i know that guys dont like clingy girls, and i know that guys dont like girls that are to "separated" if you know what i mean...so my question is...what is in between clingy and separated to where it is just right and the relationship will not fail due to this type of problem....and also in that "just right state," how does the person act?
Lights_Fade_Out answered Thursday June 9 2005, 10:01 am: If you dont want to be clingy, but you want to be close your boyfriend, make HIM want to be close with YOU. Just try leaving him alone for a few days, and make him talk to you. If not, you could always do this...when he asks you to call him, just tell him you will call him in a few minutes...you're busy. Or just tell him you'll call later. Dont make it seem like you're obsessed with talking with him. Also, when you're on the phone with him, you be the one to tell him that 'you have to go' some of the time. He will like to know that you have a life outside of him. Some guys DO like clingy girls because it makes them seem like they are important and wanted.
hope this helped. you can ask me anymore questions if you'd like =D
Michele answered Thursday June 9 2005, 6:21 am: Well maybe you should be friends first. Friends are comfortable with each other. They would never put demands on each other. They respect each other differences and don't try to change each other. Friends trust each other too, All of those things are needed, along with love, to make a relationship work.
So friends act concerned, caring, interested in the other person, and share their feelings and their ideas. Things like that, hope it helps.
Mandalove answered Thursday June 9 2005, 5:33 am: Know your signals, and control youself. Watch what you're doing and how he repsonds if he isn't pleased he'll let you know, usually by body language. I think it differs between guys on what they like, so good luck. [ Mandalove's advice column | Ask Mandalove A Question ]
orphans answered Thursday June 9 2005, 5:04 am: i actually like clingy girls. but that's just me. i like my girl to be as all over me as she can be... it's a turn on. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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