im totally falling for my bestfriend. i liked him at the beginning of the year, and because of that we became the good friends we are now. we do everything together. Like EVERYTHING. and now, im falling for him again. hes just, hes perfect.
Additional info, added Friday March 4 2005, 8:42 pm: what should i do about it? i mean, i dont wanna ruin this great friendship.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? xpianogirl89x answered Sunday March 6 2005, 9:57 pm: Aww.. I know how you feel. You have to speak up though, even if you don't wanna "ruin the friendship." In my eyes, that really would never happen if you guys are best friends.. Just casually tell him you think you like someone.. If he asks who, say you.. lol or try a little different approach: ask him if he's ever thought of you guys as more than friends.. chances are he'll say yes, even if it's not right now.. maybe he used to like you. Maybe he'll realize he likes you after you tell him how you feel. Try to get him to open up a little.. Good luck hun!
vickiooos answered Friday March 4 2005, 9:27 pm: for me.. it makes the friednship stronger (after the breakup and during the relationship) i will admit it gets weird and awkward after the breakup but that gap closes itself up. trust me. there hasn't been an ex yet that im not good friends with. it's ok to fall for your friend; i actually prefer that. that way you know them atleast somewhat you know? bring it up.. if you're ultra shy then be reasonable and think does he like me back? the biggest mistake girls make is taking things too seriously and like taking everything that they do as a sign they're flirting back (and they end up getting hurt real bad thinking they've been plyaed when they just took every single small thing as a sign of flirting back) [ vickiooos's advice column | Ask vickiooos A Question ]
AnonymousAdvice answered Friday March 4 2005, 9:24 pm: tell him how you feel if you think that he may like you a little bit. Flirt, be blissful, and be YOU most importantly. you dont want him falling for a different person your trying to be!=)
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icey0990 answered Friday March 4 2005, 9:00 pm: I know how you feel.. i know someone whos absolutly perfect too. Dont make the mistake i made..i never told him how i felt. You should ask "do you ever see us more than just friends?" if you dont feel comfortable with that..get a friend to ask. I really think you should find out if he would ever go out with you..because if you dont..it will drive you crazy. You will keep wondering what could have happened between the two of you. i understand you dont want to ruin this great friendship..but what the two of you could have.. is love. And love is friendship set on fire. Even if the fire dies out..you will still have the friendship. Its a risk worth taking in my opinion.
Best of luck
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