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Q: My hair is really long and wavy, and my face shape is round. Will my hair make my face seem longer (which is what I want) or is there another style that can do that?
yeah, it will make your face slimmer and longer .. just wear it down .. hope i helped .. Love Always, MauramOo

Q: As we all know mothers day is tomorrow. Does anyone have any good ideas on what to get mine?? I have no idea plese help! I will rate high for a good answer! THanks!
you could make // but her a card or buy some flowers .. also make her lunch or breakfast and clean around the house .. hope i helped .. Love Always, MauramOo

Q: 13/f
I used to wish my bf would take our relationship more seriously. I wished he weren't so prude. Well, I finally worked up the courage to kiss him one day. But now he's so different. After we kissed he said it wasn't as awkward and now all he wants to do is talk romantic, hold me, kiss me, etc. I miss the times when we were more like friends. I feel like we're going too fast (since we're only 13). I don't know what to do and if I talk to him, he might get mad or something. Got any advice for me please?
MH
tell him the truth .. if he really loves you he will understand.... hope i helped .. Love Always, MauramOo

Q: My boyfreiend abuses me!!! I mean like he doesn't mean to but like we will be messing around and he'll grab my hand to hard and I get brusies, and I dont bruse easily!! I tell him it hurts but I know he doesnt mean to!! help!!
you really should tell someone, tell an adult, parent, anyone who will listen ..also tell him to stop! .. this could get out of hand ... hope i helped .. Love always, MauramOo

Q: Do you think it's possible to find your soulmate at 12? When I was 12 I got my first bf and we're still together. (I'm 14.) We've been through a lot together and I feel really close to him. But I don't know if that's just because he's the only person I've ever been with, or if my feelings are real. I can't imagine us not being together. He's my best friend. So... Do you thinkit's possible he's my soulmate or am I too young and am being fooled?
there's no age limit for love .. im in love unfortunatly so yes, you can find your soulmate at 12 .. at any age!! hope i helped.. Love Always, MauramOo

Q:
When I was ill recently, I really relied on my partner, and he was wonderful at looking after me. I've told him how thankful I am and how much it meant to me, but I'd really like to show how grateful I am and am really stuck for what would be appropriate. Would a card or gift be tacky/inappropriate? I saw a book I know he'd enjoy, but it doesn't feel quite the right way to say 'thanks' for all that he's done.

Basically, I'm just looking for opinions - should I get him a small token like the book, or is it more appropriate to just talk to him about it as I have been doing?
the book would be nice, also you could bring him out to dinner at a nice restaurant or to the movies.. im sure he'll love what ever you do.. hope i helped.. Love, MauramOo

Q: 1. well i was wondering if a girl that is 15 turning 16 in 2 months is going out with someone that just turned 25, could that someone go to jail?
2. what if the girl is not a virgin and the cops find out and they try to accuse the boy and she denies it could they file charges???
Thank you!
1.) if they're in america and have slept together than yes, he can get arrested because the female is under 18

2.) well the doctors can probally find out ,if she has been sexually active lately, who she has been sexually ative with by running tests

hope i helped, Love Always, MauramOo

Q: I've been wanting to ask, what's emo? I've heard it a lot, but don't have a clue as to what it is, and nobody would tell me because they are such teases.
its kinda punk music ... it means emotional .. hope i helped.. Love, MauraMoo

Q: i have these jeans that i want to put rinestones on. what kind of glue should i use???
you sound very creative .. i wish i was creative lol .. well i would use a glue gun .. hoppe i helped .. Love, MauramOo

Q: One of my best friend's brother died in a car crash because of street racing. Tomorrow I am going to his funeral with our friends and to be there for my friend. I really dont know what to wear and what I'm supposed to do there. Do I bring a gift. I feel really bad. He was onlt 17 years old. Please help.
IM SOO SORRY !!! thats so sad .. for the funeral you should wear black because it's commmon .. and most people dont give gift .. aww thats so sad .. i deep sympathy for you your fruends and family ... hope i helped .. Love, MauramOo

Q: Okay, so I'm 14 f. About a year ago my breasts had a growth spurt and now I have stretch marks! I can't wear anything slightly low cut or you see ugly red lines. I'm not a slut or anything, but going to the beach I need to show a little... anybody know what to do?
there are cream such as cocoa butter .. hope i helped .. Love MauramOo

Q: okay well i was woundering what dose racis mean?
it means that you are against a type of group of people according to things like their color .. hope i helped .. Love MauramOo

Q: My cousin's family invited me to go on a cruise with them to Cancun and Cozemel. I really want to go but if my cousin and I spend at least 2 hours together, we don't get along. She will get mad at me and I will have no one to hang out with because her dad's side of the family is coming, too (I don't know them because we're not related) But this is a once in a lifetime opportunity...Should I go or no??
u should go .. make friends with some second cousins when your there so that if she does get mad your not all alone ... it sounds fun!! have fun if you go!! .. hope i helped .. Love MauramOo

Q: hey
hii!! who are you ..?

Q: your sister is killing me man
oOh what one? .. whos this? lol .. Love MauramOo

Q: Hey mau .. i dont think its ashleys cousin .. that just my opinion .. but anyways .. Ashley thinks shes cool for getting her cousin .. if her cousin doesnt think that theres anything wrong wyd that .. that obv. shes a slut juss like ashley! It must run in the family .. well i didnt have a question juss wanted to say that =)


xoxox love ya s4L! mwahs

hahaha ... love you too . xoox sfe! .. Love MauramOo

Q: my friend has depression and shes not taking her pills and she doesnt realize it makes her worse. she thinks it makes her better. and we got into a fight and we are over it now but i dont want this to happen again. she thinks the pills dont help but they do!!! and i dont want to lose my temper and say "WELL IF YOU TOOK YOUR PILLS WE WOULDN'T BE IN THIS SITUATION!!!" because i know thats mean. but i dont want to just sit here either?

any advice?
accually i know someone who takes those pills for depression and when you take them it makes you lazier and i think she'd be better off without them .. but if you really want her to tell her mom or dad .. hope i helped .. Love MauramOo

Q: ur a hoe and give crappy ass advice!!!! ; }
okay ... ? who's this?? and ahh no ... your moms a hoe .. shove it bitch .. Love MauramOo

Q: A year or two ago i went out w/ this girl. i liked her, she liked me. i dumped her ,because i relized that she wasn't that actractive, and she hated me. she wouldn't talk to me look at me etc. now i see her in the halls and at dismissle. now she really actractive. i don't want to go out w/ her or anything, i just want to be her friend again.what should i do?

p.s. she has a boy-friend now
first of all .. you should not judge a girl for looks!! that can hurt a girl badly! you have to judge girls by their personality and all that ..write her a note saying all you want is friendship and your soo sorry and never meant to hurt her .. hope i helped . Love MauramOo

Q: This is for all you lovely ladies out there.
- What types of things do you like to hear.
Example. "You're beautiful"
What other things do you like being told.

Thanks!
we want the truth .. dont tell us we're beautiful if we're not .. tell us what your heart thinks .. hope i helped .. Love MauramOo

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baybexmau831
hEyy iMm Maura also known as mAu mAuRamOo or mOniQue ( lol nikki ) my birthday is March 24 I cheer, ski, snowboard, and go running . you can contact me at baybxmau 143 if you dont want to post your problems in here . ask me anything you need help with and ill be sure to answer you unless it's rude and uncalled for . xox Love Maura*

if i could have jus wun dream come true id dream a dream that i could be with you .. i miss you baby!! ... i L0VE Y0U S0O FUCKiNG MUCH!! .. = /

xox Love Maura*

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