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Well. Im 13 and Puerto Rican. I Live in Laconia Newhampshire. I love To Talk on The Phone, and be on the Net, & Give Advice.
Im In Love w. The Man of My Dreams .
My Best Friend is Jadelyn and were Like Sisters and She Helped me Make this :-P

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Gender: Female
Location: Laconia,NH
Occupation: Student.
Age: 13
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Member Since: February 20, 2005
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Last Update: February 21, 2005
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My friends trying to quit smoking, he asked me for adviced and I told him to use those patch thingys. But is there any other ways to quit smoking? If you smoked, and now you dont..how'd you stop? Thanks and I'll rate everyone! (link)

Try the Smoking spray its this spray that my dad used and it made him quit. i also think that you should use the patch and stuff because what ever would help you should try.
- h o p e - i - h e l p e d-
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Aright well im 14/f and me and my b/f have been together for almost a year...and he hasn't tried anything, I mean im not waiting for him to do something with me...but is it weird that he hasn't tried anything after almost a year or does it just mean that he really loves me? Like he's always all over me and touching me, but whenever im around me friends they just keep on askin me "have you guys done it yet?" and ill just be like "no" cause we havn't. And sometimes they just end up saying that he's stupid to not try doing it with me (i don't think that) and that they expect us to do it now that we've been together for almost a year! So I need to know does he really love me or is it just weird?

Thanx (link)

I think he loves you because if you have stayed together for this long then i think that maybe he thinks he doesnt need to have sex with you to be happy.
But when something comes up then just do it if you love him because im sertain that he will deffinatly want to have sex but he wants you to know even if you two dont have sex that he loves you.
Hope I hElped.
x o AnJeLiCa o x


Well, my boyfriend and I are going to have sex for the first time on Tuesday.

I was just wondering if I should, like, shave you-know-where. I've tried shaving that hair before, but it didn't really go over so well... It was still stubbly and I couldn't get rid of that, and it was really just wierd.

I was wondering if the hair would gross him out or something... Would it? (link)

I think you should ask your boyfriend which her perfers. because if you cant ask him that then why are you going to have SeX?
hope i helped
o x AnJeLiCa o x


Ok, I give advice but for once...i don't have an answer. There is this boy at my school and I like him alot, we flirt with eachother alot and talk to eachother all the time. Everybody thinks we would make an awesome couple but It only works if he likes me back. I am a kinda preppy emo gurl and he is a punk. I hang out with alot of punks and emo and skaters... how can I let him know I like him without being pushy or love dovey (haha) please help me! How can I dress or act give me everything you have!!!!! Thanks very much!
Age:13 ( a little young, but love is for everyone)
Gender:female (link)

i thiink that maybe you shouuld just ell him how you feel of have a friend do it.
are you friends with any of his friends? try to get one of his friends to put in a good word for you
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Okay here is the problem my friend just turned 12 last week but her room looks a little kiddish with like pink wallpaper,horse models and so on but she wants her room to look like a 12 year old kid's room but her mom will not let her get new furniture or paint her walls.So does anyone have any ideas on how she could make her room look good without getting new furniture and stuff?I will rate fives to anyone who helps with this room emergency no matter if your advice is not very good!!! (link)

i think that she should go and tlak to her mom maybe her mom will let her.
her mom isnt the one who is sleepin in there so maybe she should just let her paint her room and stuff..
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I was reading seventeen or teen people or cosmogirl...i forget which one. anyway, they talk about not doucheing and i was wondering what that is! Thanks in advance and I'll totally rate ya high if you help me! (link)

A Douche bag is to clean your pussy...


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A couple of weeks ago I got caught smoking pot on school grounds. and Now I really regret it. Its going to fuck up everything and I completely lost the trust
of my parents. Is there anyway I could get their trust pack. Thanks
XxBrookexX (link)

Just dont Do it Anymore.
and you shouldnt of done it at all and you SHOULD of known not to do it on school grounds. because getting caught is a bad way to lose parents trust.
Just talk to them.and just dont do it again and maybe you`ll earn there trust back.

Hope it Helped.

Anjelica :-P


hi, uhhh its kinda hard to talk about this but, I dont know what to tell my boifriend, I mean he asked me if I was a virgin or not n i keep aboiding the question, you see when I was 13 I was rapped, what should I tell my boifrien? should I lie or tell him the truth, do you think it will effect the relationship?

thanks so much (I rate well!!!) HaLeY
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i think that you should tell him, he should still lovve you becuase it wasnt your falut. i think that maybe you should just be like "hunny i have to tell you something" then just say it i hope this will help you....
So just go ahead and tell him what happend.!

hOpe i helped.
Good luck

Anjelica


i wanna get rid of myy pubic hair becuase its reallyyy wickid grosss. i dont wanna shave it i dont like razors and stufff sooo is there a way to get rid of it using nair an stuff? thxx
p.s. 14/f (link)

Why dont you Just Wax it? That would be the only thing i could say besides you just getting over the fact that you shouldnt be scared of a razor. and in the future if you do shave ..shave down because if you shave up you`ll get razor burn.

Hope i Helped
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ok heres my problemo. im really skinny -5'4 91- and i like it but for the most part i DON'T. its just fast matabolism and im pretty active and healthy but i look anorexic and everyone thinks that. i try to eat more to gain weight but ofcourse, i don't! what can i do?
thanks (link)

Maybe you should go to the Doctors to See if you have Something wrong in your system!?

Hope i Helped.
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Ok, I am a varsity high school soccer player and am trying to decide between colleges/universitys i would like to go to. i live in texas. Which school whould you pick? University of North Texas or Oklahhoma state?? help me decide (link)

Well Maybe you should look the paper work over and find out which one is more interesting and what one you would like better.
I perfer Oklahoma State.

I Hope i Helped..
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me and my bf had sex and after i was in pain down there and i realized i was bleeding and it wasnt from sex i than looked and it was a part of my vagina close to where the penis is inserted and a piece of skin was split in two i was wondering is that normal? (link)

This sounds serious.. not just a oh okay its all right kinda deal.
i think your sitiuation is different maybe your boyfriend just popped your cherry and because sence im thinkin was your first time your tight and it will hurt maybe just because you were a virgin and your boyfriend just ripped a piece of skin.
But if your problem seems to be hurting in a couple days go see a doctor or a gynocolagest.

i Hope i Helped.
x 0 AnJeLiCa


ok i need to leave in liek 30 minutes, so if you could give me any sort of help quickly it would be great! i have to sing in about 2 hours and i have a cold that i just woke up with my throat is really sore and i feel like im loosing my voice, and i have a cough, i have no choice but ti sing today and its for judges... any advice on helping my throat? (link)

You should take alot of Cough medicine [make sure it doesnt make you drowsey] and Maybe hav e alot of Cough Drops by your side and maybe some water?-* i think that should help.

i hope i helped
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Hi guys,
I am NEVER motivated to do my homework...if it is a big essay then I will plan and plan, but that's actually a bad thing because planning makes me feel like I've achieved more than I actually have. I end up rushing all my work the night before it's due. I'm alright once I've started doing it but I can never get round it!!
I've tried getting everything else I want/need to do out of the way first, but even when I do that I still just dawdle around hoping someone will sign into MSN or something. I've tried loads of things and nothing works. Anyone have any tips on how to get myself motivated and do my work on time?
xx (link)

may be you should have a little time to do your studying and homework each and everynight. so you can get your homework done on time and passed in.. but make sure.. if you take this advice that you follow it threw and you dont get yourself caught up in other things. like boys? or the tv? or the computer/phone?! because then you wont get anything done at all and that wont be good :-P

Hope i Helped!

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I know this isn't a question relating to "advice", but I'm going to ask it anyways. I was wondering, does anyone know any sites that you can go on to listen to music without downloading? (You just look up your song and your able to listen to it!) (link)

*-www.launch.com-*
u dont have to download it.


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ok one of my best friends has really strict parents. theyre making her go to military school cuz she got one D on her report card! shes leaving next year and i dont know if i can take it. shell be at school all week except for the weekends. i dont know what to do shes the only person that makes school a little more fun. im really sad. how can i get over this? (link)

you cant just get over it, she's your bestfriend. i think that maybe you should try to spend as much time as you can with her. Try talking with her about the memmories you did have with her. i thikn that maybe you to should go to the mall or something and just hang out before she goes.

Whatever you do.. like when she leaves ..dont mess up in school and at home over that.. But When she leaves you should just Try to Find someone Else. That can make your school a little more fun. ..

I Hoped i Helped as best as i could.!

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Last night my friends and I went to McDonald's and one of my friends got an oreo McFlurry... Well i was driving my dad's car and apparently she spilled it all over the backseat and now there is black oreo stuff all over and I have no idea how to get it out! My dad will be so mad if he sees it! So if you have any ideas about stuff i could use that i wouldp probably have sitting around the house i would really appreciate it! (link)

maybe you should try to use soap and water.
or orange clean. try alot of cleaners but make sure that u read the labels because some might not be aloud to clean the type of car materails that your dad has..



*16 yr-old female*
Okay well me and this guy were together over the summer and our relationship was kind of, well lets just say he wasnt so good at being a boyfriend to one girl. The thing is though that i fell for him and hes the first guy ive ever felt this way for. And i mean hes done some pretty shady things to me but still through all of that im there for him and i support him with everything (*making the college basketball team/new jobs/new car..everything*) and he knows how i feel. Well the other night we were talking online and he was telling me how amazing i am and how he really does love me and what not. Now normally id believe him but i cant because i know that if he truely did, he'd be with me right now and not a bunch of girls, ya know? So what im asking for is what is your perspective on this whole situation. Do you think im worng for not believing him or do you think he really does care but he wont be with me because he doesnt want to hurt me..thanks in advance..x0x
and im sorry its so long
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Well.I think your wrong for not believeing him because i really do think that he cares for you but doesnt want to hurt you with alll the "shady" things he does. Or Maybe he just feels he doesnt want to be with you Right Now. But Maybe you Two Should Talk more and Work things out and just ask Questions.!?

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there is this guy i go to school with and he is popular. All the girls think he's so cute. (including me)He is a hottie very cute. Recently i was in the liabary and he walked up to me and asked me out on a date i was shocked out of mine. I could not understand why he asked me because i am not one of the SKINNY, PARIS HILTON, popular brand name, expensive close wearing girls. I shop at target. I was so flatterd i said yes quickly. we went out on our date and it was heaven. He kissed me passionatley and asked me to be his girl freind. Just when i thought this was the man of my dreams he turns to me and says.... "Oh yeah about tonight and our relationship don't tell anyone about us. I'm a private person and i would like to keep this to my self." I was so offened by this i could not speak.I just nodded my head and went along with it beacuse he was still so cute. When he sees me in puplic it's like i'm thin air he says nothing to me. As soon as his friends are not around it's all hugs and kisses. My question is could it be that this guy is embarrassed to be seen with me? (link)
Well. I think that he May be emmbarrased too be seen with you or maybe He just is one of them Shy guys that dont like to tell anyone Whos he's with and Stuff like That.. and i think that if he wont tell anyone and is "emmbarrased" to be seen with you then you should dump him because guys aren't supposed to be like that. And Then he treats you like nothing when all his friends are around. Thats not cool.

x o AnJeLiCa

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a am having a curved penius scince i was 12 years and now ma age is 20 years,,still dont know what to do.can u help??.. (link)
Maybe You Should Go To the Doctors And Have Them Look At it. And Maybe then they can tell you what to do about your curved penis.

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