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HELP! is he cheating on me?

Question Posted Saturday August 21 2004, 5:20 pm

ok me and my boyfreind have been going out for over 2 months now and we are truely in lovewe both think. and he promised he would marry me.. but then he was just on vacation like 1 week ago and when he got back i told him that i would nevr break up with him no matr what and then he tells me when he was on vacation some girl started puttin her hands down his pants and gave him a handjob.. and then he asked her out when she was done with the handjob and he sayd ok (not saying yes or no)..and then later they were on the couch and she was all over him and hes like what are you doing and shes like ur my boyfriend and hes like no im fucking not and then she called him when he got back but he just hungup on him... I SO NEED HELP! really really i do !!! i rate really really high!! ~thanks~

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Nyctophobia87 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 12:51 pm:
Marriage after 2 months..... Oh the drama.... Don't worry about him/her?

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Mackenzie answered Sunday August 22 2004, 6:36 am:
Dude.. dump 'em!! And YESSSS that's cheating!! And you DEFINITELY DO NOT need to be putting up with that. Go find someone who will tReat you the Right way; someone who will appReciate YOU as much as YOU appReciate THEM!!! I wish you the best of luck!! Hope I helped!!

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Premium1020 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 11:20 pm:
alright sounds like another thing ive gone through lol.. well 1.. if he let her do that then thats technically cheating .. he could love you and stuff but he lets his hornyness get in the way of that.. this kids gotta learn how to set aside temptation for the one he loves cuz some kid did that 2 me a bunch of times and all my friends were tellin me to dump him and finally i did cuz i couldnt take all the lies so now im happy and where still friends..

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xlostangelx answered Saturday August 21 2004, 10:04 pm:
ok...leave him. im sorry but if he really cared for yu ..he wuldnt bare to hurt yu!! he let sum girl give him a freaking handjob and thatz ok?! noooo!!! leave him plz .. if yu let him go this time, he'll think he can get away wit it again!! take care and get back to me if yu need more advice!!


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llgngstachic answered Saturday August 21 2004, 9:13 pm:
talkt o him, you promised himt aht you wouldnt break up with him no matter what. if he didnt want anypart of it, and the girl came onto him, then dont blame him. find the chic, and beat her ass though

*my cousin was here and was the one that was typing, so dont mind anything harsh for this*

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TucanFullOfHoles answered Saturday August 21 2004, 8:44 pm:
i know you don't want to hear this, i know you really really don't, but i think he's being kinda shady with you. First off, its good that he was honest with you, but i'd ask him for her phone number, and i'd call her and ask her what she had to say. tell him that you want to believe him, but like this is really really hard for you, and then tell him that you just want to trust him again so you need to call her and see whats up with her. call her and ask her what happened. see whats going on you know.

that whole ok thing is whats shady. . .

but if he was honest with you, that means he wants your relationship to continue, so thats good.

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snowwalker69 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 8:29 pm:
Hun, I hate to be brutal, but your man cheated on you. If he let some other girl give him a handjob, that is cheating. And if she asked him out and he said ok, that is technically saying, yeah, but i want more action first. If he didn't cheat, he wouldn't have let her go down his pants, and he would have said no. You might love him, but i don't think he is ready for that commitment.

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princs answered Saturday August 21 2004, 8:21 pm:
ok hun he let another girl give him a hand job. that constitutes cheating!!!!! and he did it after only 2 months?!?! everyone deserves a second chance so i say you talk to him about it and tell him how he hurt you. keep an eye on him and if he messes up again kick his ass out!!!!
hope i helped!!

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brittishbaby answered Saturday August 21 2004, 7:51 pm:
I wouldnt get upset over that, if he backed away from her i think thats a good sign. although he did go out w/ her in the first place. My suggestion is that you talk to him( if what happened bothers u) and say i dont want you doing that and someting like that. but he didnt cheat on u.ask questions or IM me on AOL, JustASweetkiss76

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sexybabiiJ answered Saturday August 21 2004, 6:57 pm:
ok well that girl just wants some and you need to get rid of yur so called boyfriend cuz he is just shit

IM me on sexybabiiJ

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xcaseyx answered Saturday August 21 2004, 6:54 pm:
was he drunk when he did it?? because it sounds like he didnt mean to do what he did or that he acts like he doesnt like her around you or hes making up stories .. i think that you should stay with him but if he does something like that again .. be more suspicious

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