My name is Marissa.
I have blonde hair and crystal blue eyes.
I have the best boyfriend in the world, his name is Sasa.
I'm a very sweet person once you get to know me.
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I could go on forever, but I won't.
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I know this is stupid, but I overheard people saying my best friend went to 2nd base wiht this guy and the deal is I ahve no clue what the bases are! And I'm worried about her because I don't want people talking about her if it's bad ( if she even did it) So could you please tell me what these bases are? i'm really confused and worried.. sorry so long!!
-very confused- (link)
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Besides the other people's answers, this is what I always heard:
1. Kissing
2. Fingering/Handjobs, those type of thigs (using your hands)
3. Oral sex (using your mouth)
4. Sex (also known as home, or all the way)
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I am a virgin and I am ready to have sex i think about it all the time but i'm afraid that it might hurt. My question it what does the first time haveing sex feel like? Is is digusting and painful or is it wild and crazy in good way? (link)
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It depends. If you're already loose, it might not hurt that much, it also depends on the width of the guy you're with. Personally, I was pretty tight, and my boyfriend is pretty well.. huge. My first time hurt, BAD. I'm not going to sit here and lie to you. I'd go into details, but I'm not sure if you want me to. I was on bottom my first time, but it works better if you're on top the first time. I know, I know, I thought it was gross/weired to be on top, but it was way easier for me. And use lubrication, we didn't, but I wish we did. Anyways, back to your question. It does hurt, but after a little while, the pain should start to ease up, just don't tighten your muscles down there. But no matter what, it is pretty painful, or so I've heared. The bad thing about bottom, it hurts, from behind, that's the worst, I've never had it done, but I've heared it hurts the worst. And then there's the top, it will still hurt, but not as bad, the only bad thing is it seems like you can feel the pressure inside your stomach. I don't know, I'm just rambling now, sorry! Hope I helped, write me back if you have anymore questions, I love to help! Hope I helped, good luck! x3
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ok, i went out with this girl for four months (13/m), and she dumped me over a small fight and tht she "didnt like me anymore". i thought i got over her, but now i love her again. she knows but doesnt like me back. idk wht to do im going crazy i love her so much (link)
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Not to be rude, but first off.. You're not in love with her, sorry, but you're not. You're 13 first of all, and you only went out for 4 months. You might thik you're in love, but odds are, you're not. Sorry to sound like a you know, but that's just how I feel. If she actually said she don't like you anymore, there's nothing you can really do to chnage her feelings for you. Have you even talked to her to see how she really feels? Or are you assuming? Myabe you should talk about maybe going out again.. But if she really don't like you, there's really nothing you can do to make her. It's going to be hard, but you have to try to get over her. Hope I helped a little, sorry! x3
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I've never had a boyfriend, because my parents think I'm too young, and I think I am too. But now in high school (i'm a freshman) it's really hard not to want a boyfriend. Another thing is I don't know how to tell my mom that I like someone. Every time I do she always walks away or laughs. She won;t take me seriously. What should I say/do to make her listen. I just want someone to talk to! ;( (link)
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I'm sorry! My parents told me I couldn't have a boyfriend when I was little, but I had my first REAL boyfriend in the beginning of 8th grade. I now have a boyfriend I've been with for over a year, and my mom's totally comfortable with that, and we go to eachothers houses like everyday. I think you should just sit your mom down and tell her you're serious, and then tell her how you feel, because in my opinion you should be able to have a boyfriend. If your mom doesn't approve, what she don't know can't hurt her. Just kidding, but I know, in HS you do like boys, and they like you, and it's hard to resist liking them. Don't let your parents control your life. Hope I helped! x3
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I've seen in previous people asking questions about making out and kissing.. but i'm wondering something. What is the differance, if there is any, between "making out" and "french kissing"
thanks a bundle. ha
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There is no difference, they're just different names. x3
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ok i havent gotten my period yet this month but it seems like i never have a regular period cycle..and my boyfriend and me were like messing around at his house but i was just giving him a handjob but he cumed but not on me....and i dont think it was any whree near me...and i was expecting my period around the 13 or 14 or around there and me and my boyfriend just recently did this stuff like a few days before the 13...is it possible to be pregnant? but i didnt get morning sickness or anything.. (link)
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I'm going through kind of the same problem, only much more different haha. In your case, you should not be pregnant, I'm almost 100% positive. The only way you could be is if he had his seamen on his fingers, and put his seamen into your body. With this, there is still a low chance you'd be pregnant. So before you go freak out, read what I said. You're probably not pregnant, especially if you didn't have intercorse. Your period might just be late, or you might have even skipped it, that's ahppened to me before, too. But if you're still really worried, you can go buy a pregnancy test. They range from $8-$20 at any drugstore. Hope I helped, though, good luck! x3
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Ok so I love my boyfriend very much ..like alot..I mean really I do..but my friend who is a girl adn is seriously attracted to me and I like her kinda really wants to make out with me and I kinda wanna make out with her to..but I don't want to hurt my boyfriend..what should I do..and I already talked to him and he goes "I love you and I trust you and it takes alot to hurt me" sooo im sooooo lost..please help me! (link)
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Since you are bi, this is still considered cheating. If you really love your boyfriend like you say you do, you shouldn't even be having these urges to do stuff with other people. If you really don't think you can live without a girls affection, maybe you should consider breaking up with your boyfriend. This way you can make-out with whomever you want, whenever you want, without that 20 extra pounds on your back. I know I didn't help much, but I hope it made you think, good luck girl! x3
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Well, I'm a little unsure if I should be upset or not.
Okay. Well my boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months now and I found out a few months ago that I was not his "first" (talking about making out.) He was mine without a doubt. But it's not just that i'm not his first that upsets me, it's with who. It's this girl from another school named elena. She's a slut and she knows it. My boyfriend "didn't even like her" he claims. But, what concerns me is that if he didn't like her, what if he made out with me and he "doesn't even like me." Am I upset over a stupid thing? Because if I am I want to not ruin our relationship over something so stupid.
Once again,
Retro_Romance (link)
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If he's been with you for 6 months, he must like you! So don't even worry about that! I know how you feel, I felt uneasy because my boyfriend had had sex when he was 8, and I was still a virgin when we started going out. But that's way bigger than a kiss, in my opinion. Honestly, if this girl is known as a slut, he probably didn't like her, and being with him for this long, he should be 100% truthful with you. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year, and we are completely honest with eachother. So I'm pretty sure you have nothing to worry about! Plus, he's with you now, not her! Hope I helped, good luck! x3
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Ok this is a serious question and please don't delete it! Ok I've been bestfriends with my bestfriend Katie for over 6 or 7 years or something like that. Ok well the problem is recently like around newyears she got back together with her X boyfriend who used to hit me and say bad things to me and stuff. I really did think everything changed. UNtil the other day it got real serious and we got into an actual fist fight! and I know this isn't right. I just don't know what to do. The other day I started crien and walked away. I don't know what I should do. I don't want to loose my bestfreind because we already had a seperation because of this. This is getting really serious and Im afraid if I don't do something about this I will get hurt not only physically..emotionally to..
Signed
Scared 15-f (link)
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Oh my gosh! Does your friend know? I'm guessing she does... In this case, she is not being true to you, at all! Best friends should put you first, not their abusive boyfriends! Tell her how you feel, if you havn't already. If she does nothing at all to change the situation, she don't even deserve you as a friend. I personally think you should tell an adult, or even the police about this. No guy should hit a girl, EVER. I'd really like to know what you do, so please e-mail me back ro something. Hope I helped, good luck sweetie, you don't deserve this!
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I like this guy at my school. I'm not sure if he likes me or not. He's a senior and I'm a freshman. We are friends, and his best friend is my brother. I want to become more than friends, but I'm not sure if he does. My parents and my siblings don't think I should date or anything of that sort. This guy is not like any other guy I know. He's special, I just don't know how to tell him that. I'm also not sure if he likes me. Whenever he's doing something, he always persuades me to go. And if I'm not going to do something, he then says, "well then I'm not going." I don't want to say anything because that would be awkward at school and church. I'm not sure what to do, should I go for it and ask him or not!?!?! Sorry its so long! (link)
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Well in the beginning, reading that you're a freashman, and he's a senior, kind of gave me a scare. But after I read along, he doesn't sound like the typical senior. He's obviously making it obvious that he likes spending time with you. If a guy likes you, they make little comments, like the ones he does. They try and make it obvious without them even knowing they're doing anything at all. If you think it would make it awkward for you, maybe you should put deep thought into this before you take the next step forward. To me, it sounds like he likes you. I think, before you make any moves, you should try and find out if he likes you as much as you like him. Heartbreaks are hard, that's why girls should NEVER ask the guy, EVER. If you feel comfortable enough, talk to him about it. You should be really comfertable with the person your with, anyways. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year, and we share everything with eachother. Maybe get to know him a little better, then go for it! I don't see why you shouldn't. Tell me what you ended up doing! Hope I helped a bit, good luck!
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I`ve had a problem with confidence. I always let what people say, get to my head. Does anyone have any advice on how to raise my confidence? (link)
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I tend to have this problem, too. Only people call me beautiful, skinny, all these different things, but when I look in the mirror, I don't see what they do. I'm always criticizing myself, but I can't control it. But then there's always those other people that try and put you down and make you feel like.. well.. you know. One of my boyfriend's friends always calls me fat, just for fun. But it really does hurt me. Some things that help me, are just to totally take my mind off of it. Also, do something that would make you feel pretty! I love getting my nails and toes done, those always make me feel a little better about myself. Just little things like that could boost your confidence. Also, look in the mirror, and tell yourself you love what you see, you would'nt change anything. Just compliment yourself, even if you don't believe what you're saying. Compliments always make me happy! Try it! Hope I helped a little, good luck, I'm sure you're really beautiful!
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i comfort eat a lot, how can i stop this its starting to make a difference in my weight. thanks appriciate it (link)
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I have the same problem, but it doesn't seem to have any affect on my weight. If you can, try and use self control over your body, and think to yourself, that food does not make things better at all, it just makes matters worse. Make sure you eat healthier, and eat slower. When you eat slower, it goes into your stomach faster, this way you become fuller faster. Hope I helped a little!
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Me and my brother both bought Betta Splendens. (Better known as-Siamese Fighting Fish) We wanted to know how much to feed them we bought tiny pellets that they have at the pet store. We both have males so they cannot be together. How much do we feed them a day? How much do we change their water and any other basics? Thanks. (link)
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Just feed them a pinch of food, I used to have 3 of them. I'm not sure on the exact amount of times you should feed them, but I'm sure you could find out somewhere online. I had trouble changing my fish's water a few times, but por the fush into a smaller container with just enough water for it to breathe, and clean it's bowl with water only, and put more fresh water inside. Then just pour you fish back into it's bowl. THEY SHOULD BE IN TOTALLY SEPERATE CONTAINERS! Never keep those type of fish in the same container, one will end up attacking the other one 'til death. If they're have a seperater, but can see eachother, this should be fine, but they might get angry when they meet face to face. I'm not really sure about that one, check up on it. Hope I helped!
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