*16 yr-old female*
Okay well me and this guy were together over the summer and our relationship was kind of, well lets just say he wasnt so good at being a boyfriend to one girl. The thing is though that i fell for him and hes the first guy ive ever felt this way for. And i mean hes done some pretty shady things to me but still through all of that im there for him and i support him with everything (*making the college basketball team/new jobs/new car..everything*) and he knows how i feel. Well the other night we were talking online and he was telling me how amazing i am and how he really does love me and what not. Now normally id believe him but i cant because i know that if he truely did, he'd be with me right now and not a bunch of girls, ya know? So what im asking for is what is your perspective on this whole situation. Do you think im worng for not believing him or do you think he really does care but he wont be with me because he doesnt want to hurt me..thanks in advance..x0x
and im sorry its so long
ThugGirl041790 answered Sunday February 20 2005, 11:54 am: Well this guy could mean it..cause you been there and stuff for him..but most likely he isnt with you so he can mess with who he wants.. most guys could care less anymore if they hurt a female.. and um if that was the reason for him not being with you then he would of told you so.. and no i dont think your wrong for not believing him.. this guy has made it to where you cant trust anything he says..so i feel ya that and i'd probably feel the same way most likely any female would.. but anyways i think he cares for you but not enough to want to be with you..much luv dez [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
Shortie8959 answered Sunday February 20 2005, 11:30 am: He might actually mean it, but I wouldn't be too sure. He's with a bunch of other girls! It sounds like he can't commit to a relationship. Give it time, because he could change, but for now, I would try looking for other people. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin [ Shortie8959's advice column | Ask Shortie8959 A Question ]
sohojules26 answered Sunday February 20 2005, 10:56 am: He seems like he really doenst mean it, or else he wouldnt be with so many girls. You need to find a guy that only wants to be with you and nobody else. Its gonna be hard, but it will be better in the long run=) X♥X♥ [ sohojules26's advice column | Ask sohojules26 A Question ]
x_o_AnJeLiCa_o_x answered Sunday February 20 2005, 10:34 am: Well.I think your wrong for not believeing him because i really do think that he cares for you but doesnt want to hurt you with alll the "shady" things he does. Or Maybe he just feels he doesnt want to be with you <U>Right</U> Now. But Maybe you Two Should Talk more and Work things out and just ask Questions.!?
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