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Girls.


Question Posted Sunday March 13 2005, 9:05 pm

This is for all you lovely ladies out there.
- What types of things do you like to hear.
Example. "You're beautiful"
What other things do you like being told.

Thanks!


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therocketsummer answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 9:58 pm:
sometimes its good to say your beautiful

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xolilabbs214ox answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 5:08 pm:
umm..... i love it when my guy friends compliment on my outfit. i also love to hear:
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* your pretty
*you are really cool
*when they make fun of me
*when they ask ro copy my homewrok( it makes me feel important)
*just like tell them how you feel!
hope i helped! please rate!
x0x0 abbey x0x0

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Deanimal answered Monday March 14 2005, 7:22 pm:
Yes, we most definitely like compliments, but we like *smart* compliments. Beautiful is better than hot. We like to be complimented on our character, not just our appearance.(ie 'you're so smart/talented/interesting/funny/strong) And be honest. If it isn't true, don't say it. If we are fishing for compliments, we are insecure and need you to say something that blows our mind, (You're allowed to fudge a tad here) like "I have never seen a more beautiful sight than your smile in my entire life; you are amazing"

We like to hear that we look sexy when we think that we dont. (ie when we are sweaty, smelly, gross, just woke up, hair is a mess). There is nothing more fun then going about thinking you look like crap and having someone tell you that you look fantastic.

Besides compliments, we like to feel like we're being confided in. Whisper in our ears. Tell us secrets. Come to us with problems. We like the intimate feeling of being your shoulder to cry on.

Being gentleman-like is a huge turn-on. (Calling a girl milady). Bonus points for saying "I miss you" and meaning it.

And for God's sakes, please don't lead us on or play us. Girls fall hard sometimes.

You can do it. (:

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JadedinNowhere answered Monday March 14 2005, 6:19 pm:
if your trying to drop a corny line or two your in for a wake up call because some of us don't fall for it.. whatever comes to you in the moment is best.. I personally hate fakeness..

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xxBrOkEnxx answered Monday March 14 2005, 6:06 pm:
truthfully you cant ask someone what they like to hear..but i would like to hear things that come from the heart even though im 13 i like all the romantic crap,i know that may sound stupid and everything

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xo_APRiL answered Monday March 14 2005, 5:40 pm:
To me, I like hearing that Im beautiful, NOT hot or nice looking.

I like hear I love you, I miss you [ things like that to show that you care about the person ]

I like being called nicknames, like baby, or darling.

Hope I helped! =]

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xXxpinky615xXx answered Monday March 14 2005, 4:49 pm:
First of all, we don't like to hear all that mushy love shit all the damn time because it gets annoying as hell. It has to be something that you mean, something that comes from your heart. You shouldn't be asking what to tell her, you should be able to just look at her and be able to say so many things about her. I'll tell you things NOT to say- never tell a girl that she is hot, bangin, fine, bootylicious (yes I've gotten that line before) sexy, or anything of that nature. Women like to hear sincere things from a guy, don't ever give her that line that "you're eyes are so beautiful blah blah blah" We get that all the time. Never tell a girl that she should be a model because you'll never hear the end of it. Never say anything to a girl that would have anything remotely to do with her weight because you won't hear the end of that either. We like to be held, touched, kissed, talked to, if you tell a girl once a day that you love her and that she's beautiful, you've already got her heart.

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Courckypooh answered Monday March 14 2005, 4:23 pm:
I like to hear "your one of the most amazing people ive ever met" or somethin galong those lines.
Or "you have beautiful eyes"
Compliment something about them you can't buy in a store becaues it will make thenm feel like an individual.
Also when she's acting wierd ask her whats wrong and try to make her feel better.. that's what EVERY girl wants.

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Erinn_the_bamf answered Monday March 14 2005, 3:29 pm:
To expand on that here is a pharse we love to hear. "You're not hot or sexy. You're beautiful." Talk about her around her friends. Tell her she's the most amazing person you've ever met. ECT. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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baybexmau831 answered Monday March 14 2005, 2:59 pm:
we want the truth .. dont tell us we're beautiful if we're not .. tell us what your heart thinks .. hope i helped .. Love MauramOo

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perfect_gurl answered Monday March 14 2005, 2:48 pm:
"You're beautiful the way you are."

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nocturnalkid answered Monday March 14 2005, 1:49 pm:
I think if you're trying to figure out what a lady likes, you should probably get to know the lady individually, instead of trying to mass compliment them.

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mylinhthan answered Monday March 14 2005, 12:59 pm:
anonymous -

For starters, we don't like to hear things that don't come from the heart. We like to hear original things from our men, not everyday compliments. Be creative!

Remember to be honest and don't say anything you don't mean.

One thing that'll hit great points with us women is telling us that we look beautiful, even in sweats without all the glamour and makeup.

We also like to hear how much we mean to you and how much you love us.

As for corny lines, some girls like it some don't. But if you have a chick with a sense of humor, go for it!

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sexy_as_fcuk answered Monday March 14 2005, 10:48 am:
i dont really like to be complimented unless its true. if you truly mean it then you shouldnt have a problem thinking what to say it should just come from your heart!

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ilovekeith123 answered Monday March 14 2005, 10:34 am:
i really like to hear that I am important, and just that the guy cares about me.
*Katt*
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mysticpixie05 answered Monday March 14 2005, 9:56 am:
tell her the truth about what you think about her. some thing for example could be
i like your laugh
your pretty
your beautiful
i like your eyes
you make me laugh
i love to be around you
i cant help but smile when i see you
your amazing
your everything to me

whatever you feel and what ever you like about her, specify it to her. but dont go overvoard with all of it. you wouldnt want to scare her off by making her thing you are obsessive or anything. and dont make stuff up when your telling her these things, just to make her feel good. be truthful. and that should do it.

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Ditsy answered Monday March 14 2005, 9:54 am:
well we dont always like to be compamented maybe once and a while and say her eyes are lovley and things like that and actaly listion to her wen she is talkin so u actaly have somethin to say

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lostgurl616 answered Monday March 14 2005, 9:28 am:
the normal your beautiful crap gets old ..... cheesy stuff make me laugh

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Lights_Fade_Out answered Monday March 14 2005, 8:44 am:
girls hate it when a guy calls them 'hott' to their faces. it makes them feel disrespected and low. things you should say to make them feel wanted are like. you are beautiful...pretty...gorgeous...amazing...etc. make them feel like they really are loved and respected.

hope this helped. =D good luck

dont let the LIGHTS FADE OUT

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karenR answered Monday March 14 2005, 12:51 am:
Ahhh :} How sweet are you!
Anything complimentary will do.
Write her poems if you can, they like that too.

The only thing I want to add is don't go overboard.You want it to really mean something when you give a compliment.Does that make sense? You don't want it to become expected of you.

Wanna get married? I didn't think so, I'm taken anyway! You are going to make some lucky girl very happy! Good luck!

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rainbowsend answered Sunday March 13 2005, 11:53 pm:
Genuine compliments are the key.

Be specific- tell her exactly what you like about her. "You have a cute laugh" "I love looking into your eyes" "Your smile is so bright" "You have a tight ass"

Be spontaneous- compliment her when she's not necessarily expecting it.

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sublime_burritos answered Sunday March 13 2005, 11:45 pm:
i was going to say "the truth"...but someone beat me to it. it won't kill you to hear it again though. the truth is a good thing, we like it. <3

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MummuM answered Sunday March 13 2005, 10:49 pm:
"You're so pretty", "You make my day", "When I look I you, I can't help but smile", "You can always make me laugh", "I love you", "I love your eyes", "You're so sweet and caring", "I love everything about you", etc. Just be honest. Nothing is better then the truth!
&hearts; Krissy

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PeYtOnS_gIrL05 answered Sunday March 13 2005, 10:41 pm:
I like to be told the truth. It's not worth lieing to her, just tell her what you really feel about her.Good luck!

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3__oNLyiNadReaM__3 answered Sunday March 13 2005, 10:33 pm:
girls love the truth and they love it when you look them in the eyes and truly mean it when you say that you love them. just IM me and ill tell you alot more--XxLuVtAcHeErxX

x0x-Sarah

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xlostangelx answered Sunday March 13 2005, 10:29 pm:
nothing but the truth.

-ashlea

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XoUkrainianBabeXo answered Sunday March 13 2005, 10:07 pm:
What you really feel about us. Yea we may like to hear compliments but if you lie about them then there is no point. So just say what you feel.

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AdviceMistress answered Sunday March 13 2005, 10:07 pm:
that i'm cute and funny. i like to get a lot of attention from guyz especially hott and cute ones.

*BeSs*

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FlaWlessMonoLith answered Sunday March 13 2005, 9:58 pm:
the truth

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punkrockprincess answered Sunday March 13 2005, 9:47 pm:
Telling a girl that she's gorgeous will get her anytime! Simple I love yous and I miss yous are always welcomed!


&hearts; Always,
Maria

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PinkPrincess42 answered Sunday March 13 2005, 9:45 pm:
lol! Well first of all, you have to say things that are different, not just things that girls hear every day.. if you say something meaningful, a girl will actually remember it. Girls like to be told how pretty they look~ Saying things about how beautiful she is is also a big plus. Also, you can say sweet things even when she is looking her worst. Tell her how pretty her eyes are or how you like hearin her voice. Tell her how much she means to you. Also, girls like when you point out that they are smart. Say things about how smart she is when she comes up with things! I also love it when my boyfriend notices things.. well for example.. new shoes, new clothes, or hairstyle. Thats great too! Hope I helped! Now go charm them ladies!
*Emily*

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kitkatbar answered Sunday March 13 2005, 9:36 pm:
point out specific things you like about her that make her feel good inside. don't say she's hot, say she has beautiful eyes or a beautiful personality. things that are cute and unique that she'll remember.

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ShYbl0nD3 answered Sunday March 13 2005, 9:36 pm:
um...

Your eyes are beautiful
You're really sweet
I love you (but mean it)
You look amaizing today
I feel like you're the perfect one for me
Just hearing your voice makes me (and whatever makes you feel about hearing her voice goes here lol)

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Kels answered Sunday March 13 2005, 9:30 pm:
i love your eyes
you look amazing!
i love your legs
i love your hands
" " " nose(E)
" " " smile

things like that. i also like when my boyfriend notices things, like new shoes, clothes, hair style or nail polish color!

Hope I Helped-
Kels

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A-reynolds-C answered Sunday March 13 2005, 9:14 pm:
-I love you!
-You make my day wonderful!
-You're wonderful!
-You're beautiful!
-You are soo funny!
- You are more than i could wish for!

I hope this helps!
Please Rate!

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BooBoo2007 answered Sunday March 13 2005, 9:14 pm:
Girls wait for the one guy who will tell her she's beautiful instead of hot, who will call back when she hangs up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to her heartbeat, or just lie awake to watch her sleep, the boy who will kiss her on her forehead, who wants to show her off to the world when she's in sweats, who will hold her hand in front of his friends, a guy who thinks she's the prettiest when she's not wearin any make up, the one who will turn to his friends and say "Yeah, that's her..." Just sweet talk darlin, and make sure you mean it. Don't ever tell a girl you love her unless you mean it, that is very important! Only tell her she's beautiful once...trust me, well not just once, just not every day, every second of the day, when she's supposedly at her worst, and when she gets dolled up for you...and when she least expects it. She has gorgeous eyes, her small hands fit perfectly into yours, you love the sound of the beat of her heart, you've never met anybody so beautiful inside and out...and remember, make sure you mean it, the last thing you want to do is hurt her...Good Luck, Be Sweet!

XoXo
Jessie

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xoxsweetashley91 answered Sunday March 13 2005, 9:09 pm:
- I appreciate that
- I love you (only if you mean it!)
- You look great
- Laugh at her jokes
- You`re brilliant!

Just show affection! Girls LOVE being kissed and touched

please rate! hope i helped! :-)

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