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hi.. my girlfriend died a 3 months ago from a car crash. i think about her every minute. she was my absloulte everything. I feel that im still going out with her but i feel a need a girl friend. I need some one to take her place. I need that some one who will give me what im looking for. Please help wat should i do
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I'm really sorry to hear about your g/f. It's understandable about how you feel like you're still with her. 3 months is still pretty fresh. All that I can really say is go with what you're insides tell you. From the sounds of it you're ready for a new girl, so if there's somebody in mind don't hold back. But like I said go with what you're insides tell you.
~Amb~
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I think that it is ok to still love your old girlfriend, yet also have a new girlfriend. If that happened to one of my guy friends I'd try to make them feel better. Message me back and I can keep talking to ya
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Aw im very sorry to hear that.. um i think you should wait a while its only been three months since that has happened.. um im sure you want somebody thatwill be jus like her and nobody will be jus like her... who ever you get with you'll probably compare them to her.. but maybe try finding somebody to be a good friend and comfort you as a friend.. much luv dez x0x0
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the always say you never know how much you love someone until there gone. I know how you feel only not to that extent. My condolences go out to you and the family. It will be hard at first, but you have to get back out there. NO ONE likes the feeling, but just think.... if you dont, you might turn out to be one of 3 things. 1) a pimp. 2) an old man sitting on his porch alone except for his 27 cats, or 3) a pedifile. * just trin to lighten the situation* but seriously, the best thing you can do is get out there. She wouldnt want you alone and depressed. Hope i helped.
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wel why not. she'd want you to be happy, it might be a little hard to handle but you have to move on. sorry btw xox Ariella Hope i helped!
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I'm so sorry to hear about your girlfriend, thats horrible. :( She will always be with you, and I'm sure she wants you to be happy. Just try talking to some girls and try and find someone that your comfortable with and someone you really like and see where it goes from there. You'll always have feelings for your girlfriend and you'll never forget her. Just know that she'd want you to be happy. Goodluck hun, if you ever need to talk let me kno. xOx
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You will probably always have feelings for her.3 months isn't that long ago really, but if you feel like you need a friend that is perfectly normal. Just take it slow.Sorry for your loss.
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Im very sorry about her, that must be really hard. But its not like your replaceing her because she will always be there in your heart even though shes not here she`ll always be there. So maybe you should start seeing other girls.. you seem young arent u? Anyways just always remember her but you can see other girls. Hope i helped. xo-ashley
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I'm so sorry about your girlfriend. That must still be very hard for you. First of all, you have to know that you are going through a grieving process. This is completely normal, and I'm sure you are feeling a ton of different emotiions. You also have to realize that no one is going to be able to 'take her place,' at least not for awhile, anyways. It will probably be hard to fill that void, but it is good that you seem ready to move on. Dwelling on your girlfriend's death is not only unhealthy for you, but it will make living the rest of your life very hard. Don't rush into any new relationships right away. Since this is a unique situation, you have to be careful with your heart. A part of you probably feels like some of your heart still belongs to your girlfriend that died, since you said she was your absolute everything. Try meeting some new people, like through mutual friends. You might try a date or so and find that you are not ready to have a girlfriend again yet, I'm not sure, especially since you said you still think about her all the time (which is perfectly understandable). You also might feel bad when you are out on a date with another girl, like you are betraying your girlfriend, but you have to remember, even though your old girlfriend has died, she would want you to be happy. It seems like you are on your way to moving forward with your life, which is great. Good luck, and please leave me a message in my inbox if you need anything else at all. I'm not sure if I answered your question or not, but I hope that helped a little. The hardest part will probably be sorting out your emotions as you start dating again. Hang in there!
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Aw, first off. I'm so sorry hun, that must be so hard on you. But, she's in a happy place right now and watching out for you. She also probably wants to you move on and try to find another girlfriend. And just because you do want another girlfriend, doesn't mean you have to forget about her. If you see a girl you like, try flirting with her and talking to her a lot. Get close with a couple of girls frist and I'm sure you'll fall for one sooner or later. Then you can take it from there, by talking to them more on a relationship level or going to the movies and such.
♥ Krissy
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Aww I’m so sorry Hun. You need to greave and see a shrink so you can work it out.
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that is sOoo sad!! .. im so sorry .. but you should make a lot of friends that are girls and try to flirt .. eventually one will fall head over heels and you'll get a girlfriend to help you through .. but im soo sorry about that .. hope i helped .. Love MauramOo
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