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im pretty much the middle age of teen years so ive been threw alot of experences! ive been asked to help ppl that are older then me and been very helpful, ive been helping my peers out all my life and been always there for them, if you ever need me for advice plz ask me i will be more then happy to help you! im usally better at friendship problems and love problems! kk love ya always! KaY!
E-mail: Kaysweetay2009@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: IN
Occupation: student in the 8th grade!
Age: 14
AIM: Mvgurlie09
Yahoo: Bobbea_alldredge
Member Since: January 26, 2005
Answers: 27
Last Update: February 22, 2005
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omg my hair is sooo frizzy and i dont know what to do about it! i've tried many products but nothing seems to work!

please help! (link)
well most people with frizzy hair even if you have strate hair already try strating it with a really good stratner it always seems to calm down and make it thiner too! rate me -kay


I have growing marks or stretch marks on my upper theighs. I've tried excersising that area but I dont know a whole lot of upper theigh/butt excersises. Does anyone know of any that work?

Also, if anyone knows of anything that can either get rid of competely or at least hide the stretch marks I have now. I've heard to use a self tanner but that only made my skin dark and the marks lighter.

Someone help? I promise to rate high.

Signed,
Stretch. (link)
well as far as i know you really cant get rid of them, but to pervent any more try coco butter you probably just try it to get rid of them, keep using it becuase it will probably prevent them ! hopefully! rate me - good luck - kay!


Im afraid of getting braces cause my friend got them and they hurt for 3 days (I get really scared pretty easily). Im gettin them soon. Do they hurt wen u get them on? What happens if you lose a tooth while they're in? What happens if a tooth growns in while you hav them in? Please help......im scared. (link)
okay well first of all, you shouldn't be afraid they hurt for about 3 days yeah, but if i can stand the pain you can! believe me i've been known to pass out easily! haha but if your tooth gets knocked out it won't harm your braces or anything, OR if you grow a tooth it wont do anything either your ortho will fix it all up, you wont regret having them down the road believe it or not! rate me _kay_


lol really it is heheh...the boredist im am *even if that is a word* i was on that site about 5 times today eheh lol i pathetic..the snow is killing me here...1st day of mid-winter recess and we already have snow on the 1st day...grrr lol (link)
wow! its snowing there where are you from? just IM me some time mvgurlie09 if you wanna talk alright! so you dont have to keep sending these things haha im putting my away message up right now because im bored and im going go clean oh yeah im 14/f hbu ttyl


Okay well Im going out with this kid Lucas... he is a year younger then me... Im 13 hes 12... I have never made out with anyone... & I am really ashamed of that kinda... idk... so yea weve been goin out for 3 weeks today... and hes on my bus n all my friends are stupid n they are always tryin to get us to make out n stuff... n I just feel like weird especially on the bus where everyone can see us... I dont know if he has ever made out with anyone... I think he has because his last g/f he went out wit he was with for almost a year... also in the back of my mind I keep thinking that he doesnt really like me and i cant help but be paranoid... n Ive been ignoring sitting with him on the bus n stuff just to avoid kissing n stuff... idk..

So I guess im just asking for advice on what to do about kissing and how to stop being so paranoid! any help you can give would be great!!

thanx so much! (link)
well if you dont feel like kissing him then dont! wait intil you 2 are alone if you want, im 14 and my first kiss was on a bus and i kind of regret it! the guy was hott and everything just not the best place i guess diffently for a first kiss! make it perfect placing and make sure you really have feelings for this guy becuase your first kiss is the kiss you will always remember! its okay bein 13 and never kissed before! when you go to kiss for the first time you will know how to believe it or not you just go with the flow you might think its going to be hard and you will mess up but you wont! just dont think to hard about it alrighty! good luck! -kay rate me plz!


Ok this is a real question i really want to know why do most girls think all guys want is sex it drives me mental because i actually flipped out on someone who asked a question and said anyways dont all guys just want to get laid it drives me mental and i just want to know why they think this cause i know when i get a g/f i actually want a relationship. (link)
well it sounds like your one of the good mature guys out there! hopefully you can get a girlfriend that will know your not like that.. we all think that becuase most guys are really perverted and hopefully you will get the message out to girls that you arent like every other type of guy! good luck and rate me -kay


im bored any site suggestions for a 14/f? (link)
well last night i was looking at some good websites i think im 14/f too so here are some i check out.. i love lookin up quotes or go to http://www.sunkissed.cjb.net/ thats a pretty good one it has interesting things to look up haha just go there hopefully you will like it alrighty! good luck maybe work with buddyprofile.com like make a profile or something i always mess around on here sometimes lol good luck! rate me!-kay


actually i cant live with out AIM lol idky but yeah..just everyone is pissin me off n when i put my away message up they send thousands of messages sayin come back n crap..its gets so annoying lol (link)
oh yah i understand i cant live with out my aim either its addicting lol i dont know why your block isnt working just try to block a few ppl at a time i guess alrighty! good luck! it would get me mad too haha


I want to stop biting my nails but I don't know how to. I've tried before and it never seems to work out. My mom tells me to sit on my hands but that doesn't work. I've tried chewing gum and yet I still bite them and my nails are too short to paint. I've even got my nails done before and when I take the fake nails off and my real ones are long they just break off. Any suggestions? (link)
try to get that clear fingernail polish to make your nails hard, usally that works its to hard to bit them or try soakin them in fingernail polish remover or vinger so you wont put your month to them rate me ! -kay


there is this one girl that likes the same guy as me and she keeps on stealing him. I know he likes me b/c he has admitted it, so why did he go out with her?? I really like this kid. Should I ask him out again when he breaks up with this girl, or should I find someone else?

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maybe he just went out with her because he didnt think you were ever going to ask him out, maybe he figured that he shuold jus try to give up on you, go ahead and ask him out! if he really likes you he will say yes! good luck! rate me! -kay


why is it sometimes I block ppl on my buddy list and a few minutes later it says they sign on..though it says blocked..i just blocked everyone outta no where..so no one on my buddy list is sign on...and little by little ppl are signing on though when i click INFO it says they're blocked..though i see they are on-line..wtf? (link)
i never really ever had that problem, but if you dont want to talk online threw IM and you just need to do something important like look something up real quick with out anyone bothering you, maybe you should try putting your away message up so you dont have to worry about blocking then unblocking when you want to talk to them, or just get rid of aim or whatever you have or get rid of your screen name if you dont want to talk just keep the net. alrighty! rate me i hope i helped!


well my bestfriend pressures me. she wanted me to spend the night last night but i was tired from a trip and did not get back till midnight. She is always getting mad at me for that stuff what should i do? (link)
maybe if you dont feel like doing anything, explain why to her or make something up :-p sometimes i do that! its perfectly normal to want to stay home on weekends alot! just tell her maybe next weekend or sometime she can come over to your house or do something then.. rate me hope i helped! -kay


does anyone know what kind of job an 11 year old could get(this is for my sister) (link)
well i think by 11 years old i was babysitting, she could clean yuor house or someone else's, clean windows or if she wants a real job in town have a car wash in the summer if she wants to rise some money i hope i helped rate me.. sorry i didnt put to many things down becuase i was looking for jobs when i was 11 too and there wasn't to many to pick from! -kay


ok.. i have some problems with the way i look. i have chubby cheeks and a small mouth so like u can barely tell when i smile.. my skin texture is terrible..ive tried everything but i just have really low confidence and self esteem and i always feel like everyone looks better than me. (link)
hey, well girl i think the way you look is perfect, its you! if your worried about getting a boyfriend dont worry abotu it there is that ONE guy out there for you that will think your amazing however you look like. i promise you will find him one day! good luck sweety just find some foundation for your skin and wash your face more if it makes you feel better alrighty! well good luck! bye!


iv been going out with this guy for a few months now... you see the problem is we break up and get back together.. but idk now we rnt we have been pretty committed untill last weekend when he dumped me he swore to me he wouldnt but BAM he did first he told me he loved me and he would enver do that.. but then his feind told me he was goin to i asked him and he said he might and thats when i called it off. then i told him i was sorry we were both havin a rough night he agreed but then he kept sayin he loved me and then he dumoed me this happend about 4 or 5 times until tha last one he told me he loved me for good and that he reall did want it to last and it has lasted but its soo werid b.c now i think he is gonna dump me constantly even tho he swears he wont but i keep thinking hes goin to... do ya'll think he will or do u think he acually means it this time!
Xo ConFuZed Xo (link)
well girl guys can be jerks and maybe he does really mean it this time. if you really love him then stick with him but dont get to upset if he does break up with you again, but maybe he wont becuase he might just realized this time how great you actaully are and actually grew up a little since the last time he broke up with you! goodluck!


I have a new boyfriend and things are going great, but I can't help but shy away. I really want to get close to him, but I have been hurt before and I don't want to get hurt again. Does anyone know how to break down the walls that I have built up to protect myself? I would really appreciate it. Thanks... (link)
all i can say, is just becuase one guy broke your heart and is a complete jerk maybe not all guys do, your giong to get hurt, but thats life just deal with it and dont give up on other guys though becuase he might be the actual guy out there for you! hope i helped a little! -kay


Okay, tomorrow we are having a Valentine's dance. There is this guy I really like, and he is going. Both of us are single, and he talks to me regularly. But tomorrow at the dance, I want to look good. I have no clue what to wear, or how to do my makeup. Im not real big on skirts, and I want to be comfortable.

Also, I have kind of pale skin, and REALLY light brown hair w/ highlights. Any ideas? Thank you!


And do any of you have any tips on dancing? (link)
well first of all whatever you do dont be shy, wear what ever is comfortable but dont look to comfy still make your self shine! with the makeup thing since you have light brown hair and kinda pale maybe where a little bit of eyeliner , to bring out your eyes, mascara, eyeshadow that matches your outfit and of course LIPGLOSS! the dancing tips, well i dont know sorry, cant really explain anything on the net like that, but be yourself dont be anyone else cuz you want this guy to like YOU not someone you pretend to be! i hope you have a wonderful night and you better ask this guy 2 dance! im only 14 and in the 8th grade but by now i think i can help out a little bit wit this self i hope i helped! and have a gr8 time! -kay!


ok so i want to break up with my boyfriend and i dont know how to do it. I want ot break up bcuz we dont talk that much and its just awkward. I am a girl and 14 yrs old...plz some one help, i wanna do it tomorrow
thanks sooooo much (link)
just tell him stright up, that you would like sum time off becuase u never get to talk anymore, but u still care about him its just that you want to take a break for a coupel weeks to see if you too realy care alot about one another.. i hope this aleast sum wut helps and sorry if it doesnt1 but good luck.. oh and dont EVEr tell him theres another guy.. that gets him real mad n upset! ;-) Kay!


There is this guy i really like, but my friend has been really flirty to him and is also messing w/ him hardcore and one day i was on the phone w/ him and he was like i don't like it when your friend is all over me and that he likes me alot and i'm the most beautiful/ wonderful/ nicest person he knows and about then she beeped in on his line so when he came back he was like i told her i couldn't go out w/ her because she is christian and i was like ohh. but, he goes to church with me? and he asked me out and i was like i dont even know, because my friend aparently likes you and im a christian and he was like it was just an excuse because i have wanted to ask you out since matts party ( november 9) and he wasn't sure if i liked him. yet, he is the 1st and only i have ever frech kissed and that i've liked this much and i don't know what to do because when he holds me in his arms it makes me feel good inside and i know my friend likes him should i tell her that i want to be with him or should i wait till shes over him if he likes me as much as he claims then he could wait. i dont know though. please help, i rate high. *sorry for the length*

Genni (link)
wow... we have the same problem thats like so weird im 14 f too n hes 14 m and my friend likes him too, but anyways i think you should just go for the guy beucase he seems to really care about you and if your friend is a good friend n a real tru one then she would understand that! and want you both to be happy, if you ever want to talk about this then IM me mvgurlie09 cuz i need sumone to talk about it too!


16 female. I really love my boyfriend but I'm kinda interested in this other boy that i met. I don't want to break up with my boyfriend for the other guy because im afraid that im going to lose him forever even his friendship. But i don't want to lead the other boy on. Some of my friends say i should choose the other boy and some of my friends say i should stay with my boyfriend. I need to know who i should choose. Please help. (link)
if you really love your boyfriend and you know it, you should stick with him becuase you will prolly lose him, yah you might have a crush on this other guy but do you really know him? he might just be a player or just wants you to break up with your boyfriend so he can have you for a week or 2 and break up with you. stay with your boyfriend intil you actually get to kno this guy cuz you mite do sumthing you REALLY regret if you dont.. hope i could help Good lUck!




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