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should i keep going or give up
I really really like this guy and he is like everythink i ever wanted(cute, can talk to him, and actually has friends...lol)well, he recently broke up with his girlfriend and she was really not "loving" and never was by him when he wanted her to be. well, he knows i like him and when we hang out sometimes he flirts and i think he likes me, but when we r talking online, i have to be the one to say, "hi, whats up," and doesnt seem interrested at all, he only really talks to me when i bring up a good subject, but when i dont have a good conversation starter, words are minimal...and sometimes doesnt resopond to my little questions like, "how r you doing?" I dont wanna sound desperate and be like,"why arent you talking to me? or do you not like me? should i leave you alone?"...things like that...so im asking...should i keep going(if so what should i do)...or let him go and find someone else?
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maybe he's busy when you talk to him?
i dont know, this is my opinion but..
i think you shouldn't talk to him online a whole lot. it could get him mad at you, or vise versa. who knows?
good luck darling.
p.s. dont stop liking him (=
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Ughhh, I know how you feel and I HATE that with a passion. My crush of 3 years always used to do that. But honestly, I don't think it's that he's not interested. Some guys are just plain out *boring* online, and sometimes are a little to shy or nervous to talk to you. Now in my experience, I had the same exact problem as you. I'd ask him something and he wouldn't answer. Or I'd IM him, and then we'd talk for like 2 min. then there would be nothing to talk about. My suggestion is limit talking to him online (that's what I did and it kinda worked) maybe call him so you guys can talk one on one. Or just stick to talking to him in person. That's what I did, and it turned out my crush DID like me. Unfortunatly, it was the wrong time and I had already found a girlfriend lol ;)
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A good idea would be to ask him out. If things don't work out between you two you can still be friends. With the msn thing, that happens to me all the time with everybody. It's normal, I have no idea why people do that but it is normal. ~K.C~
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I know that this is going to be very hard for you but the best thing would probably be to ask him out. It would be less of your time to waste with trying to decipher his feelings and then you wouldn't have to worry about signals if he were to say yes. IF. If he says no then , you know that it wasn't meant to be and that's not your fault. You'll have to let him go with someone else who may be the one for him. IF HE DOESN'T REJECT YOU. I know it seems terribly forward, but that's the only way b/c you're not getting anywhere right. Well, bust the move and goodluck. Hope I was some help and have a nice day.
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wait it out if he likes you then he will bring it up bsides you do know what alot of guys do on the internet dont you.....
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ok "giving" this is whats up its sometimes that people are bored online most people like talking on the phone i know that me and my boyfriend love the phone more than IM because he likes to hear my voice and i like hearing his go for him see him more and talk to him on IM less its not doing the course of your relationship any good phone more and publice more maybe evan PRIVATE good luck and remember i'm always here
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What you should do is pretend that you aren't intrested. If it seems like he he is intrested then most likely he is. He is basically taking advantage of what he can get. He is tryin to see how long you will like him. The longer you like him the more he feels macho. So for a while pretend you dont like him, like by flirting with other guys. He will soon be crawling back to you.
Good luck
~Princess Ava~
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