents have a healthy marriage and you just want your dad out because you know your mom wouldn't make you have a curfew, then you're just a jerk :p

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TucanFullOfHoles answered Saturday August 21 2004, 8:22 pm:
its a little abnormal, but i don't think its bad. occasionally, i want mine to get devorced because i don't think my mom loves my dad as much as he does her, and i don't like how he treats her and stuff, but ne wayz its alright how you feel. you can't really control that.

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texangirl01 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 8:15 pm:
its not bad...but if your parents love each other then there is nothing you can do really...

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Xo_Blondii_oX answered Saturday August 21 2004, 8:10 pm:
nope.Its ok for u to want them to get divorced!.

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Karen answered Saturday August 21 2004, 7:40 pm:
Nope, it isn't bad that you want your parents to get a divorce. I personally don't like my dad because he's weird. It's hard to explain. Sometimes, my parents make my life a living hell. I hope I helped and if you have any other questions, feel free to drop them in my inbox and I'll be glad to answer them :)

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whatsthedeal56 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 7:14 pm:
thats awful and your gonna go to hell for thinking that

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MissIiVannaH answered Saturday August 21 2004, 6:59 pm:
ya same here i want them to split up because my parents make my life living hell and cause they argue to much but u not likeing ur dad thats pritty bad and i guess normal because my brother doesnt like our dad but u shouldn't feel bad because who blames u 4 wut u feel right?well good luck...:)

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sexybabiiJ answered Saturday August 21 2004, 6:49 pm:
I want mine to split up to and i tell my parents that, don't feel bad, especially if they are makeing your life a living hell

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