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hey brittany. i've really liked, no loved this guy for maybe over a year. i'm good friends with him. should i tell him my feelings? i mean if he says no, its gonna feel so awkward all the time, and i guess if he says yes it would be wonderful lol. i s'pose its all risk. just wondering but what would you do?

Hey.. do I know you? Anyway...
The best thing you could do is tell him...if he says no, just act as if nothing happened. Its not really a big deal how he reacts. Just ignore him. What, is he going to make fun of you for liking him? If anything he'll probably be flattered. I'd tell him. If you want, take some time to think about it.

hope this helped. =)

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Thirteen/ Female.
I want to be an author, is there an age requirement to be one? Also how can I publish my book?
Thanks,
~K.C~

You can be an author at any age. There is no requirement. To publish a book, try going online and searching publishing companies and such. If you feel like it, try looking at the publishers of books you read. Although they may be too successful to publish a 13 year olds book, if it's good enough they will accept it. I'm sure you'll get it published. ;) I'd like to hear about your book some time...my AIM is PutChezyLyrcHere and www.myspace.com/brandnewrox for my Myspace page.
Good luck!

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You see, my girlfriend has these friends who are rather nosy. I dont like to really be an ass about it but it happens and it hurts her everytime. How do I tell her that I dont want her friends nosing around our relationship withouth her possibly getting mad?

16/m

First of all, you're not sixteen. Second of all, your girlfried agrees that her friends are nosy, but would rather not have you talk to them. You see, this could result in a fight. These happen OFTEN. So just forget your girlfriend even HAS friends and go back to life before the nosy friends interviened.

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OMMMGG!! 300-500 CRUNCHES A DAY???? are u serious, please tell me your kidding!! cuz ive got about 1 week to get a hot stomache before i see my boyfriend again..and i get really tired after doing like 15 crunches. So i do 50 a day! OMMMMG 500? how is that possible? mayb im doing them wrong or something. Lets say i manage to do about 100 a day - for how long do i hafta do them to get a nice stomache????

Lol, yes...but I am also on a swim team, so I have to stay in shape all of the time. If you do 100 a day, it will take longer, but you can get toned. If you do it 100 a day, then try adding a few other exersizes to make up for the lost ones...something easier that you dont get tired easily doing.

hope this helped ;)

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Ok I have a few questions..#1 summers coming up and I want to get tan, really tan. Does Mystic Tan work? How long does it last? #2 I just got some dream matte mousse foundation..how do I apply it? Does it need powder or anything? #3 I want to get my eyebrows waxed but I already pluck them..should I let them grow out before i get them waxed? Thanks!

Real tans from the sun last much much longer than a fake tan, but Mystic Tan DOES work well. It may not last as long, but it has good quality. About the foundation, dont put too much on...you dont need to put loads of it on to have smooth looking skin. Just apply a little a smooth it out..if you feel you need more, place a little more on. The dream matte mousse works really well. Yes, you should let them grow out before you wax them. Its kind of like shaving your legs...before you wax them you have to let the hair grow out. Waxing works really really well and lasts so long. Its better to wax because you dont have to spend foever plucking your eyebrows.

hope this helped =D

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Ok I have a few questions..#1 summers coming up and I want to get tan, really tan. Does Mystic Tan work? How long does it last? #2 I just got some dream matte mousse foundation..how do I apply it? Does it need powder or anything? #3 I want to get my eyebrows waxed but I already pluck them..should I let them grow out before i get them waxed? Thanks!

Real tans from the sun last much much longer than a fake tan, but Mystic Tan DOES work well. It may not last as long, but it has good quality. About the foundation, dont put too much on...you dont need to put loads of it on to have smooth looking skin. Just apply a little a smooth it out..if you feel you need more, place a little more on. The dream matte mousse works really well. Yes, you should let them grow out before you wax them. Its kind of like shaving your legs...before you wax them you have to let the hair grow out. Waxing works really really well and lasts so long. Its better to wax because you dont have to spend foever plucking your eyebrows.

hope this helped =D

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ok, I'm about 5'2 & weaigh 115. & I'm 14/M

well, I want to have abs, just like a 6 pack, & my stomach be flat (I'm strested & thats where it goes). & I wanted to know a diet & a work-out routine that would work.

Thanks So Much!

A diet that you could do is low carb, but do not cut all carbs out of your diet. During and after you exersize try eating power bars and drinking a LOT of fluid. Fluids filter all of the crap out of your body. Mostly drink water. A workout routine would be to do 300-500 crunches a day. It dosent matter when, and it dosent matter how spaced out they are. You can go online and get yoga routines, or if you have magazines they usually have something about workout and diet. If you dont have any, try getting some mags from your friends or family.

hope this helped, you can ask me any other questions if you'd like. =D

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what is the differance between sit ups and crunches?

When you do sit ups, you come all the way up rather than just picking up your shoulders during crunches. Sit ups can hurt your back if you do them, so I'd reccomend crunches. Crunches can actually do more for your body...I do about 300-500 crunches a day and my body is really getting toned for the summer.

hope this helped. =D

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hey what are like the first signs of mono?


thanks .. ill rate 5's

I almost had mono once....but it turned out to be a severe case of strep throat. Ermm the first signs are usually your throat closing up, and hurting like mad. It gets really really red. All I could eat was broth from soup. Its really flemmy and you salivate a lot. You get kind of a head cold also.

Hope this helped =D

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my moms best friends son is 14/m (hes going into 9th grade) and we went to dinner with them tonight and he was really quiet and while all the adults were talking and all the kids were running around he picked up his knife and started kinda sawing at the back of his hand and the second he saw that i saw what he was doing, he stopped. and later that night he asked if he could walk home to practice his guitar before they all got home (we are neighbors and we all live close to where we were having dinner but not close enough that most people would walk home right before a big thunderstorm) and when his dad said that they were all going home anyway he looked kind of mad. so i guess i have two questions, can you cut the back of your hand (like cutting suicide wise) and should i be worried about him like what should i do
please answer me really soon because if something happened we would all be heartbroken
and p.s. his mom said that he was never upfront snotty, but he never likes going places with his family and stuff and that he was doing well that night. does that mean anything?
sorry, this is a stupid question but i'm just worried about him!
i rate!!!

You should be worried, but if thats what he does, then its his business. Just talk to him about it if you guys are really good friends. Ask him why, and if he opens up to you...he trusts you. Its tragic when people do this...but sometimes its the only thing they can have control over. Talk to him about it...thats all you can do. Just DONT pressure him to stop doing it just yet...he'll get pissed. Just ask him if he has ever tryed stopping...or when he started, etc. etc. Just ease your way into a conversation about how to stop cutting. You can get advice on that here...if you want, you could ask me..I just dont want to flood you with information just yet. ;)
Oh and FYI people who dont know this... but cutters dont just cut their wrists. They can cut all over....get your facts straight.

hope this helped! you can ask me anything else if you'd like. ;) if you have any questions aim me at PutChezyLyrcHere or my myspace is http://www.myspace.com/brandnewrox

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well i went to a concer like 2 days ago and i was in the mosh pit and i got thrown on stage...
i stood up and the band had stopped playing and everyone was staring at me...i feld so embarassed. but then i saw my bf in the front row and i started singing the song that they were playing... so they started playing the song again and i was up their the whole show..
the band called me the next day and asked me and my band to come with them on tour... my band is called the audio switch.
should i go on tour with them and miss the whole summer hangin wid my friends or play punk rock music with mental riot on tour?!?!?!
help!!!!
they both sound so awesome but bieng on tour with metal riot is a chance of a lifetime..

TOTALLY GO ON TOUR WITH THEM!!!! ITS A ONCE IN A LIFETIME CHANCE!!! That would be completely awesome. Its just summertime...and you'll have a blast!!! Oh man, you're so lucky!!! If you say no then I'll have to hunt you down and convince you to go with them!! Lol...sorry for the outburst, I do that often. There is NO doubt that you should go. Thats amazing! You're so lucky...

=D good luck!

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i know that guys dont like clingy girls, and i know that guys dont like girls that are to "separated" if you know what i mean...so my question is...what is in between clingy and separated to where it is just right and the relationship will not fail due to this type of problem....and also in that "just right state," how does the person act?

If you dont want to be clingy, but you want to be close your boyfriend, make HIM want to be close with YOU. Just try leaving him alone for a few days, and make him talk to you. If not, you could always do this...when he asks you to call him, just tell him you will call him in a few minutes...you're busy. Or just tell him you'll call later. Dont make it seem like you're obsessed with talking with him. Also, when you're on the phone with him, you be the one to tell him that 'you have to go' some of the time. He will like to know that you have a life outside of him. Some guys DO like clingy girls because it makes them seem like they are important and wanted.

hope this helped. you can ask me anymore questions if you'd like =D

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Me and my boyfriend had a massive argument and he hit me. he has never done that before and he was really sorry and said he loves me i broke up with him and he wants me back should i go back to him or move on.

16 f

I wouldnt go back out with him if I were you. This time its an 'I'm sorry, I love you...forgive me...' But that means nothing. He could do it again and again and again. I think you should just move on...you could do so much better than a boyfriend that is abusive.

hope this helped! Good luck, and ask me any more questions if you'd like. =D

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This question is for someone who knows a lot about nutrition and working out.

Okay, I just started to work out for about an hour and fifteen minutes a day at the gym (cardio). I get hungry afterwards. I'm trying to lose weight (I'm a female, if that helps at all, and I'm not trying to build more muscle), so what foods would be okay to eat after a workout? Thanks in advance!

Its natrual to get hungry after working out. Try eating power bars and drinking a LOT of water and some power drinks. Eat things that are high in protein and carbs. Fruit, veggies, but mostly power bars. They are really good for people while and after they exersize.

hope this helped...ask me anything else if you'd like. =D

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I love making up my own songs and singing them..the problem is, when i write them down, they look so retarded and then I forget the tune and everything screws up..my question is, how do you write lyrics that match with the tunes? I would love to be a singer one day but that won't happen because I'm asian, but whatever..um what are some tips for writing song lyrics and thinking of tunes? Thanks..I rate

First of all, do NOT say you wont be a singer because of your background!!! Thats horrible! You can make it no matter what. Try recording your voice onto something, and seeing how that works. Keep practicing, and you will get used to singing to the lyrics. Try preforming your lyrics in front of people...it will help exxtremely. Also, just read your lyrics, and dont sing them. Get a beat into them and go with that.

hope this helped...come to me for any other questions you might have if you would like. =D

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ok i liked this guy for the longest time i have 3 more days of school left after that i have no way of seeing him over the summer i dont want to directly ask him out or have a friend to i want him to come to me cause i dont want to get crushed if i do. we have one class together and our lockers are by eachother. we talk to eachother like once a month but on friday i gave him a sucker so those are the things that give us a little conection. how do i get him to like me?

I must admit, it wont happen over night. You dont know how he feels about you, so it could be an easier task than you think. When you see him, try getting him to sign your yearbook (if you usually do that) and ask him to put his screen name or something that yuo can get in touch with him with. He wont think its wierd...just say that you want to stay in touch with people from school over the summer. He'll agree..I know he will. Then just gradually start talking to him online. You can flirt online and people wont even know it...so try some of that. He'll grow on you, just dont get TOO attached to the point you're talking to him every single day.

Good luck! Hope this helped...you can ask me anymore questions if you'd like. =D

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Hi im 13 and i love horses. I cant stand not seeing them. I realy want one of my own. me and my family live in the city (there are no Horses aloud) and i ride at a lesson place 15 mins away. i only get to ride once every other week. I want to see them more often. Please help.



Note: please dont say make some more money I am only 13.

From: Horsegirl

Try going to that farm more...like on your free time. I will tell you to save your money, because that will get you your horse. But in the meantime, take more time at the farm where you ride. If you become more friendly with the people who ride there, then they trust you. If they trust you, then they can trust you with their horses. Sometimes they sell their horses to people they trust for a lesser amount of money. Living in the city is hard when you want to be with horses more often. Just try giving ing yourself more time to go the the farm that you ride at.

hope this helped. =D you can ask me anything else.

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ok so i was talkin to my ex n he told me to listen to a song n thats what he wants in life....the song is swing life away by rise against.....the he IMed me n said "we live on front porches and swing life away"...anybody know what the song means or what that verse above means?
thanks

OHHH I LOVE THAT SONG WITH A PASSION. Lol, sorry for the outburst. Well, the song means that you are careless about life, and you live it to the fullest. The continuation of that part of the song is "we get by just fine here on minimum wage. If love is a labor I'll slave to the end. I wont cross these streets until you hold my hand." Its talking about living life with the one you love, and not caring what anyone else thinks. Not listening to society and doing things the way you want it. Its a song about independance.

Anymore questions and you can come to me if you'd like. =D Hope this helped.

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Okey, so i dont really know what i need help with, i just needed to talk to someone. Im soo sick of appearance being everything! Last summer, i got a makeover at a beauty salong..and the week after that i met a couple of friends that i hadn't seen for a while..
And now, im gonna see them again..and they've told everyone they know that im coming and that im really hot and stuff..so everyone is gonnna be expecting me to be gorgeous!! And im really not, i wont afford going to that beauty salong again :S and ive gotten fatter since then..and my hair is messed up, and my teeth are yellow :( im soo freaking out at the moment..i mean i dont wanna let my friends down..theyve gotten more popular since everyone is hanging out with them so they'll introduce them to me..
And imm not gonna be hot anymorwe :( they're gonna hate me, and im gonna hate myself. theres no way i can get hott in 2 weeks, or is there?

Thank you for choosing me to answer your question. =D
First off, I want to say that you really shouldnt care about what people think about you. If they really are your friends, then they wont care what you look like...they'll care about who you are. Thats what a real friend is. They most likely wont care what you look like, but just incase, I will try to help you. About your weight...it depends on how soon you are going to see your friends. You could go jogging on your free time. Jogging is a lot of fun if you take your iPod or something with you. You could do 500 crunches everyday before you see your friends...it really works well. Also, if you get any magazines, they have tips on how to work out...and sometimes have yoga moves for you. If you dont have any mags, then try getting some from people you know. About your hair...you dont need to go to the most expensive salon. You can find quality anywhere. If you still cant get your hair done, try something new. You can deffinatly get your hair looking good. Think of a new hairstyle or something like that. If you have money, you can go to the closest CVS or something and buy some stuff...like do it yourself highlights that your mom or friend can help you with. Your teeth can be fixed within a week. Again, if you have money or can get money, Crest White Strips work SO well. Within the next day my teeth were much whiter.
If you cant get the look that you want, just do your best. Your friends shouldnt care what you look like. If you arent comfortable with your apperance, then draw the attention to your personality.

Hope this helped. Come to me if you have anymore questions...I'd appriciate it. =D

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17/f ..all the time i cry..about little things and i get upset very easily sometimes i jsut sit in the bathroom and cry...i think about my life and whats going on and i just break down..does anybody know what i can do.or have an idea whats wrong? please help i rate high

If you're having problems with depression you could always write it out. Get a journal or book of some sort and just write what's going on down on paper. It makes it easier. Also, read a lot. Books are like a vacation from the ordinary. If that dosent work, try blasting some music in your bedroom or something. Its bound to help. =D

Hope this works...
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