ok, i went out with this girl for four months (13/m), and she dumped me over a small fight and tht she "didnt like me anymore". i thought i got over her, but now i love her again. she knows but doesnt like me back. idk wht to do im going crazy i love her so much
lovechick65 answered Monday February 21 2005, 9:45 pm: Why don't you go up to her and ask her why she doesn't like you anymore. It's may be better to talk to her in privite so you don't get embarressed around all these other people. It's good to get a reason for why she dumped you.Maybe you could ask her if you guys could start over and try not to fight about things that would ruin your relationship.
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Dysbrainia answered Monday February 21 2005, 9:41 pm: I've read some of these other answers, and I think the general trend is that you are "too young to love."
I'm not saying I disagree.
You really need to sort out whether its love, or just infatuation. Oh right, thirteen...Is it love, or do you just like her a lot?
If you want advice on what to do, then you should decide what type of personality you have, and what you'd like to do.
A) You think about it and realise that its her fault for dumping you, of all people YOU, for such a small thing as a fight. Guys like you are a once in a lifetime chance. Now, you can spread a rumour about her, or get with someone else out of spite to show her you aren't hurt, and you didn't like her anyway.
B) You feel sorry thatit broke off when it did, and you know its your fault. Send her gifts until she signs a restraining order.
Notice a trend? Nice guys finish last perhaps?
Now for the real advice. There's really not much that you can do apart from getting over the entire ordeal. Perhaps it was love, perhaps it wasn't. No offense, but I'm betting it wasn't. You should decide though, are you going to be driven crazy by every girl you break up with? Or are you the type who thinks that high school relationships always end in happy marriages? [ Dysbrainia's advice column | Ask Dysbrainia A Question ]
BARBiE_D0LL_x3 answered Monday February 21 2005, 9:12 pm: Not to be rude, but first off.. You're not in love with her, sorry, but you're not. You're 13 first of all, and you only went out for 4 months. You might thik you're in love, but odds are, you're not. Sorry to sound like a you know, but that's just how I feel. If she actually said she don't like you anymore, there's nothing you can really do to chnage her feelings for you. Have you even talked to her to see how she really feels? Or are you assuming? Myabe you should talk about maybe going out again.. But if she really don't like you, there's really nothing you can do to make her. It's going to be hard, but you have to try to get over her. Hope I helped a little, sorry! x3 [ BARBiE_D0LL_x3's advice column | Ask BARBiE_D0LL_x3 A Question ]
Karen answered Monday February 21 2005, 9:02 pm: If you two broke up over a small fight, you should move on and forget your feelings about her because if she doesn't like you, then you know nothing is going to happen again. One day, she will realize that she made a mistake and will come back for you but then you may not like her.
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xXtashmahottieOo answered Monday February 21 2005, 8:41 pm: awww poor huse its okay we luv ya hahaha jkjk
Everything happens for a reason if she doesnt liek you shes missing out. Your great and shes dumb. shell realize how big of a mistake sshes maknig and if not shes so not worth it shes flat hahaha [ xXtashmahottieOo's advice column | Ask xXtashmahottieOo A Question ]
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