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Yeh thats a bad picture of me, but all my good ones are being developed. Oh yea any bitches that are sayin shit about me, ON MY OWN SITE need to watch the fuck out cuz you better beleive I am gonna give it right back, I'm not as sweet as the way I look in that picture. Yeh just had to get that streight cuz I got some bitch sayin shit you can prolly see it in all the questions i've answered. lol

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E-mail: jrythurr69@hotmail.com
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i've been with my b/f for 5 almost 6 months and my mom thinks he has been telling people that we have been doing stuff. and she says she doesn't want me with him and if she sees me or finds out i'm hanging with him, i'm gonna be grounded for 2 weeks. the thing is if i'm not aloud to see him of course i'm gonna sneak around.. so i dunno i need advice like, what can i tell my mom so i can be aloud to be with him, or if i have to sneak around what do i do when she finds out or something before i freak.. thanks.

- lheather llynn x (link)
well i am a pretty bad kid like to my parents so what i would do is see him anyways and then if she grounds me i leave anyways...i went through this situation before and it works,she has to understand that you are a kid and kids are gonna act like kids and this is a good experience for you, and what happens if you guys are right for eachother, what if you guys get married and have kids, she has got to understand that shit...good luck, tell me how it goes I me on sexybabiiJ


okay well my bf has a bff they went out before me and im kool with her but it's like she spends more time with him then i do and then there is another boi that is also his bff and all 3 of them hang out im kool with all of them but they make me feel so left out and i guess my bf is trying to keep me in there group and i can talk to them but sometimes i feel like wut am i doing here or something and then when i hang out with my bff friends they r all hispanic and i am 2 but im more in the speaking english side and they treat me well.but my bfs friends dont really like them but they have no problem with my bf's friends and i guess im kinda in the middle but wut im asking 4 is should i just go away when all 3 of them r talking so i wont feel left out or hang out with my bff friends but half the things they say i barly understand but they treat me well its just where ever iam i am left out somehow....help me plzzzz (link)
ok, well that was kind of confusing so sry if i get soemthing wrong. tell your boyfriend first of all that you don't like how he chills with his best friend more then he chills with you. and when you are with his friends try and spark up the conversation. see if that works...tell me how it goes and IM me on sexybabiiJ


Hey, a couple months ago me and my boyfriend got caught having sex. I'm 15 years old and my parents were not too happy with me. They had no idea that I was sexually active before. They grounded me and told me that I could never see my boyfriend again, but I talked them into letting me stay with him, thats all taken care of but how can I gain their trust back? please help.. (link)
don't have sex anymore, wait till yur older, what if you got pregnant n' shit, that would suck, so chill out with the fucking eachother for a while lol


My little brother suffers from an extreme case of obsessive compulsive dissorder and a short fuse. How do I deal with his upsetting behavior? (link)
you gatta be careful be nice to him and just be firm when you need to


well i think i might be anerexic. im 5'4 and 93 pounds and i know that doesnt sound like alot but i really think im fat. all my friends say im so skinny but i think they are just trying to b nice... but it all fits the description of being anerexic. help what should i do (link)
I am 5'2 and 90.4 pounds, i was anerexic for a while and have to goto councling and i still think i am chubby at times, i think that you need to tell your mom or dad cuz mine was so bad that i almost went to the hospitol and i was so week from not eating that the day i told my mom she had to hand feem me cuz i cld onto a sppon, it was so bad that i had a personal trainer to build my muscles back up. be careful...you are definitly not fat! tell your mom or dad before it gets worse, i am so glad i told my mom, beleive me it is worth it, she loves you and she would want you to tell her and help you get better.

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I'm 15 n me n my boyfriend are in love, we've been together for a long time n we have been through everything together. We feel like we're ready to have a baby i just dont kno what people would think n stuff, if we feel liek we're ready should we proceed with it or not? helppp.. (link)
I think that if you and your boyfriend are surely ready, theny you should, but think about this and think it through good, are you ready to care and nourish this baby for the next 18 years of your life?

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P.S. having a baby will keep your mind off of your man well he is gone and possible make the time seem shorter...but that also makes another person for your man to miss well he is gone...so think about that.


Ok - I recently got a petsitting job about 3 weeks ago. It's great and I love it!!! But my boss is hitting on me. He's a older guy around his late 40 - 50`s (I am not good with age) And his wife owns it. She is the sweetest lady. Well me and him went on a client interview and somehow he brushed aganist my butt with his hand, I was thinking hmm ok whatever. Then just at different times it seem ackward, he was like after you and wanted me to go first and different things like that. Well when I first meet him I sorta did have this weird feeling in my stomach, but just thought it was nervousness. Well then I had to go over his house to pick up invoices for the clients. And I walked up and he was on the pourch and before we went in the house we were talking and he reached towards my lips and I backed away I am like what what he's like you had a hair .. and reached again well I took my hand and like rubed it across my face I am like oh ok. And that was weird. Well I told my mom about it and she said that that is very weird and everything and it's up to me if I want to quit my job or not. I mean I love it so much, it's just that freaks me out. My mom said whenever I was going someplace and we knew he would be there, she would go with me. But I'm just afraid since he knows my schedule what if I go to a clients house and go inside and he's in there .. or what if he's stalking me watching me walk around the dogs. Whats really weird too is that he always wears sunglasses and smokes cigars. I don`t know what to do tho. Also their was a misunderstanding about one day I was suppose to work and he like curked out on me. Then when I had to go to his house (my mom came with me) he was like calm. It's really weird. What would you do?? :-/ (link)
well trust yur instinks and tell if you have to but if you love this job so much then stay with it but you gatta tell his wife or else it might just get worse and BE CAREFUL!

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I have been talking to this kid Rob online for a while now and we like eachother.. and were both from the same state and... my cousins friend Jack who is also my sorta friend i have been around him alot is Robs best friend.. and thats how we started talking.. wehave never met but we want to sometime... should i meet him.. i mean i know were the same age.. and i know hes safe since hes Jacks best friend....

what do I do..


and do u think its bad that i sent him a pic of me? (link)
I would meet him but with someone else or else it is not safe, and make sure that the person you are going with is strong and ready to beat the shit outta anyone who does shit...ok and also sending him a pic. isn't bad as long as you have all yur clothes on lol...good luck, tell me how it goes...IM me on sexybabiiJ


Okay...I know a lot of people ask what they should do if they're bad dancers and mostly they're told that they just need more confidence and that they can't be THAT bad. The thing is, I'm REALLY bad, and I'm not just saying it. There have been dances at my school and whenever I go I feel really stupid when I'm out there dancing because I know I suck at it. My boyfriend wanted to take me clubbing once and I had to make up an excuse because I didn't want to embarrass myself! Is there any way I can improve without taking classes? Or is it something that you sort of have to be a natural at? I don't want to have to avoid dancing situations forever! (okay, I'll stop with the drama) Anyway, any advice would help. Thanks! (link)
It comes naturally for some people but at the right time, just like i went to a teen night and all of the sudden i could dance and i also learned off of other people too. It is true you need confidence. and one of my friends tried this, they asked me (one of their closest friends) and they danced in front of me and i told them if they were good or not, this sounds kinda cheesy but you gatta feel thhe beat or else even if you are a od dancer, you are gonna suck,and also ask someone you trust not to tell and ask them if they can teach yo how to dance cuz i bet you they will feel realli cool doin that....good luck


When after having sex and if the sperm ejaculated in, what kind of pills are good to take to avoid prenancy from happening? (link)
Orthotrycyclin or the patch


Whats the chance of a condom breaking? (link)
1 in 500 > Trojan Condoms


my boyfriend after 4 years of dating...that the whole thing was a bet to see how long he could play me!!! wtf is up with that?!?!?! (link)
it is just an excuse of why he is breaking up with you, he is so bullshitting you

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Alright. I just moved to Tucson from New York. Well, I got a really scary call from one of my friends in New York today. These really ghetto gangster chicks that we used to hang out with have turned against us and they know I'm coming back this winter and they're planning on beating the fuck out of all of us. They always show up at Ericas and Brittanys houses and threaten them and shit and tell them they can't wait until I can back so they can see all of us dead. I'm really scared because I know what they can do. (link)
pump yurself up, get a brother and sister to beat their asses, don't be scared


how is believing in god dorky you sick freak?! (link)
I said thats what people at my school think, get yur facts streight bitch


OK so theres this new boy at school and like i talked to him before i talked to him at school online... and hes really nice n stuff and last nite we had our first football game! and then afterwards there was this party at my friends house so i invited him to come... he did and we had soo much fun, but i think he likes my friend Michelle, like followed her around n stuff... and like talked to her the most but hes just sooo great and perfect like he got up and danced in a cirle and he doesnt even like know ne one.. like hes the new kid! i love his confidence and how he acts and i dunnno but then my x boyfreind was there and he was like sorta mad at me for like being with the new kid... and my x is like my best friend... but he broke up with me! but i really really like the new kid a lot! so how do u think i should deal with this? (link)
i think that you should forget about your mean x-boyfriend and go on with yur life and get with that new kid ...he sounds great to me so go for it

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ok me and my boyfreind have been going out for over 2 months now and we are truely in lovewe both think. and he promised he would marry me.. but then he was just on vacation like 1 week ago and when he got back i told him that i would nevr break up with him no matr what and then he tells me when he was on vacation some girl started puttin her hands down his pants and gave him a handjob.. and then he asked her out when she was done with the handjob and he sayd ok (not saying yes or no)..and then later they were on the couch and she was all over him and hes like what are you doing and shes like ur my boyfriend and hes like no im fucking not and then she called him when he got back but he just hungup on him... I SO NEED HELP! really really i do !!! i rate really really high!! ~thanks~ (link)
ok well that girl just wants some and you need to get rid of yur so called boyfriend cuz he is just shit

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hi im a 13/m and i dont masturbate by like just putting my hand around "it" and pushing or w/e i just take a pillow or w/e and sorta push on that (sorry if thats 2 graffic). is that abnormal or not? (link)
Whatever floats yur boat


ok my bff just stop bein friends with her old bff her old bff hates me she always puts me dowm and makes me wanna stab her she also calls my cell and says "ur ugly im pretty u need to die gay loser biotch" wat should i do??? i really need help or it will go on forever!!!!!!!!!!! plzz help.....thanx!! (link)
ok you need to let me talk to that bitch cuz i will set that bitch streight you need to yell right back to her in the meantime ....IM me on sexybabiiJ and if you need me to i will beat the shit outta that girl lol, i hate bitches like that! lol


Hey ok the new school year starts this monday and im scared bout making new friends cuz last year i told people i was christian (im not afraid 2 share my faith) so they all thought i was weird and stuff...and i dont cuss so instead of saying a bad word id say like crap or freak or whatever and they'd make fun of me..i still want ppl to know im christian this year but im scared i wont have friends! i know what i did wrong last year id tell people that Jesus loves them jokingly and they got scared so yea not gonna do that but even if i tell them that im a christian they might reject me..so what do i do? (link)
well i totally forgot about god cuz in my school that is really dorky but you sound like a good kid and you need to tell them why you don't cuss and if they still reject you , you don't want them aas your friends anyways

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Hey I was just wonderin how you get people to ask you questions for your own inbox. Do you need a specific number of questions answered? Thanks. (link)
you put it in your profile on AIM or you goto "Veiw Questions" and you have to answer other people's questions

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