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Everytime I fight with someone I start shaking, is this normal?

No.. lol, that seems kinda creepy. Maybe you shouldnt fight with people. Maybe its Gods message of telling you to stop! hope it helped!
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Hey kel-c I really need a bf and I really like a guy name ALEX. How should i ask him out. I dont want 2 sound like DORK.

Well... i never ask guys out!! I guess you could say i am "old-fashion". First i would make sure he liked me in return. Ask around.. someone SHOULD know. Then when you get the 'okay' ask him in person. Guys think thats 'hot'. If he answers no.. dont show much emotion in front of him. Dont make yourself look desperate. Even if he answers yes.. say 'cool' or 'awesome' and giggle and be CUTE about it. GOOD luck.. and thanks soo much for asking! Hope i helped!
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I want to go over to this kids house over the weekend. The thing is, it's a party and i will be with my boyfriend. So since my parents wont let me...( I would be sleeping there too ) what can I say so that they dont know that I am sleeping there.. Besides saying I am sleeping over 'so n so`s' house and really not because my parents could find that out and stuff. Leave your AIM screen name is possible Thanks

my screen name is xBABiKELSx

to answer your question..i dont think it would be a good idea to lie to your parents. It might get you in trouble and take some other privaliges away. You don`t want to make them anymore mad. If its what you truly want.. i guess you could tell them that they cancel`d the big party and now are just inviting a few people to sleep over. Have a friend with you to back up your answer. :) hope it helped
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Ok i have a huge problem keeping my room clean i mean literally some days i dont even know if i have a floor under all the clothes on my floor no matter how much i clean. i cant seem to keep my room clean any tips for cleanin it and keeping it clean. Thanks for any help

well, you could find some room organizers. Like bins or just remember to put your clothes in a dirty hamper when you finish wearing them. Test yourself to see how long you can keep it CLEAN!
hope i helped
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my friend told me she was raped by some guy at a party a few years back. i told her she should report it to the police but all she remembers was that he was black and tall (about the african-americain male population). and since it happen so long ago why say anything? no, she told me. and a few weeks ago she showed me that she cutting herself and stealing razors from some store. i feel like these are the kinda things you dont keep a secert about. what should i do?

Even if your friend doesnt remember much about him, you should still tell her to tell someone. Even if the police can`t find him she should find someone to talk to. Try going to a school counselor or a teacher you trust with her and explaining her troubles. it might actually help. About the cutting, that is the most horrible way to take your anger out. Try to tell her different ways to take her anger out. Like : screaming in a pillow, listening to calming music, or taking a warm bath. It sounds she is becoming addicted to it and that wont lead to good things. help her before its to late..
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there is this one girl that likes the same guy as me and she keeps on stealing him. I know he likes me b/c he has admitted it, so why did he go out with her?? I really like this kid. Should I ask him out again when he breaks up with this girl, or should I find someone else?

that might make you seeem too available. and that makes you look like a whore. dont ruin a friendship over a guy either. this guy seems like he isnt worth and woman's time so it would be best to forget about him. i cant control emotions though. hope i helped
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Across the street from me, an elderly couple sold their house and the people that bought it have two young boys, ages 4 and 7 I believe. They have asked me if I'd like to babysit for them and that's fine with me. I've babysat before but normally I'd do it free of charge. It's come the time where I'm getting older and I need to get money. I'll be driving in a year and my parents aren't going to be paying for my gas and car insurance. What would be a good amout of money to ask for? I don't want to be asking for too much. I'm 15/ female.

Thats a great question. I babysit ALOT! It`s my only source of money! Usually I charge five dollars and hour. Thats a fair wage. They might also already have a price that they pay their babysitters. If that happens then you can negotiate with them and see what a fair price would be. I know it might be embarassing, but you will be happy you did it in the end. Hope i helped!
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