well my bestfriend pressures me. she wanted me to spend the night last night but i was tired from a trip and did not get back till midnight. She is always getting mad at me for that stuff what should i do?
Peachgirly answered Sunday February 20 2005, 3:26 pm: tell her everything you just said. if she was really your best friend she wouldn't pressure you to do things that you don't wanna do. and maybe to make her feel better when you don't agree wit hher on something say that you'll make it up to her. Good luck! <3 Peachgirly [ Peachgirly's advice column | Ask Peachgirly A Question ]
SweetThoughtz answered Sunday February 20 2005, 2:32 pm: hey gurlie! i think you should talk to your friend about it and tell her that you really don't feel like sleeping over tonight, she'll hopefully understand if not then i don't think she's your TRUR BF?...xoxo! [ SweetThoughtz's advice column | Ask SweetThoughtz A Question ]
hmprincess2009 answered Sunday February 20 2005, 2:12 pm: I have a friend like that, you just need to sit down together and talk it over and tell her what you said! If she still gets mad maybe yall should stay away from eachother for awhile! Thats what I had to do with my friend! Hope I helped you!
Heather [ hmprincess2009's advice column | Ask hmprincess2009 A Question ]
Kay answered Sunday February 20 2005, 11:58 am: maybe if you dont feel like doing anything, explain why to her or make something up :-p sometimes i do that! its perfectly normal to want to stay home on weekends alot! just tell her maybe next weekend or sometime she can come over to your house or do something then.. rate me hope i helped! -kay [ Kay's advice column | Ask Kay A Question ]
frootytooty answered Sunday February 20 2005, 11:41 am: Just tell her wut u told me. Just say that no reason to get mad I mean it's not my fault I got back late. And sometimes I dont have to do ervy thing w/ u! [ frootytooty's advice column | Ask frootytooty A Question ]
Shortie8959 answered Sunday February 20 2005, 11:31 am: Try talking to her about it. She's being way too controlling. Try writing her a nice note or an e-mail and explain how you feel. If she doesn't change, try looking for better friends. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin [ Shortie8959's advice column | Ask Shortie8959 A Question ]
XSugarPieX77 answered Sunday February 20 2005, 11:19 am: Maybe shes haveing some problems with other friends and likes spending time with you because your a great friend to her. Just explain to her why you dont want to do stuff. If she gets mad she shouldnt because you cant do everything she wants you to do right when she says it.
~Brina~ [ XSugarPieX77's advice column | Ask XSugarPieX77 A Question ]
Karen answered Sunday February 20 2005, 10:54 am: You need to talk to her and tell her that you can't always do what she wants you to do. If you just talk to her and tell her how you feel about her, then she will understand will stop pressuring you. A best friend should pressure you into spending the night at her house or whatever so just talk to her. Hope I helped :)
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
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