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Well, my boyfriend and I are going to have sex for the first time on Tuesday.
I was just wondering if I should, like, shave you-know-where. I've tried shaving that hair before, but it didn't really go over so well... It was still stubbly and I couldn't get rid of that, and it was really just wierd.
I was wondering if the hair would gross him out or something... Would it?
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a lttle hair is normal but if ur bushy then it may disgust him
get an electric buzzer ar sumthing like that nd shave over it lightly
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ok, guys opinion. i think its sexy, dont shave. but if he hasnt even had his hand down there, you shouldnt be having sex
sex is a big step, you should explore eachother first, have fun. manual, oral and intercoarse should be 3 seperate steps on seperate days. (personally i think you can skip oral on him if you dont want to do that, but he should do it on you) preferable several times on each step before moving on to the next one.
after he has felt you out a bit, be open and ask him if he wants the hair gone.
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Hey there. I dont think it would gross him out. lol. If you feel more comfortable with the hair, keep it, and if you want to shave it, do it. Yeah, it gets stubby, but you have to shave enough to get the stubble away. go to [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) and they have some great advice on shaving (dont worry, it isnt a porn site, lol)
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Im not a boy or anything but my boyfriend he has seen my "you know where" and he thinks that hair down there is a sexy thing and alot of my guy friends think its sexy too don't worry about it cuz the main thing you should be worrying about is the sex not the hair.DONT SHAVE IT!!!!! I shaved mine once and it itched like hell!!
GOOD LUCK!!!
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Well you should shave it anyways..much luv dez
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I think that if your not comfortable with it, than shave it off. But if you don't see a problem with it, keep it. Besta Luck
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first of all its kinda weird how you two have like a scedule but anyway, just trim it up a little, or be creative and corn row it or something
-Dr.Phil
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I think you should ask your boyfriend which her perfers. because if you cant ask him that then why are you going to have SeX?
hope i helped
o x AnJeLiCa o x
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1. you should def. be able to ask him that before you have sex. if you cant even talk to him about that- then you should NOT be having Sex!
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Now, I need you to listen to me, that guy cannot choose the way you look, or the way you do things on your body, and he should like things the way you do to yourself, you chose the way you shave there, and if hes bothered it better be a good reason, because this is your body. And about the shaving, its suppose to get stubbly, its just natural, and you can make it very hairless igh when you shave it, but later in the day, it will have stubs on it, thats just the way it works, so remember, this is your decision. And USUALLY the guy has no problems with the way your private area is taken care of. I hope you and your guy have a great night on Tuesday!
-TheTeenGirl
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Usually guys like "done there" shaved. Just try ur best or try a self waxing thing. But if he doesnt like the job you've done well he isnt worth it...Hope this helps
Nora and Leanne*
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you need the hair for protection against dirt....i think guys like hair over there because if you don't have hair it looks like you havent gone through puberty yet..
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d/w! hair is fine! i've heard from guys that they dont like it bald down there coz the chic looks like a little kid and it is a turn off. some guys like it though. oh but dont make it all bushy!!! trim it and neaten it up a bit. do your bikini line. :)
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depends on ur guy...i think you should let it grow out, then shave it...i mean every girl has problems wit it..its not the funnest thing in the world to do. But most guys that ive met...prefere it bare down there. You could try waxing...but if the guy gets grossed out, he's obvioulsy not worth your time...cuz if he realli likes you he'll take the good wit the bad...and he'll want the romantic part that comes wit sex, not the just the sex part...hope i helped!
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Well, if you two are really comfortable with each other, it shouldn't be too much of a problem. I think you should ask his opinion, because he'd probably give a straight answer and then know what to expect.
Frankly, if he's not shallow and accepts that both of you have hair down there, then it shouldn't matter. Then again, pubic hair just grosses some people out. So either ask or shave really well, I'd say.
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Every guy is different and some do like a girl's pubic hair shaved and some don't. It's all a matter of opinion. It shouldn't gross him out, since every guy and girl has pubic hair. You should talk to him and ask him if he you to shave or not.
-Karen
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Umm well he should know that you have it there and he has hair as well. Just shave make sure you don't irritate your skin and stuff.
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