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iiM Ariella . iim 13 . uhmm i love qivinq advise so IM me or leave me 1 here ifu need anythinq. muuah! -AriiElLa* . oh and thanx ~*Annie*~ ur great!.








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alright my prob is that since i'm not a jock and not a skater or anything like that girls at my school hate me wat should i do


and how can i get them to like me w/o changing my image

be yourself .... whatever you do dont change for anyone!... fnd a girl wth the same interests as you and flirt with her. sorry if i didnt help. lol i tried . xoxo Ariella

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Ok There is this boy Zac and I Like him A LOT! And my friend Emmie thinks he likes me. I'm just going to say what happened to me when I hung out with him last( I haven't before this was the first time ). Well I was just standing in a corner at a basketball game and he came up to me and said, " Who are you? " and I simply replied my name and then he said " Oh okay I know you " and he walked away to play his basketball game( it was at half time ). When it was over he came over to me and said "Is your screen name g-o-i-n space.." and I just said yeah. Then he kept like sitting next to me. It was really funny watching him though because he was like kind of dancing lol. But anyways he kept coming over and sitting next to me and I was talking to him and he was looking at me this whole time. And whenever I looked over he didn't look away he just smilied. Well then I went outside and he I guess was talking about me because he pointed to me and said something to one of his friends. Well then he couldn't find me I guess but he came outside and started talking to me. I was acting stupid...for some reason I do that around cute guys lol...Anyways he was making fun of me for being stupid. And then he went inside the gym and so did I and he was just looking at me the whole time. < Thats what happened...he goes to a different school soo I don't know if his personality is just like that or anything. But I talk to him on AOL and stuff soo yeah. Well I asked a few people if he was really flirtish and they all said yeah...but thats A LOT of flirting he did right? Okay Well I need your opinions does he like me? I rate high and give comments! ^_^

well i cant tell you for sure...but from what you told me he probably likes you or flirting is just his personality...either way good luck and just start flirting back! good luccckk! xoxo Ariella xoxo

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Ok, about a month ago I noticed a small lump around my crotch.. I have just noticed it getting bigger.. Its about 5mm long, and 2mm high.. what do you think it is? could it possibly be cancer? if so.. what sort?

17/m

Go to a doctor.. thats all you CAN do... hope i helped! xox ariella

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My friend is thinking of committing suicide what should I do?

Tell her Mom.

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My parents are making me go back to counciling again! UGH! NO. I went before and the counciler was USELESS and i'm going back to the same one. I hate going, councilers are POINTLESS especially when you don't want help and I honestly think there is nothing she can do. My parents are making me go because I fight with them too much and I'm not as perfect as my brother and they hate that and me. Yeah, well, now i have to go back and I have to miss social studies every Thursday. People WILL catch on. Theyll ask me where ive been, like before when i used to go, and I don't kno what to tell them! i cant say i had a dr's appintmet, EVERY THURSDAY. Plus, i'm going to end up failing that class! i havea C already, so if i miss class it'll just get worse. MY MOM TOLD ME THAT IM GOING BACK IN FRONT OF KIDS AT MY SCHOOL AND MY TEACHER. WHat a bitch.
how can I prove to my parents that she doesn't do jackshit and its a waste of money?

OoOok..
Make a compromise witht them. lol Tell them that you'll go to counceling only AFTER school because it's too embaressing and you care about school! Hope i helped1 xox Ariella

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Okay well last night I had my bf over and we got sexual.. Well to get to the point we wern't gonna have sex so we just fooled around.. Well he came(spelling error lol) and he was down there when he did it.. He made me go in the bathroom to check if ne got in but I dont know.. I dont know what to do. and I dont want to tell him I am scared. I am a 14/f

MmMmMmMkayyy..
well imn ot gonna call youa whore like everyone else has beacsue its your life and you can dow hat you wnat. But if i were you i would probably tell my mom or get a pregnancy test thing. Even tho telling your mom can be REALLY hard she can help you! hope i helped! xox Ariella

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hi.. my girlfriend died a 3 months ago from a car crash. i think about her every minute. she was my absloulte everything. I feel that im still going out with her but i feel a need a girl friend. I need some one to take her place. I need that some one who will give me what im looking for. Please help wat should i do

wel why not. she'd want you to be happy, it might be a little hard to handle but you have to move on. sorry btw xox Ariella Hope i helped!

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Well lately everyone is telling me to "DROP" every little thing that happens. Like if i'm upset about something, they expect me to just forget about it, or drop it. idk but its hard for me to forget things easily.. but i do forgive.. now my boyfriend is starting the drop it thing about something that happened 30 minutes ago... and when we talked it would be the 1st time we talked about what happened... ugh. help

tell him that if hesays drop it one more time you'll "drop" him... hope i helped! xox ariella

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what should i do? the boy that i go with use to go with my best friend a long time ago and wen we started goig out she said that she didn't like him anymore. but when they went out he didn't really like her and he cheated on her with her cousin. so after two months they broke up.
now that we have been goin togather for 5 months she has some stuff to say like that he cheatin on me and that he's just usin me for sex but i don't think that, that's true because he alwasy with me and all this other stuff that we do togather. should i break up with him so i wont lost my best friend but lose the one boy i love or should just tell him that i don't beliave her and stay with him?


i rate people...

Wow.. that was incredibly hard to read :(.. anyways dump him he scks he cheats on everyone and like i always say "chicks before d*cks" good luck! xox ariella

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I know this is wrong but i got myself into some serious mess.My bestfriend has a bf and they been together for 9 months and the other day me and him saw each other at this one place and we ended up in his car doing things.I feel really bad i don't know if i should tell her or not.I dont want to but i dont want her finding out from anybody else because i love her so much she is like my sister.IM confused plz help!

wow you messed up.. tell her you screwed uo its not her fault, she has the right to know... sorry but its true. hope i helped! xox Ariella

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what is the best way to excercise to get rid of that pooch thing below your belly button? or your "love handels" ??? i need help! and is it true that little pooch thing sticks out more when your on your period? mine does i think

to get rid of "pooch thing" get OFF the computer and go take am jog or do some crunches =) hope i helped! xox Ariella

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I have this friend who always talks about me but is like in all my classes. I don't really like her but my other friends get all mad at me if i get mad at her. Should i just tell her i dont wanna be her friened or should i be her friend?

haha lol i have the same problem. all my friends thought i was mean cuz i hated this bitch CHAYA (sorry lol) anyways so i told them that she was a whore and i hated her and they all thought iw as mean until she punched me hehe (i slapped her back) ANNNYYYWAAAYYYYS... screw what they think if you have a problem with someone they're probably fucked up and have no life anyways .. sooner or later your friedns will notice that!
hope i helped!!!
xox Ariella

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OK, I am so pissed off right now, I had a crush on these guys and they dared me to wear my short pink lavender skirt to school and wear a thong under it, and bend over while throwing away a piece of paper, so I did it, and when I bent over I let out a huge toot and now they keeping making fun of me! I am embaressed, but now they pobably don't like me, huh?


help please.

tisk tisk... usually i would tell you not to wear a thong and a mini..but that;s not true just DONT BED OVER when u do! lol sorry but you shouldnt have done that.. if you REALLY wanted to show them your ass then pick up your skirt and get over with it..either way its a very slutty thing to do,sorry. hope i HELPEd

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(15/f) My neighbors music is so loud I hear it on the opposite side of my house from the side that he lives on. I don't want to go to his house, and my parents are home so I can't blast ours that would def. be louder. He is around 40 something? Any ideas?

yeah, call the cops! hehe jk uhmm just go over there when the music isnt blasting (WITH your mom) and ask kindly to lower it! xox Ari

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is it just me?...or is it just the way my friend acts?...or are others like this also?..

there is this girl Angie...ive known her for about 4 years already..theres time where were close, like best friends. but lately shes been so annoying!..i get so irritated by her!..juss things she does!..shes so fake! and just doesnt know how to be herself! and she'll be so loud just to get attention!!...

anyone else hate this about someone?!

okay i know EXACTLY how you feel.. last year i ahd a best friend named Danielle and i loved her with all my heart but just the smallest things she would do irratated me! ad i didnt know what to do, so i just stayed away for a little while and kept a little space between us , and now we're best feiends again! i mean its totaly normal to get annoyed with people, it could aslo be stress, whenever i ahve a lot of homework or boy problems or wtvr i always tend to bring it out on other people (bad habit lol) so try relaxing or take my first thig about the taking a friends break! TRUST ME! your totally fine1 lol hope i helped, good luck! xox ari

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Ok, Well you see I'm not allowed to have a b/f. But I do. And when I go somewhere with my friends and hes there he always hangs out with me and stuff. And he's awesome! But when I go ice skating or something my brother usually goes. And since I'm not allowed to have a b/f or anything we can't hold hands or anything! It makes me so mad! My brother is 11 and he'll tell my parents whatever I do!! Someone please help me because this is gonna happen again tonite!!

dont go ice-skating, go to his house and say you;re going over a friends or soemthing. hope i helped1 xox ari

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hey guys, can you tell me a few things you like in a girl... and things you hate??? theres this great guy and i want to get his attention. Plz help!!!

haha lol you're absolutly WRONG...guys SAY they dont like slutty girls.. well maybe that's just the guys you know.. in my school guys are really upfront about everything... AND they use the sluttier girls and then go around calling them sluttly.. trust me.. dont ever change for ANYONE... laugh a lot and show your good personality..guys LOVe that! hope i helped1 good luck! xox ari

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im totally falling for my bestfriend. i liked him at the beginning of the year, and because of that we became the good friends we are now. we do everything together. Like EVERYTHING. and now, im falling for him again. hes just, hes perfect.

well, maybe he likes you too, you neevr know , just try flirting and see what happens :) good luck! hope i helped1 xox Ari

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Theres this guy in my class, we're kinda friends, but recently since I told friends I liked him they say they haven't told but he's been kinda blankin me mostly. One of the friends says I should ask him out, but I'm no Sandra Bullock. So should I or shouldn't I????

Thanx

go for it!!! it doesnt matter what u look like you sound like a very sweet person! so good luck! ...xox Ariella
ps: haha you're funny out of all the pretty actresses you could've chosen for an example of good looks you chose sandra bulloks haha how random! sorry and good luck!!

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I think I am in love with this guy. However a little while ago he told me he just wanted to be mates with me because he was in love with this other girl. Now he's over her and he's still being a little flirty with me. The big problem is another girl is moving in on my man. I know he says he just wants to be friends but I think that may have changed hopefully. I really need to act fast though if I want to keep him. Should I start flirting with him and trying to get him to ask me out again? Do you think I may have a chance with him??

Thanx, soz it's long xx

well you never know so if i were you i'de start flirting even if he told you he just wnats to be friends, you never know he could like you and just be too afraid to tell you! hope i helped! xox Ari

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