there is this one girl that likes the same guy as me and she keeps on stealing him. I know he likes me b/c he has admitted it, so why did he go out with her?? I really like this kid. Should I ask him out again when he breaks up with this girl, or should I find someone else?
Additional info, added Monday February 21 2005, 5:54 pm: Let me clear this up a bit- I told the girl that I liked this kid, she asked him out, he said yes, then they broke up. I asked him out, and then he dumped me, b/c the other girl asked him out. Lets just say this girl hates my guts and is trying to get me away from the person I like! I think he liked both of us, to be honest.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? kelseyANDbethany answered Monday February 21 2005, 6:52 pm: that might make you seeem too available. and that makes you look like a whore. dont ruin a friendship over a guy either. this guy seems like he isnt worth and woman's time so it would be best to forget about him. i cant control emotions though. hope i helped
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superGiRL21 answered Monday February 21 2005, 6:14 pm: honestly re-read everything you wrote in your question. done? ok good. There are millions upon millions upon millions of guys in this world think about the fact that you are fighting over 1. He's already gotten the advantage because he has 2 girls fighting over him. Don't let him be your priority if you are just going to be an option to him. You deserve someone who will make you a priority! One day you will wake up and realize that fighting over guys is a waste of your precious time. when i tell you to find someone else believe me its in your own best interest-you deserve better. best of luck and let me know how it turns out :) [ superGiRL21's advice column | Ask superGiRL21 A Question ]
XSugarPieX77 answered Monday February 21 2005, 5:39 pm: That happened to me i member in the 6th grade. I was really upset cuz i thought the guy liked me. I moved on after a while. They didnt go out till this year lol and it only lasted for a week. If you have feelings for this guy then go for it but find out why he would go out with her if he liked you.
~Brina~ [ XSugarPieX77's advice column | Ask XSugarPieX77 A Question ]
OxJaImEaLiSoNxO answered Monday February 21 2005, 5:27 pm: maybe yoo shud try finding someone else bc obviously he isnt good enough for yoo.. i kno it might be hard but either 1-- hes lying to yoo [[ which no one wants ]] or 2-- he has feelings for someone else.. and yoo wudnt want that in a relationship, it cud end up him cheating on yoo, sorry babe! [ OxJaImEaLiSoNxO's advice column | Ask OxJaImEaLiSoNxO A Question ]
CraziForRey619 answered Monday February 21 2005, 4:42 pm: He might have went out with her for 3 reasons.
1. He felt sorry for her and didn't know how to say no to her.
2. He doesn't like you, he actually just didn't want to hurt you.
3. He likes both of you but she got to him first so he said yes.
I think you should ask him out to see how he acts. If you find out he is a jerk, find someone else. Besta Luck [ CraziForRey619's advice column | Ask CraziForRey619 A Question ]
SunKissedHunnii answered Monday February 21 2005, 4:22 pm: I say you steal the guy from hiis gayy ass girlfriend that he dont even like and maybe she will get the point that he dont like her
x0c0mplicated answered Monday February 21 2005, 4:01 pm: I think you should ask him out when they break up because if yuo realli like him and he really likes you * I just say fo for it.....let HER find someone else* [ x0c0mplicated's advice column | Ask x0c0mplicated A Question ]
Kay answered Monday February 21 2005, 3:37 pm: maybe he just went out with her because he didnt think you were ever going to ask him out, maybe he figured that he shuold jus try to give up on you, go ahead and ask him out! if he really likes you he will say yes! good luck! rate me! -kay [ Kay's advice column | Ask Kay A Question ]
sohojules26 answered Monday February 21 2005, 3:33 pm: That was reallly rude of him to do that!! You should ask him why he did that, and also confront your friend. If he has a reasonable explination, then yes i dont see why not. If he has a dumb one, then find someone else cause he issnt worth it. =) [ sohojules26's advice column | Ask sohojules26 A Question ]
greencard answered Monday February 21 2005, 3:24 pm: Honestly, it seems as if he likes her, too. Maybe, he's confused, or maybe he likes her more. Nobody can explain why guys do what they do, but one thing is for sure. You need to talk to him. Find out why he didn't go out with you, and if he beats around the bush, or doesn't even answer it, then move on. You shouldn't wait around for a guy that can't make up his mind. [ greencard's advice column | Ask greencard A Question ]
Shortie8959 answered Monday February 21 2005, 3:06 pm: Did she know that you like him? If not, then wow, what a biotch! Lol. Well, guys are confusing, but I think he probably just liked you both and she asked him out first. So when/if they break up, just make sure you're there for him, and that way, you'll get closer. (wink wink) Then ask him out. But in the meantime, look for someone else. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin [ Shortie8959's advice column | Ask Shortie8959 A Question ]
Teza answered Monday February 21 2005, 2:51 pm: maybe he likes her to but he probably still likes you.. when they break up wait a while and then you might wanna ask him out but make sure that he still likes you.. i think he will tho x0 [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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