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SOOOOO CONFUSEEEDDD!!!
okay here's my story, about four months ago i meet this boy named ryan at night with my three best girlfriends, they dared me to go up and start flirting with him because they thought he was like the hottest thing ever (i didnt AT THE TIME lol) anyways so i went up to him and i had a REALLY LONg and sweet convo with him.. we ended up trading sn's and phone numbers and we still end up talking until now... and i dont want to sound stupid or anything but i REALLY liek him and i want to know if he'll like me back but i have a HUGE problem. im NOT allowed to date until im fifteen and im 13 now and turning 14 in AUG. and he;s 15 and turning 16 in july...and one more thing, PLEASe everybody PLEASE dont think im like racist or anything when is ayt his but im not allowed to date\marry anyone who sint jewish.. and Ryan is catholic!!! please help..first of all i wanna know if i should disobey my mom bcuz i REALLy like Ryan and it hink he lieks me back and also is there anyone else out there with the whole mom\dating situation!!?!?!?1 lol PLEASEEEEEE HELP!!
-CONFUSED ONE =)
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okay, well when religion gets involved it makes it hard. your mum isn't weird as such, she was just brought up in a different time and she is religious. you have to seriously consider annything you do but you cant hide away all your life. do what YOU want but try ot to hurt your family and consult them at any chance.
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If you want to date him but arent allowed, ask him to go to a group date. That way it wont be an actual date and your mom should be cool about it. And you need to explain to your mom that religion doest matter to you. Try inviting him to dinner so that he can talk with your mom. Hope my advice helps! Let me know what happens!
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Sweetie, you only have one life to live and you need to take chances whether they will get your grounded or not. You should definitely go for it and date this guy. I know your parents don't want you to date for another two years and not to date anyone who isn't Jewish but you need to not listen to them and do what you want. If you like him and if he likes you, then date him.
-Karen
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AHHH lo, taht;s embaressing.. but wtvr i TOTALLy knew about the race thing haha lol tahnx ALL of yu.. im giving everyone who helps a 5..lol xoxoxox
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im jewish too so i think i will be able to help and racist has to do with skin color silly! lol i dont think it makes jews look good if we are intolerant to other religions you have your own beliefs but its like judging someone if you don't go out with someone because of their beliefs. if you like him go for it because we are all people regardless of our race, beliefs...etc...
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just tell her that your just friends...? wow.that is kinda messed up though..i kinda have the same issue just i cant date till im 16 n i can date any religion basically since..my mom is catholic n my dad is jewish...so if 2 people are 2 different religion...the important this is that they like them for who they are and who they arent. i know it wasnt the best but i gave my best shot.
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P.S. its your choice to disobey them!
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Yeah. I cant go out until I'm 18 but I have done it before. Its your choice to disobey your parents but just make sure you dont get caught. Like you have to be really careful. I think you should go for it. Even if he is cathloic, your mom doesnt know about him anyway. Go for it and have fun!
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doooo ittttt!
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