Hey there. I'm 18, and my birthday is January 8th, 1988. I have brown hair, blue eyes, and I'm short.
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I love to help people in need, and I believe no question is a stupid question. I've been through some of stuff in my life (as everyone has!) and if you need any advice on sex, health, relashinships, school, family, or whatever, I can help. If I don't know much about your problem, I'll search info up on google, and give you some reliable, trustworthy advice.
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There's a slight chance that I could be pregnant. First of all, I'm only 15 years old. I recently had sex for the first time (a little over a week ago). We used no protection, and I'm currently not on birth control. Apperently, there's certain days after your period that you can get pregnant. Well, these were one of the days. He didn't cum, but my sister told me about "pre-cum", and apperently..that can get you pregnant too. I'm terrified. I should be starting my period again in about a week, and I'm usually never late. So if I am, should I tell my mom? My mom is a very God-like lady, and when she found out my brother, 19 years old, had sex she was VERY dissappointed in him. I'm 4 years younger..and a baby? hmm. What do i do! Abortion clinics tell your parents, and there's no way I would have the baby.
p.s. I'm not certain if I'm pregnant or not, so please don't respond with anything to make me regret my experience. (link)
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Hey there. I really dont recommend abortion, because I dont think your mom would be happy about that either, and mothers always have a way of finding out. PLsu, before your 16, you must of parental consent, and there is a time limit on abortions. But I wouldnt tell your mom until at least a week after your missed period. Very often at your age, your period can skip a couple of days, and out of personal experience, expecially when your stressed. And getting pregnant from precum doesnt happen all the time. If he released, then I would be really worried, but since he didn't, try not to stress out about it. Good Luck. And if you really didnt want to have the baby, if you do by some far fetched chance you get pregnant, you can always consider adoption. There are many couples out there who would LOVE to have a little baby.
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Today my partner and I were having sex and he "released" himself inside me. After sex, he began using a dildo on me until I was satisfied. Well, after going in and out of me real hard and fast, a foam-like substance began to appear. The foam was exactly like hair mousse. I am not on any type of birth control (he has a vasectomy), and I was recently tested for STDs a couple of months ago and everything was fine. Could you please tell me what this may have been from!
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I wouldn't worry about it. When his sperm and your discharge were combined, added with the force of the penetration of the dildo, it will create a foam like substance. It is completly normal, so dont worry about it! :)
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Doesn't matter who reads this, but girls would most likely know the answer.
A friend of mine told me that having sex on the 14th day after your period there's a greater chance of getting pregnant, and sometimes 2-3 days after that too. Is that true? If it is true, is that correct? (link)
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hey there. Yes it is true that around the 14th days after your period, your chances of getting pregnant are very high. This is because your ovulating.
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Is it normal to bleed after getting fingered, and i queefed could that have anything to do with it because i was in a really odd position. (link)
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Hey there. Well, there are many different reasons why you could bleed after getting fingered.
1. If it was your first time, then being fingered could cause the bleeding.
2. You could have started your period at a very ironic time.
3. He could have scratched inside of you with his nails, with neither of you reliezing it.
And queefing wouldn't make you bleed. Remembering, a queef is just excess air being squeezed out of you.
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If yur on the 1st day of yur period, but yur flow is just normal, not heave and not light, can yu go swimming w/o a tampon? Like is there anything yu can use or do to go swimming w/o a tampon. Dont talk about how easy to use and comfortable tampons r, thats not what i care about. Plees help, i rate high (link)
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There is no other way. It's either tampon or bloody pool.
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well my ex boyfriends birthday is coming up and we decided we were gonna spend the day together after school or the following day together! weve been broken up for almost 7 months now! ya i know a really long time! but through it all weve been like best of friends and we talk all the time! and weve hung out twice this summer! well he does tell me he knows we both want to be together but it wont work right now because he is dating another girl but they arent going out cause she cant have a boyfriend! and even after being broke up hes like i love u and i always will! and just last night he said he missed us! and i still really care about him! but anyways for his bday i wanna do something really cute! i was already thinking about making him a cake and decorating it all cute and getting him a card! but i was trying to think of something else special i could do to show him how much i care! any ideas? thanks so much! (link)
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Hey there. I say get him something cute and sexy. lol. The cake and the card is very expected. A good idea, but always expected. Instead why dont you make him a themed mixed CD. Think of what he likes, and dislikes. I cant really tell you what to et him, because I dont know him personally. Anyways, good luck hun.
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i just had sex for the first time last night, and now i have a clear, odorless, jelly-like discharge comming out. is this normal? (link)
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yes
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I just had sex for first time, and both my inner labias have swelled up about 5x their normal size. Will the swelling go down, or should I be worried?
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it will go down
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i think i just made one of the biggest mistakes of my life. me and my best guy friend have always had a friends-with-benifits relationship. he was fingering me today and ended up sticking his penis in me. we were going for a little, but we had to stop because he had to leave. he didn't get to cum and we did full out have sex. but knowing that his penis was in me... is that enough to count for losing my virginity? (link)
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yes, insertion of the penis does count for losing your virginity
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can you discharge if your pregnate? (link)
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yes, discharge actually becomes more frequent when your pregnant
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Ok well at camp this summer, i had a boyfriend 3 years older then me. You know we would hold hands and stuff and kiss and everything but like everyonce in a while he would grab my boobs and my butt and i didnt really like it but i just threw it off. anyways when i got back home, guys were all calling me a slut, and theres this guy Diantrey, and now hes like all over me grabbin my slappin my ass grabing my boobs tryin to undo my bra and stuff its getting so annoyin. now its starting to spread around my neighbor hodd now people are tryin to like hook up with me say hey baby wanna come over to my hosue tonigh. anyways i've been puttin it off but now its startin to get to me. does anyone have any advice how i can stop all of this??? (link)
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tell them to fuck off and that your not like that. And if they try anything with you you are not into, it is classified as sexual assault, and you have every right in the world to say something to someone of higher authority/
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well my boyfriend and i have been having sex, he wa smy first. and its fine and everything but whenever he wants me to give him head or a handjob.. i cannot do t.. he says im really not that bad.. but i can tell i am.. it takes forever giving him head and i dont know... i try hard but i cant.. any tips or websites i could check out? thanksss (link)
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www.sex-project.com is the best site for this type of stuff. It will teach you everything and more. And blowjobs take longer then sex usually, especially for first timers!
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OK im 14/f and i wear a 32C and im not sure if guys like the big breast? ANd i dont wear padded(Spelling?) bra or anything and their really big. im tiny and i have big breast is that normal?
I rate High for real answers!
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Yeah, it's normal. I know a sixteen year old who is only a 11 pounds and wears 32C. I personally wear a 34C, and no one has ever complained about my size. A C cup is perfectly normal, and C's and anything below guys love!
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has any one got any tips on how to seduce my mate? (im female hes male) i want him so much but i have no idea where to start. i see him where he works most of the time so i need some pointers on how to get him on his own and that kind of stuff. thanx (link)
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ask him if he wants to come over to your place for a drink or a bite to eat. I would flat out kiss him first of all, and perhaps, if he is into it, you will start making out. Well, making out has its definite benifits. Touch him all over, gently and slowly. It is a huge tease. Kiss him all over. And start slowly taking his clothes off ... or perhaps you can do a striptease for him, and take off yours. Make it fun, and be careful.
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well im now 13 and have masterbated since i was 11 and i was wondering if i continue masterbation will i ever go through puberty
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Technically you are already in the phases of puberty because you are masterbating
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Okay this might be a stupid question but i heard that u bleed the first time u have sex but i was wondering if its normal to bleed any time after the first time..? (link)
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um, yeah, if your on your period. If you mean right after, it could just be the blood travelling slow ... but if you mean a couple of days after, then you should get checked out
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Well, my boyfriend and I are going to have sex for the first time on Tuesday.
I was just wondering if I should, like, shave you-know-where. I've tried shaving that hair before, but it didn't really go over so well... It was still stubbly and I couldn't get rid of that, and it was really just wierd.
I was wondering if the hair would gross him out or something... Would it? (link)
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Hey there. I dont think it would gross him out. lol. If you feel more comfortable with the hair, keep it, and if you want to shave it, do it. Yeah, it gets stubby, but you have to shave enough to get the stubble away. go to http://www.sex-project.com and they have some great advice on shaving (dont worry, it isnt a porn site, lol)
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I am a virgin and I am ready to have sex i think about it all the time but i'm afraid that it might hurt. My question it what does the first time haveing sex feel like? Is is digusting and painful or is it wild and crazy in good way? (link)
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Hey there! Well, your fear is confirmed ... it does hurt, but only the first time. The first ime having sex .... well, mentally, your scared to death and nervous, and physically, when he enters you, just the tip of the penis will sting a lot. It will sting like .... getting cut there with a razor a bunch of times. lol. And when he pushes it the rest of the way in, it hurts a lot. It brought tears to my eyes ... BUT DONT STOP IT, because you'll just have to put up with it next time. As your first time sex progresses, the pain lessens a bit, because your body isnt so shcoked with a foreign body part in you. It's painful, not disgusting, lol.
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theres this girl i like a lot and i know she likes me and tomorrow she is coming over and its not like ive never kissed anyone or anything but i want someone elses opinion...what is the best way to get into a situation where you start kissing someone without just throwing yourself to them (link)
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Try a romantic reproach. Say something really sweet, something that will make her blush. Take your hand and put it on the side of her neck, and slide it up to her cheek. Look her in the eyes, lean in and kiss her the way you want. Believe me, her toes will be curling from it.
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Ok this is a real question i really want to know why do most girls think all guys want is sex it drives me mental because i actually flipped out on someone who asked a question and said anyways dont all guys just want to get laid it drives me mental and i just want to know why they think this cause i know when i get a g/f i actually want a relationship. (link)
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good for you. Do you want to know why most women think men want sex. It is bbecause MOST men want sex. But not all of them. You, and a rare few guys out there, want a relashinship. Sex is not the most important thing to you, and that's great. I understand why it would drive you mental ... just whenever someone says something like that to you again, just tell them that your not like that, and are actually looking for love, and if they know you well enough, and trust you, they'll believe you. Dont stand up for all men, because your standing up for a large population of players and sex a holics.
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