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18/female.. he is also 18
I've been with my guy for over a year and a half, but we broke it off about 3 months ago because I moved about 30 minutes away. We tried to keep things going, but I was so used to seeing him every single day. It was basically like we lived with each other. He always spent the nights with me at my apartment and what not. I sort of lived on my own and I didn't have a job or anything, so he was the one who made sure I wasn't hungry or sick or feeling down or anything. I guess I was so used to seeing him everyday that once I moved away, that it hurt me a lot that I would only get to see him only once or twice a week. I'd complain to him about how I felt, so he decifrf to break up because he said that he doesn't want to hurt me. Him and I, we still keep in touch, I tell him I love him still and he as well. Well, I've grown accustomed to him not being able to see me all the time, so I guess that now, it's okay when we don't see one another much. We still act like boyfriend and girlfriend; the only thing that hurts me now is that I know that we're not. I still treat him the same as when we were together and a lot of times I beat myself up about it. I feel like.. I'm a whore or something, giving out my love to someone who isn't even my boyfriend. I guess what I'm trying to ask is, if I should hold on to what we have and continue on, or should I just say fuck it? I know that in time, we are definitely going to get back with each other.. so.. until then, should I just keep giving him my love?
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Wow! I'm soRRie to heaR that. I know exactly what you'Re talking about!! A lot of the giRls on this site asking questions about love aRe usually 12 and 13, but since you'Re 18, I'm going to faiRly assume you'Re moRe expeRienced with Relationships, love, and life situations.... and since you'Re so shoRe that you aRe going to get back with this guy, I say go foR it! Talk to him about it; don't beat aRound the bush though. Come stRaight out with it, and make shoRe you let him know exactly how you feel, so theRe's no confusion. Make shoRe to bRing up the question of a Relationship, to determine together the possibilities of it. Hopefully things woRk out!! I wish you the veRy best of luck!! Take caRe!! Hope I helped!!
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tell him how you feel, and if he says he doesnt want to hurt you, just be like, by not being with me is hurting me even more.
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well, yu can tell that yu love him very much and same goes for him..he broke up with yu in YOUR best interest so yu wuldnt be hurt even tho it hurt him to end it..he wuld rather hurt then have yu hurting..and thatz something yu kno yu shuld hold on to..i mean, how many guyz wuld actually do that nowadays?? i wuld definately keep sending him yur love and dont even consider stopping. i wuld also let him kno how yu feel, and tell him that yu love him so much and that even tho yuz are far apart..yu can still see eachother every mintue available and can still share love even wen yur apart!! i mean, therez still the phone!! my boyfriend lives 45 minz away and i see him every single weekend and then talk to him on the phone every day during the week. weve been together for 2 yearz and sometimez it drivez us crazy cuz we miss eachother so much, but then again, not having eachother at all wuld kill us even more !! so try talking to him about this and tell him that yud love to try it again, or if yu dont wana jump into it again, then just keep doing what yur doing!! good luck girl and dont let this one slip away!!!<3
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